Would you forgive your spouse if they stole money from you?

Simply Lovely	It would depend on how much and why. When you are married, at least at our house, it all goes into one account. So if my husband takes money, then technically it is his. Now if I have money in my purse and he takes it without saying anything, then we might have a problem.

Steve P	yeah, share. her money is my money is our money. If the question is really that the spouse spends our money unwisely without talking about it. Then we would have to have a discussion about that.

princessC@ndii	I would but it would be hard for me. Because hey I would at least show respect and ask my man 4 money..instead of stealing! Plus spouces have to save independent money for themselves!!

Just Bein' Me	It is both of our money. So, if he needed it he can have it without stealing it. Money is so materialistic anyway.

Star	the money belongs to both of you unless you have a marriage of yours and mine.

Mr.Boombastic	How can your spouse steal money from you? Isn't it all shared and equal? It should be, if not. That would eliminate this problem. But if your spouse has an issue where you need to keep money from them, then I suggest counciling.

Tommy M	How much?? lol I would take it out in trade

cajun4talk2u	I am single but I have a friend whose wife divorced him because he did just that.

musicv22	Yes. Just like the Bible says, you should ALWAYS forgive and forget.

Goodness Gracious	No my money is mine and he better never touch it.

christn3	You are married, your stuff legally is their stuff, its not stealing, you live together, u share a bed, come on, just tell them to let you know next time and get over it.

Jenn <Double N>	It would depend on how much and what the money went for. I would have preferred he asked me first but if he needed it for a good reason I would definitely be angry but I would forgive him. If it wasn't a good reason he'd have a lot of explaining and a ton of making up to do.

Jessica M	how does your spouse steal from you? i thought that marriage means that you share and share alike.

DJ23	spouses share money buddy. thats what marriage is. sharing is caring.

chrysti's midlife crisis	his money is mine and mine is his....so stealing isnt needed

Spindrift	Not if they didn't ask first. I'd find out why they took it and why they felt they couldn't ask for it.

Anthony G	Um if you are married... The money is in the pot...first come first serve. But...there might be an underlying issue. If you are talking hundreds of dollars from a joint account...but if you are talking about $20 bucks...get over it...it's just money.

cspanny	How do u steal from a spouse...U share...unless they took money for drugs or something....get over it.

huckypeep2	What money did they steal? Money in a marriage should be shared.

kalindi	i dont understand - your married, isn the money family money? if they took it for something selfish i would br angry but you forget these things after a while

Jenn V	It depends on how much it was. Why wouldn't they feel like they could just ask to borrow it? It would make me wonder what else they're being sneaky about

clark21fan	NOPE! OUT THEY GO!!!

Teedo	you should always forgive someone. just talk it over with them.

eldormilon	Yes, and then I would tell her to #$%$ off out of my life.

Bob	Well, legally what's mine is hers so can she really steal it from me?

Bernedette	NO! I would not forgive a friend, spouse, or any family member.

jenn_147	NEEEVVEERRRRRR!!!

jk	yes

Angela	Don't spouses share money?

renagadesofunk	It should all be shared.