Would you...?

feysunny	Women like you dig their own grave and then blame everyone else!! If you are a happily married couple, usually neither one of you will want to part for 3 days and nights for a bachelor party!!! Did you not know what happens in bachelor's parties? Wake up and smell the coffee. Good Luck.

lsp	no i wouldn't but i don't trust men in that kind of situation.why would any woman want their husband out with strippers and alcohol.your normal for not wanting him to go . i would forbid and i have.my hubby would come back to an empty house.I know i sound srtict but i've been burned before

whome	Tell him that you agreed to let him go, but now he should agree to be tested for STD's to give you peace of mind.

john	let him/ her go and bang the pool boy, or nanny instead...

i_want_a_hemi	Yes, without trust, your marriage is based on nothing.

Guy	I just let my wife go to vegas too for three days. no worries here. You go have fun!

Colby B	I'm the same way! Just call him a lot! :-) Keep busy!

Lisa R	If I wasn't the least bit certain that he wouldn't fool around, I would have asked him not to go. Do you think he'd cheat on you?

Daisy1Luv	NO, what are u nuts???? lol

sonia	Hell no. i would never let my husband go.

Tree Man	Hello: It would appear that there are a few elements that stand out for me here. One is that you seem to want to please him without regard to your own feelings and wishes. Two is that your level of trust for him is low or that you are insecure, perhaps both. Three is that he would go himself to such an obvious intimidating environment. I cannot say more because I do not know other key elements that would detail the nature of your relationship. If you wish to communicate with me, I'd be glad to respond. Regards, Tree Man

Rev. Bobby L. Adams	Yes, because I trust my wife. And I know that nothing would happen.

Drew's Mom	Since you already let him go you now need to figure out how to deal with it. He's there - he's doing whatever he wants to do - and no matter what you think or how you feel he's going to do what he wants to and unless he tells you the truth you'll never REALLY know what happened. You just need to trust that man that you love and believe that he loves and repsects you enough not to be unfaithful. Good luck!

ken E	well u should have told him you do care and he cant go!! if your mind says he wouldnt cheat but your heart says yes he would. follow your feelings. its imposible for your feeling to lie to you

fire wife	It sounds like you either don't trust your husband, or you're just being paranoid. I don't know if your husband has cheated on you in the past to make you feel this way but, if he has, you should have left then. If he hasn't cheated on you before, then why are you so paranoid? My husband goes to Las Vegas every year with his friends. I use the time to spend either alone, or with my friends or family. I don't worry about him at all...because I trust him.

Lydia	It's not a question of "let", he would not do this.

heartbroken_butdetermined	I say if you trust him, let him go. And if you dont ... you need to find out why you dont trust him. I would let my husband go in a heartbeat. Men sometimes need that guys-only get-a-way

Butterfly	It would not bother me at all because I love my man and trust him and I know he loves me with all his heart and has no interest in being with another woman. He would also trust me to do the same.

Wintermute	Obviously you are a little bit less cool wife than you want to be. If you REALLY go crazy about the situation, go there fastly, hide and watch. Or quickly hire a private detective. This is my strategy when I can't stand something: Action. Untill today - 100% success.

royalsip	hopefully you married a man you trust with your whole heart if you trust him you don't have anything to worry about if you have doubts you probably have reason to worry and not just when he goes to vegas

sharon	You are the best person to judge if he is the trustworthy type or not. You know him, you know his behavior in different situations. So, what do you think? If he is trustworthy, I am sure that this time spent apart is just going to strengthen the relationship. I mean you both are going to realize how important you are for each other and how much you both are missing one another... Also, the fact that your mind is running wild sounds a little unhealthy to me. That is because it seems like it is consuming a lot of your energy and turning you into a negative emotional wreck which could probably affect the relationship in a bad way too (for example if he calls you from Las Vegas you could sound jealous and "oppressive" to him). Please just try to relax, pamper yourself and take things as the come to you since worrying is hardly going to help.

oscar	hey what happens in VEGAS stay's n VEGAS. . . what you dont know wont hurt, damn girl do your own thang as well....

Red	When he gets back you can figure out what body language he uses when he lies.

Lisa H	I don't think I would let my husband go, especially if he was going to do something to cause him to get herpes.

woolly worm	THAT WAS GAMBLING ABOVE AND BEYOND, PUT HIM IN QUARANTINE WHEN HE RETURNS FOR A MONTH TO BE SURE.

madamoiselle_2	If it would happen to me I would be in the same boat as you. The biggest thing to do is for you to trust him. Your mind will continue going crazy until you see him come home. Just take deep breaths and go out with some friends and forget he's gone. The more you think about it, the more you drive yourself to distrust him.

doctdon	don't let your mind be your own worst enemy. if you have never had a reason to feel this insecure then let it go and do something on your own. spend time with friends or something you enjoy.

src8784	You are so cute... I definatly would let my husband, in fact for his birthday this next year, when he gets home from Iraq, I am sending him to vegas with his buddies for the weekend... Getting him a nice bungalow, at the Palms right by the pool, with all the hot girls!!! Why you might ask? Because my hubby loves me and I trust him with everything. He likes to look at cute women and so do I... Something for the taste buds!!! Make sure you ask him how it went? be inthused, if he did something wrong, he will feel so guilty for you not being a psycho nagging wife about his weekend, that he would end up telling you!!!!

*?MafiaGirl?*	Call him and clarify NOW