Would you let your spouse visit his/her ex without you?

Lady Hewitt	Yes i would if i knew it was strictly platonic and if they had kids together but i personally would try to go with him if i could. Nothing like being there with your husband as a couple when you see the ex again. I feel that if you can trust your spouse then letting them go without you with them is fine but if they cannot be trusted then no they should not go without you.

Bobo	Trust is not enough, to resist temptation, i will say NO

God Bless America	Why can't you go? If she doesn't want you to go then I would be worried. If she doesn't mind if you go, but you can't then I wouldn't be worried.

Magicman	Totally depends on the reason for the visit. A child invoved then yes, you can't stop that. Traveling a far to visit when they have seperated, divorced or whatever then there is no sense to it. It shows they still have feelings for their ex

Earthman	Yes as our love is bulit on trust and not on jealous or other evil thinking. If he/she is your Mr/Miss Right, he/she can go out with anyone without affecting our relationship.

jamesfentress44	Sure, why not....while she's gone to visit her ex... I'll be searching for my next....because if there's no more adhesion than that holding us together, we don't belong together anyway.

abc	yes

avavu	No,never.If he does,he can stay there forever.I will never beg a man to stay with me.

tooyoung2bagrannybabe	No, he has NO reason to visit his ex.

farra	big fat no!

freedomrings	Yes, because I have faith in him.

joyceeleann	Yes

amy h	no way....the deal would be you go, i follow!! I'm sorry but there's trust then there's taking the mick and the chap defiantly is, he cant expect to go alone now he has a new girlfriend.....

axix9	If they had kids or something, by himself/herself, then probably yes. If no, and he/she wants to see his/her ex for a friendly chat or whatever, why can't you come along? If you have an open an honest relationship, you should be just as much a part of his/her social life with anyone he/she is. If my partner requested to see his ex without me there, watch out!! :-) I always think, what do they have to hide..?

donna_honeycutt47	It really makes no sense in "Why she would even want to". She is your Spouse and Not his and there is no reason for her to go see him at all. She is actually asking your permission for her to rekindle their affair. This has nothing to do with trust, this is just common sense.

oldman	Knowing how my wife feels about her Ex....yup no worries....wait a minute...maybe not she may kill him LOL

sweetgranny06	i don't think you should unless she gets a divorce unless they have kids she wouldn't have a reason to see her ex why would she want too and she is a married women trust is one thing but why would a person wait till their married to want to visit their ex

msthinkpositive	NO, why would they need too?

Bill I	No! Ground once conquered is easily regained.

Greeneyedqt	I'm married, 12 years almost why would I want to go visit my ex by myself? I don't care how close we are!! It's called respect

freeman3905@sbcglobal.net	no way baby NO

caraanne2005	the distance doesn't really matter but...why does she still keep in touch and are you ok with that? if so....then her visiting probably wouldn't be a problem....but YOU should be her #1 priority now!

gypsyveg	It depends. Have you met him? Are you welcomed to tag-a-long? Has she given you reason not to trust her? Personally, my answer would be no. If it's a vacation, you should be going. If it's to just hang out with him, why? And if they are in contact by phone, what is she sharing with her ex that she's not sharing with you?

clueless	yeah

Suzy Q	no way jose i fyou are stupid then put your stupid hat on end the thing with leaveing the person you are dating hes playing with x and getting it also.

momof3	Yes and Good luck 2 her!!! lmao

Bree	No. If they are truly friends she won't mind sharing him and should be happy to introduce you. He is an exboyfriend and even though they are not having an affair going alone to another city or state or country to visit is a bit much for anyone to expect you to be okay about it. Its important though to be careful how you approach it with her. Tell you love her, how you feel about it without accusing her of wrong intentions. That will simply cause a big fight and she won't hear your side at all. Keep calm, share your feelings not your anger and see what happens. Like my mother always said (hate to admit she was right) Its not what you say but how you say it. Good luck.

nzstarrz	if my hubby wanted to, their sure as hell better be a good reason, course when she called one day 10 years ago i handed him the phone, he was so pissed and told her to quit calling!

ValÂÂÂ®	no absolutely not. You MUST go with her.

mnkystp28	without trust you have nothing. if you have nothing you can trust between you wouldn't you rather find out sooner than later? Trust your instincts and don't be naive, but trust in your partner is key to being able to know if they should be your partner