Would it be cheating if...?

adotson3	i would sit down and talk to her face to face or i would cut the internet off altogether...but no its not normal her talking to some randome guy like that is not normal try to give her some attention from u... good luck

DeltaQueen	No, that's not normal at all. There comes a time when a line has to be drawn and she has went WAAAAYYYY over it.

PuterPrsn	It's a known phenomenon, and yes, it is a form of cheating that the participants justify by saying they've never met in the flesh. Anyone who has met online and then married will tell you it's just as close a relationship online as next door.

Daniel T	well, it's emotional cheating and it ain't normal or tolerable AT ALL.

Rattlehead	Anything that compromises your relationship is bad. The fact that she is giving this guy so much of her time/attention is not good for your relationship.

nemraC	Not cheating, but u sure are nice to allow that to happen, my husband wouldn't allow that.

HoTTY_wiTH-SexY-bODY!!!	uhhhhhhhhhh..... thats a hard one but wat buisness does she have if she si married to you and talking to some random man she has no clue who the hell he is yup she is up to something .. hi my nasme is jackie and i am 13

Alex	well you can check her IMs there are some kind of programs to see what people send to eachother, and if you have a chance come home early from work.

ice princess	I would be worried

Spy Girl	Not normal, and probably not acceptable if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, but tread lightly...she's not cheating if she's never met him. Address your concerns with her the best way you can (stay calm & rational), and if she continues to run up the phone bill, do something drastic like having it disconnected. There's no reason to have a $2K phone bill. Stamps & letters would be a lot cheaper!

pirate	** that... you better check your wife. that ** aint cool in my book.

Bailey T	no

gimmieswag	u can file for divorce for Internet relationships nowadays its not normal ...2000 bux ..dam

janice t	is she nuts or are you nuts/thats a hell of a phone bill.

MetaShadow	Well, I wouldn't say thats cheating but its not normal either

Kittykat	that's not normal at all. i'm not sure what's up, but if you confront her with it and tell her you'd like her to tone things down a bit and she gets defensive...something isn't right also, there's a fine line between "just friends" and more then friends

retrodragonfly	I wouldn't call what your wife does as cheating but she should cut back on talking to him since its getting expensive.

friend	No,put a stop to it now,friendships always lead to a relationship.

veronica s	look she is and she only playing you that means that she don't love you

Bear Naked	Dude....you got yourself a situation there.

sugaree	no, i would not. a $1000 a month phone bill is a lot of talking.

n9wff	LONG SHOT, looks like she is planning to ride another horse in the other stable Don't know how the home life is but if she is spending more time with him instead of you, the answer you already know.

CLICKER12US	maybe she's sending you a message saying she don't want to be with you anymore. why don't you ask her about it

phoebeme3	It is definately cheating. Don't put up with that crap another minute. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Emotional adultery is just as bad (if not worse) than physical adultery, in my opinion. It hurts you just the same.

joloaz213	I (as a woman) would consider that if not cheating very inappropriate. I would be devastated if my husband talked that much with another woman. Good luck.

offerofopinion	My opinion is intimacy in any form - whether physical or verbal is to some degree cheating. Cheating, in my opinion, is "cheating your partner" of something that should only be shared with him or her or should be shared with him or her first...

too_cute_cheer94	yes

masterurownmind	It depends on what they talk about.

hotmomma	Not normal at all!!!

the sweetest thing	it's not normal and it's form of cheating!

Catt	If she's not cheating, it's the prelude to it. I think I would have been in divorce court over the 2k phone bill alone, geez.