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Would you marry a girl who is beautiful and has many wonderful qualities...but can't cook?

I have a lot of good points...but cooking definitely isn't one of them lol. But men seem to place so much importance on a woman's culinary skills. I'm 20 and I know many other girls my age who also can't cook. So maybe I'll learn eventually, who knows;-)







m
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If she works, if she cant cook then she must get off her lazy behind and go to work.


Jo
Well, think of it this way -- can you live with her and accept the fact that you will be doing the cooking? or would you rather find a cook & hopefully have the connection with her that you do with this girl?


ekdikeo69
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Not being able to cook is often an indicator of someone who has done nothing for them self, which means you depend on others to do for you and make you happy.

It would depend on your other qualities, but I would be very hesitant to marry you


sadeyez
cooking is only one of thing Mr .right should be looking for first do you have a good heart are you a honest person these things are more important what are you looking for in him can he cook ' ? how does he treat you that's a better question !


whitecloud
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learn as you go i did now i cook great ,,,,,,,some one should marry you because they love you as a person not because of your skills hehe


Bondgirl
Marry a chef!!!!


tnt4all
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oh my that horrible.

after all a guy only has two emotions hungry and horny.
tough situtation - but oyu know what -

a lot of women toay have no idea how to cook - but they learn.
just remember if he's not horny, be prepared to put a sandwich in front of him.


Blackwidow
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People aren't born with the knowledge of getting recipes right. It is something that everyone has to learn. Sure there are people with natural talent. But that is in everything. Some people are just naturally better at somethings then others. But that doesn't mean that everyone else is completely incompetent! You can learn how to cook. Just pick a specific dinner, like Italian, or a pork chop dinner, or maybe even a few simple Asian recipes. Or a dessert. Try them out. Have a game plan! Pick a recipe, read over and over so you can get most of it remembered, and you are more comfortable with it. Make sure you have everything you need before you start. And that you have plenty of time to complete it. Go into it with a calm and open mind, and don't get frustrated if something doesn't come out right. Cooking is fun, I promise you. You just have to find the things your good at cooking. And it's just like anything else, you have to practice to get better.


canuticklemepink
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Yeah sure would I'm not looking for a caretaker i can handle cooking and cleaning


Jersey Boy
Not a problem for me, I can cook very well. To reverse the argument - would you marry a guy who couldn't fix anything?

Love, emotional connection and commitment are the important things for a long relationship.


rhsaunders
Sure. There are many things in life more important than cooking. For me, there is one quality that is more important than any other: intelligence. The quality of my relationships has been directly related to the female's brainpower, so when I last went looking, I joined Mensa. Score!


char__c is a good cooker
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You have to learn a little, no one can afford to eat out 3 times a day, 7 days a week especially paying for two people. It is economical to cook. It is easy, you should watch the food network channel on TV. It will inspire you! You certainly don't have to cook all the time but yes you need to know how. What if you have kids, you definitely couldn't eat out all the time unless you married a millionare, or someone who like to do all the cooking. That just is weird to me, men aren't suppose to cook! I guess I was just raised where women do the cooking.
It takes years to master the kitchen so don't be discouraged if things don't turn out the way it was suppose too. Try it agian till you get it right! Watch you mom or grandma it can be fun!!!!


THE BEAST
Maybe... It depends on what the other qualities are!


rich2481
hell yeah,, I love to cook and if you are a goddess and a wild woman in bed,, i would love to have someone like that,, cooking is nothing,, all the rest is the best


Jack P
Cooking is not totally essensial if the man can cook, as long as you have other talents.


diamondbullet66
Yes, why not. I will gladly do the cooking. I don't want a woman who can do it all, except in bed.


cookie
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I married a man who cooks because I hate it so much. Of course, he thinks I'm the most beautiful lady he's ever seen. Good luck and I suggest you find a man who can cook. Thank you.


Dr who
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Sure would in a heart beat.


dianesomeone
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take a cooking class....learn the basics...it's not that hard


Someday
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I wont get married to a man who cannot cook. Its neccessary for both man and his wife to know cooking. if either one of them does not know how to cook they should make an effort to learn cooking and cook together. Its so much fun.


paru remo
nothing doing.
a lot of restaurants are here....


Texan
Yes. Cooking is not a requirement. We can always eat out.


ecamp97
Probably 90% of guys the age you might marry would line up for blocks to marry an attractive and smart gal. Joan Rivers once quoted: get serious ladies; men didn't marry you for clean lanolium floors. Same goes for the cooking skills - you will learn unless your a princess.


bone
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does not matter, looks like it is fast food or a nice place to eat. if the love is there then that is all that matters


Wondrin Dude
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It doesn't matter if you know how to cook or even if you just plain aren't good at it. The only thing matters is if your willing to please your husband, cooking cleaning or anything. But of course, your husband must be willing to please you in those areas as well.
If I came in late from work, very hungry and tired; I certainly would not complain at all if my wife cooked me supper and it wasn't that good. If she didn't even make an effort to cook would not be welcomed. And vise versa. If she came in late and tired I would do my best to make sure she had something to eat too.


Richard
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Absolutely! I can cook and, even if I couldn't, there is more to life and love than cooking.


Tim
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hmm. i would go for mutual feelings instead. beauty doesn't matter to me.


carlos c
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well , I did marry a girl who was Hot and did'nt know how to cook, but in time, she learned, well I'll be honest, I taught her how to cook. we are still married and she can cook good, but I still do all of the cooking most of the time. It turns girls on when a guy cooks shirtless if you have a nice body, duh! It works for me!


beamer
Betty Mae Bop,
In time you'll be able to cook whatever you want (Betty Crocker Cookbook), don't worry about the small stuff worry about getting hooked up with the right guy. My wife couldn't boil water when we first were married (no kidding) and I bought her a cook book and I've been living like a king ever since. But if you continue to dine out it'll never happen so try. I can count the bad meals I've had on one hand and we just laughed and ate it anyway. Best of luck to you.


rastaman
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Marry a man that loves cooking, nothing wrong with that. But wont hurt to learn too. Especially when there are kids you cant starve them till dad gets home.







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