do you belive that you?

tabatha1333	Both in a way but I'm leaning more towards choose. Once you let your heart go to someone then you fall in love. I never wanted to fall in love before so the past 3 boyfriends I just liked while they were falling in love,they were nice to have around but then on the 4th boyfriend I decided I wanted to fall in love and I did.

rb_cubed	One chooses to love, although it is not a deliberate choice in most cases. It must happen at the right time, in the right place, with the right person, when the moon is in the right phrase. At the same time, one can be in love with more than one person at the same time. It is only how one acts on his/her feelings of love, a choice, which determines with whom you are in love.

vanamont7	I like that: " explain yourself." But ... but ... but! I think, ironically enough, it's all three! So you answered your own question. While destiny strikes, you ' choose ' to fall in love because you already have. ( Whether you realize it or not. ) Afterwards ... you generally tend to have a lot of explaining to do. Most guys just chalk it up to: " Well, maybe I ain't articulate enough, so ... this'll be good for me. "

krys	I don't think you can choose who you love. You fall in love that's why it is called "falling" in love. But i think you can choose not to follow your heart. (or emotions, which ever you want to call it)

mz.sexylady07	if u're asking me which would i rather have then the answer is both. but not at the same tyme. because when either one happens then there's no turning back. so which ever one u choose u'll b very happy and very loved.

iceman	you fall in love and there is no way to stop it. If you choose to love it is not true love at all

Warrior Hamster	Love is an illusion. we are a sad lonely little species, who make up ways of avoiding the stark fact that in the end everyone dies alone. I'm not getting ten points am I?

BabeHart	I think the feeling can sneak up on you, but then you choose to accept and go with it...or reject it and block it...

sxymama	I never believed in first love at first site untill i met my boyfriend i have now. i am 30 and i have been through some messed up relationships. and the last thing on my mind was love. i have two girls too. but i am in love and i did fall in love. but yes you can choose it too. but there is a difference. in love means you think of only that person. choosing it is that you think of having other relations.

beginer	it can be both, the second it's better

i'm a twin	the first time I saw cole and dylan sprouse,whooo!HONEY,YOUR HEART GUIDES YOU.

Brandon	It's both.

AsianPersuasion :)	Fall in love. When I met my husband, my feelings for him just consumed me. I had no intention of it happening. I wanted to concentrate on college, but he came into my life and nothing mattered more than he did. I did finish college however.

MoMoney	get tricked into thinking I am..

eeeeeeeeee	fall in love because it happens suddenly , when you don't even think about it

Î¾â„“ Ã‡Ñ’Î±Î·Ï†Ïƒ	thats a good q...id have to think about that for a while...i dont know...

MGoodrich	Such a good question. I want to believe the former, but as reality and experience sinks in, the latter seems like the answer. Even if you do fall in love, eventually conscious choices have to be made to make it last.

thehuntress	I choose the man I'm attracted to then I fall in love.

utlcutl	welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll I`ll go with number 1

bucks110	Fall

e_deckwa	I believe I allow myself the opportunity to be able to fall in love.

@bstract!	fall in love, because once you are the most you try to forghet her/him you can't

Vazvil V	choose to be in love.

recae	choose to be in love

greenbaypackers1920	Wow, that very good questions. If i saw her yes I truly fall in love but if 3 women i chose the woman I fall in love first. smiling.

chattykatty	Choose.

Cobra	Your heart answeres that question for you.

Ynot me 2	fall in love