Would you consider a woman who does not want to have children a waste of human life?

bri b	ok, yeah, that is pathetic. If she scared to have kids because of pain, then she needs to get a reality check. but, women can choose not to have kids if they don't WANT them. you know? some people like to live with no distractions. children can sometimes get in the way witha career or something. its there choose not to have them, but over fear of pain? She's definately not Stoic.

April	Oh contraire.... she should be made a saint.... The world has enough children, many of whom will never have a home. This planet has 6.5 billion people and counting, and counting, and counting. Should the lady not ever have children, look at her wonderful options _ she'll be able to have more that $250,000 more in her IRA (the cost of raising one kid to age 20) she can take a husband and the two of them travel the world because they would have two incomes. Children are not binders, they are divisive, and more and more marrying couples are choosing to remain childless......and in First World countries where a pregnancy is a choice, these upper class couples are indeed choosing to be childless and enjoying all the lovely things money can buy. Italy, for example, at the present rate of growth is now loosing population..... Having children doesn't necessarily guarantee that they will all grow up and continue to love you.... that, of course we all know, since we all have friends who have family members who are not speaking..... So, no sweetie, being childless has some real advantages..... think about 'em... Helpful??

Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot	No. the losers are the kids who come into the world without a chance because their parents either don't want them or are in no position to care for them. This isn't fair to the child. She is making a very responsible choice if she truly doesn't want kids.

Common Sense	No.

Darby	Well then, you go ahead and have the children for her.

cope_acetic	NO!!!! I respect her a LOT, because most people who would be horrible parents are still allowed to BE parents---and they abuse or neglect those kids! That girl is very smart, and she will someday have a great and profitable life.

Angelicious05	No, some women just dont want to have kids either because she knows there are children out there already that need homes, or because she is a person who can only focus on herself. some times its best women like that dont have kids..nothing wrong with that..its perfectly fine

G-pops	Not a total waste if she's a good cook! lol (sorry ladies)

butterflylover	Nope! But you? Maybe..

dr. feelgood	yes

tonib1989	well to you maybe she is a loser. it is her opinion. and her decision. and no she is not a waste of human life. child birth is painful and rewarding it is just a decision that people make why should it matter.

Jack P	Maybe you could judge better if you had any idea of the pain involved in childbirth and the responsibility of raising a child. Women, or men, are not just baby-making machines.There is a lot more one can do on this planet than breed.

General Custer	She'll change her mind when she grows up.

Country Boy Can Survive	Wait arent u married? Why are u chattin with other girls. And no shes not a looser shes either not ready yet or doesnt want kids,either way atleast shes honest.

kaye t	Coming from a person who will never have to go through actually having kids himself, you sure are one to talk.

Hey Damnâ„¢ you	for whatever reason,if someone doesn't want children,that is their option. And,no,it doesn't make her a loser,just you for asking this question.And Yeah it hurts like hell for some women(I gave birth to 2 and I was able to do that w/ out the use of pain meds.I lucked out)

Lex M	she shouldnt be if you love/like her......

Kitty	NO, because there is a lot of different reasons a women doesnt want to have kids, she isnt chicken, maybe she doesnt want to bring children into this world because of how bad it is becoming. I would love to have kids! But I have a lot of friends that dont want kids for that reason, they want to adapt and try to raise the kids right. Good luck in all you do!

sweetbahama mama	no she is not , its just a choice she thinks is permanat , later down in life she would realize wat a blessing kids r? i dnt have kids yet but i think they r a blessing. she would then see that they mean the world to her, they would be her everything. it is one thing to love some one and they love you back. but its different wen some one actually comes from you, u would be grateful to no that u have some one who ur sure would love u forever, and u would love them forever.

charmel5496	no,its a personal choice..woman are not here just to have children....maybe she didnt like you and said that so you would leave her alone

Le_Roche	Wrong. A loser is someone who isn't responsible enough to have a child and has one (or more) anyway. A loser is someone who knownigly isn't financially or emotionally capable of being a parent, and has kids anyway. This means men and women. The biggest losers are people who think women are just breeders with no thought or control over their own bodies and actions. What a different world this would be if people actually THOUGHT about what it takes to be responsible parents before having kids.

--------	Hi Jason, SOme girls think that because they are yopung. It is good to talk about before becoming serious with someone. I am childless and know the pain associated with it. More pain than childbirth and not something to make light of

Big Jimi	That's a bit harsh !

Stareyes	No, she can adopt if she wants to. Many women can not have children and they choose to adopt or chose not to have children.

?	when you try squeezing a watermelon out of your *** get back to me alright?

moonshadow	No! There are plenty of kids that need good homes out there and just because she has low pain tolerance is no need to judge her like that. I have two kids and the pain was so bad during birth and I don't care what anyone says you don't forget the pain...plus I had to have an emergency c-section the first time after being in labor for more than 34 hours...so I would disagree with you. Would you want to have a baby come out of you?

GoodCounsel	I'm sure the reasons for her not wanting to have children run far deeper than the pain, because there are several medications on the market today that have virtually eliminated labor pains. Either she is young and that opinion will change, or she is afraid that she may not have what it takes to be a good mother.

freaky b	nope, i don't think so. maybe she has very low pain threshold. besides, women do still DIE giving birth.

darrellkern	Well maybe if you had to carry around a kicking basketball around for nine months then push a watermelon through your peehole you might have a little compassion and empathy. You could also tell her that there are drugs availiable so women feel very little or almost no pain. Then take her to a good and reputable doctor who could explain the pain process to her that may help her to aleviate her fears. Also a doctor will remind her that most women do not remember the pain shortly after the birth. Also try to imagine taking a **** the size of a watermelon ask yourself, would a loser hold it in or crap it out like a man?

Tori	No, I think someone who makes blanket judgments and has a very closed mind is a waste of human life.