Would You Stay With Your Husband If.....?

bones7778	my1st. wife slept with my brother and i should of ended it when i found out,(ayear later ) we had went to counciling because of my jealousy because i though she was messin with him, when i found out our marriage had gotten better, so i stayed and that was the worste thing i could do, when they cheat leave em

mmurray001	It is my thoughts that you are blinded into thinking that everyone will tell you to leave your husband. I understand that you have two children and are pregnant with your third child you have been together eight years . you love him so much are you in love with him there's a difference in being in love . you also have low self esteem , A Man that would sleep with his wife's sister has no respect for you or your children at all. Your not confused in your heart you know what to do, This is your choice and not mines do what will make you and your family happy. Please don't keep saying that you are with this man because of the children what you don't realize children can feel the tension also they are people to. So if mommy is unhappy they will no this is not good for you or your unborn child going through this situation just think about your children and the unborn one also. This is your choice remember that. Best of luck

Cool Chic	hell no He %^$#$% my sister but, but, I LLOOVE HIIM If he brings you home AIDS next time and causes your kids to watch you die from it will you still LLLOVVVE HIMMMMM???????? So what that you love him. It's not about you, it's about him and he is a cheater of the worst kind and if he banged your sister, mark my words he has banged many others. GO get an std test Mrs. InLove I do wish you luck, but go get a test for your own safty)

mag	He can't get any lower unless he sleeps with his daughter. it will be hard but you feel better onces you move on from him. you still need to have the friendly relationship for the children's sake, but lovers no.

tree gal	No sorry, NOT! Are you crazy! You are #1 and can do better! Sounds like you maybe insecure with yourself. Do your children a favor. You want to teach them right from wrong ,that is wrong !. Good luck!

ANTActress	Everyone can say whatever they want until they've been in the situations themselves. I mean you have to think about how much you love your husband and how much he loves you. Just because you all have children together doesn't mean you should stay together- children should NEVER be the reason why couples stick together if they aren't happy. But then think about is your relationship worth fighting for, is it worth working things out, is it worth you continuing to play the role of his wife? Think about that. Also question is he really in love with you and does he love the kids if he did a selfish act like that? There's much for you to think about. You can hear other's opinions but you need to spend time thinking about everything - if it's worth it (the crying, depression, stress, frustration, confusion,etc.) or not? Wish you all the best...and I'll be praying on your relationship...and for your sister as well- that was just wrong of her too...

Anji	Wow.....my sincere apologies are with you... A sister who would do something this shallow is really misguided on her moral compass....I hope she feels like sh*t but she must be a sociopath. As for him....you may love someone a whole lot but you can also love yourself even more. Cheating is bad enough but to do that with your own sister - - wow, that takes some nerve... So, my advice to you - - kids do not make you helpless, unworthy and unable to better yourself because you deserve better. Never ever doubt what you are worth....

bcyouletme	Your sister?! Come one, let's have some self respect ladies. First, tell your sister what she can do...she obviously doesn't respect you knowing you two are married and have your third kid on the way. And no, you shouldn't stay with him, regardless of your history or your pregnancy. Even if he's the only person you have ever loved, it is obvious he doesn't love you or he wouldn't have touched your sister. Especially while carrying his THIRD child.

micky m	tell your sister to keep away and expalin the problem to your sister hopefully she willl undertsnad!!

BeachBum	Yes...is not the answer here.

Green Eyes isall I'z got	sorry if you are looking for honesty you will get it here.. it can hurt though. he screwed around with your sister... HELLO?!!?!?! That is lower then low. I don't care how big the herd is, leave his *** before you end up on Springer.

Rebecca	Go to a counselor, and kick your sis to the curb for awhile.

koinoi	My dad had an affair with my moms sister for about a year when i was 9-10 yrs old. My mom forgave and took him back and forgave her sister.....i am 31 now and my father is deceased and have forgiven him but i have a hard time forgiving her and my mom still has a hard dealing with her sister at times. There are just some things that can never be erased.

queen brat supreme	Sorry but here's what I'd do. It looks and sounds like to me the trust is gone from your marriage. That to me is what it's all based on. When it's gone what else is there? And furthermore what in the blazes is up with your sister?

kttphoenix	Do you know this for a fact or is your sister or someone else saying this to stir up trouble? Not aywith my brother I would wnat absolute shatter proof evidence that something happened before I made such a decision.

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Smoker06	I stick around at least until I got a Jerry Springer gig.

â™¥	how can you love a man who shows you this huge lack of respect AND love? he can still be with his kids if you leave him. respect has to be earned, but in some cases also demanded.

Giselina	Love yourself more than you love him. You deserve better...OH and make sure you slap the Sh** out of your sister.

atbkkj	absolutely, i would i cant believe your sister would do that to you you deserve better

Marissa M	talk to him. if you truly dont believe he regrets it, then what is there left? you said so yourself it was forever, but what happens when he doesnt think so? i know you have children but im sure there are many decent men around the world who would be a better father to your children. i wish you luck in whatever you decided.

Whitewolfct	No!!!!!!! Jeez -- I feel bad for you. Some people get mad at their spouses for flirting with a stranger . . . how much of a right do you have to be mad at your husband for . . . The only thing I can say -- to be constructive yet truthful -- if he can do it once, he can do it again. Can you live with that? You know the answer. I wish you strength and wisdom. You will need it. Gather your friends and family around you. You will need them, too. Do what's best for you and your kids. Do you want that presence around them or you? Do you want your kids growing up seeing you miserable or witnessing anything like 'that'? Do the right thing and have your circle of friends and family help you do it and survive. You will get through it. Just make sure you get through it the right way. My best to you.

LuvAll	O.K. Now you are being real weak. Did you love your husband when he was lying between your sister's legs? Do you still love him, now that you know he has had your sister? Would you want a man to do this to your daughter? If he loved you like you love him, he would have never messed with your sister. As far as your sister, I have 4, and trust me I would have beat her A** and put my husband out. Your sister will always be your sister but you don't have to put up with this.

Jo Bear	Sorry to say but you won't be getting any positive answers here. Yes, 8 years is a very long time to be with someone and devote time to, however, for those moments of pleasure..you were the furthest thing from his mind and so were his children and the life you have shared for 8 years together. Can you work it out and get passed this. I think only the two of you can answer that. You have to weigh everything that will effect the both of you. It's so easy to just walk away as most would tell you. Getting over infidelity is never easy and the trust factor sure won't come back that quick. Don't stay in this relationship for the kids, you'll not only make yourself miserable, but them as well. If you want to work through this, the effort has to be made on both sides and not just on your behalf. By the way, loving someone doesn't guarantee you love in return, remember that. He also had the opportunity when it presented itself and he took it for granted and your relationship to go right with it. If you are going to drop this now and move on with him, then you'll have to accept whatever consequences that go with it.

bouiver	what about therapy try talking to him it hurts kids when dad leaves i saw my friends daughter huh her dad he left his wife the other day its hard try working it out if not then leave but make sure he pays support and sees his kids its about them good luck

bigdaddy9965	it takes two to tangle and your sister is wrong to, maybe he regrets what he did and just maybe he wont do it again, it wont hurt if you give him another chance, BUT I would have a talk with my sister if i was you

Jay	my dad cheated on my mom n the only reason she stayed wit him was bc I was only three years old n she was pregnant again, but u shudnt stay wit him just bc of ur children if u really believe u should stay with him then you should my mom is always wishing that she had left a long time ago, but im not saying u shouldn't try to make it work

James	nope, but I do realize you must be feeling kind of stuck being pregnant and all,you need to leave its better for your kids, you may love him but, he does not love you. Get out when you can take some time alone and you will find the love you deserve,,,honestly you sound desperate and lonely your own sister and husband just screwed you over, NO ONE deserves that!! Wake up dude..

rivasj27	nope