a question for the men?? adults please?

camhenson	Oral isn't important at all. Of course it's enjoyable and everything but as far as been a deal breaker that's a no. Now if a woman is pushing for oral everythime we're in bed together then refuses to return the favor then it might become a slight problem but other than that its not a problem.

private	You never have to "lower" your standards, for anyone else.

iSkeetSkeet	Deal breaker unless you are Halle Berry!

Get Your Dose Of Mickateen	Not a deal breaker.....thank god for my wifes sake. She would be an ex wife if that were the case.

RedFirst	its very important

Turd Ferguson	That's okay as long as you aren't expecting any either.

nydp02	My husband would say it is very very important. It would definitely be a deal breaker

The Joker	Yes its very important so get on your knees or your hubby will find someone who will if he that type of guy.

SethSpeaks	Married 20 yrs.. and it is really very nice, but not necessary every time. Once in awhile I think is fair since I do it for her whenever she wants.

allthumbs	I love oral.But I love giving oral more than receiving.

Tony M	I have been married 9 years. I would not say that it is a deal breaker, but if you can get it....I would say it a plus.

Stik	it shouldn't be a deal breaker that's just wrong she should [or he if he wants] want to do it it shouldn't be expected from anyone

Jaxx	Its a must. Haha no, not all the time. Sometimes i want it sometimes i don't. If my girl doesn't want to give me i wouldn't ***** about it.

yaktur	No, not important at all - the emotional and the condition of the heart are much more important!

Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess)	I know that my husband really likes receiving oral, but I really don't like giving it. Fortunately it was not a "deal-breaker" on his part, because otherwise we wouldn't be together.

Big Mike	well it is kinda importatnt & yeah it is a deal breaker in a relationship considering the deal of course but hope this helped out

jman03	Well after the personality part, oral is a huge plus, if a girls good at that then she can pretty much get a guy to do anything she wants! But it shouldnt make or break a relationship if you really love them

Dwayne B	Yeah, it would be hard to do without it. It would all depend on how I felt about the person. I would hate to think I was that shallow. But I would also hate to make someone do something they wouldn't want to do.

vee	Anything for my favorite lady is good I am a lady pleaser I love going down on a lady if she is confortable with it but that don't meen she has to do this to me unless she wants to. Love making for me is all for the lady. If I make my lady satisied then I am fine.No it should not be a deal breaker.

nottwoshort	It's as important to me as it is to my wife. If she wants me to go down on her she will reciprocate. If she won't give me oral, I won't do it for her. Both ways are equally tastefull....... no pun intended. What I mean is that a woman should WANT to do it for a man that same as if she wants a man to do it for her. Daisy...... Why in the world would age make a difference??

Daisy Bacler	Sorry to Butt in and answer this....I think that oral is just as important to men as it is to women.. I am married and have 3 kids, and my husband loves to give it to me as i to him. I also think that it varies with age. I guess what I am saying is that for a young couple it is very important, but it might not be if you are like an older woman.

Doug	It is not a deal breaker, love between two people should be only what is comfortable to both. What is it you don't like? Talk to your mate about it. Is it the taste, the smell, the hair, or just something you don't want to do? If he enjoys oral and you enjoy it, then let him go on to make you feel good. If he insists, then you should move on, love is not about something you don't want to do.