can my bf and i start all over?

my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 months. in the very start of our relationship we moved too fast, moved in together, and have had alot of horrible arguments, said alot of hurtful things and basically just had a very stressful and tense time together. the thing is, we are now at a point that we realize we love each other VERY much and we want to work on our relationship and stop the arguing and fighting. we both admitted that its BOTH our faults. now we are trying to find a couple's therapist, in hopes of starting all over, bringing back the romance, dating each other and NOT living together, and hoping that this will bring back the passion, fun and beauty that we had when we first met and started to get involved.

but i'm a little scared that we wont be able to do it - like its too late bcz of how far we went with each other and how bad things got with the arguing. i'm willing to try and go for it and do whatever i may need to do because I love my boyfriend dearly and i know he loves me. but we've both been acting like a couple of knuckleheads .......

do any of you think its possible? any married couples out there that had it rough their first year and got it together and turned things around?

alumni09	i think you'd regret it if you didn't try. it's worth a shot. best of luck!

Woaaah (:	You should at least try.

Mrs. Cullen	No.

www.makeitjuicy	ya go up to him and sorry atleast 100 times adn say that you guys wont get in a fight agian.

ana	i think you should give it a try and let the destiny lead ya to were it need ya to go =]

sexi chica	ofcourse!!! = m )

gutterking6	its possible but unlikely. gl

PINKY	I DEF THINK ITZ POSSIBLE. "NOTHING TRY NOTHING DONE"

Nic nak paddy wak	If you both want it, anything is possible... Goodluck!

Fam-E	As montel once told me ' x's are x's for a reason ' Move on find someone else plenty of guys out there

ukdomseeking	I am sure you can, but why dont you pop over and chat with me in the penthouse whilst we work on it. * MILDRED IS MY LEADER*

Lexie S	If you truly love each other of course you can start over

Tara	you can never start over you might however be able to save the relationship if both want to work hard enough for it

India M	It is always time for a new start at a relationship and I also think you need a couple therapist like you said

Fred	i dont know but i bet you would like the song im not over by carolina liar reminded me of your situation

Om-nom Bacterium	Its never ever too late to start over. As long as the passion that BOTH partners feel is still there... the little disagreements are insignificant.

GONE	sounds like the situation i was just in. we arent together anymore. its hard to go back and not be as close as you are now. it doesnt feel right. good luck to you though. i know its tough.

jack99skellington	Yeah, you can. It's hard to live with somebody when you're married. It's even harder when you're not! But, at least you know now that it takes a lot of work, and both people. So why not?

Coco	It is definitely possible. Don't give up and put in the extra effort. It is going to be difficult, but it is up to you if it is worth it. P.S. * MILDRED IS MY LEADER*

ruth	What do you have to lose by trying? If it is going to work, your idea of living separately and going to counseling is the way to try it. jmo

noni	my mom and dad had alot of bad times but it all worked out in the end if you want to build i good relationship make sure you dont spend all the time to gether try to limit it to 3 to 4 hours a day

bridgetntori	well you can start over but i think you shouldn't live together for at least a couple months until you know your ready and make sure when you have a fight not to say anything you will regret

Ed F	anything is possible. i broke up with my ex for a semester at college, and things are starting to get interesting. didnt see her once during that semester, and randomly ran into her about 2 weeks ago.

All seeing eye	O course you can it's never to late. My fiance and I had a similar problem but it worked itself out. We fought alot over stupid things. Glad to know I'm not alone cuz I thought we were the only ones with that problem. I'm sure you'll be fine.

Sami	you can it may take a lot of work and both of you really need to work on it so if you 2 are both willing to work on it and truely care for each other it will work just think the worser the storm the prettier the rainbow at the end :]

Dee ~ Expecting #3 Aug 7 â™¥	you can never start over... the past is the past and we are humans that dont forget... its not like we can get those neurons removed from our brain... what we can do is forgive and live with our past issues... if you both want to work things out then you will and you will dedicate the time and effort it takes to do so

monicah	This will only work if you two go to counseling and are willing to forget everything that happend. Of course not completely forget about but just get over it and not bring it back everytime there is an argument. If things don't work out, don't worry it's not the end of the world. Good Luck

Heather P	honestly i have tried starting over with my boyfriend and it doesn't work...you will always have in the back of your mind everything that happened....its like if a guy cheated on you and you wanted to start over would you just be like ok lets start over then when one of his friends that's a girl calls him do you think you will be able to trust him and be like ok go ahead and talk to her? no you will be thinking in the back of your head about what happened

rugglebeast	It is definately possible for you both to work things out, as long as you both feel the same and are both willing to work on things. Sometimes we move too fast and end up fighting a lot... there's also a right way to fight and a wrong way, but your therapist should help you with that. I definately think you both can work things out if that is what you both want :) good luck!!

steff	You know they say that couples who fight a lot really love each other, that they are comfortable enough to notice one another faults and talk to them about it. Give it a go again. they also say that if you let someone you love go and it comes back it was meant to be yours. Maybe this relationship is supposed to be, you just need to work at it. In every relationship you need to work at it to make it happy and healthy. Just try. If not then move on. Good luck!