don't want my bf to have facebook...am i being crazy?

Alicia	Okay, you just said you are a jealous person. This means that your relationship is doomed. In fact your relationship with any man is doomed. Get yourself into some counseling (nothing to be ashamed of!!) to learn why you are jealous. I would tell your bf that you are working on your jealous issues and that you are okay with him having facebook on one condition. You want his login and password. If you are free to go and look anytime you want, will that make you feel better? If he refuses to give you the login and password then maybe you aren't so crazy after all!! My husband and I know each other's email and facebook passwords. It doesn't mean that we go looking for stuff, but the fact that we can is comforting.

Hann.X	Don't worry I would feel the same if my BF talked to his ex on face book but it is possible that they're just friends why don't you confront him and tell him your worried because you don't want to lose him sure it might seem a little crazy but its only natural for you to be worried

?!?!?!?	Why are all you kids bringing your boyfriend problems into marriage and divorce? You are ridiculous. You are immature and have no self-esteem. If you're going to break up with him over something that hasn't happened yet - then just do it now - since you can see into the future - why wait.

Miss Honesty	all women get jealous. some women control it better than others. the truth here is, he is a big boy and you are a big girl. nobody should be telling anybody what to do. if u r NOT comfortable with him having a page- that is totally okay. but if he IS comfortable...thats okay too. if its going to drive you crazy then leave him. he knew you didnt like it and he did it anyways. what this shows here is that the 2 of u have strong opinions and are not willing to budge. thats okay, but once it goes there it just isnt going to work. seriously weigh out ur options. is the kid even worth it? dont go crazy over this...and if u cant control it then just leave him. the last thing u wana do is become the crazy girlfriend or the crazy ex girlfriend. good luck

i <3 edward cullen (twilight)	umm.. hmm. you should either get one and keep your profile private.. it doesn't have to be public, and don't put all your info up and its not that stalkerish.. you have to trust himm if you're not going to get one.. ask for his password (he may not give it to you.. because he thinks/ wants your trust) but you may get it.. if you really like no need to break up with him.. over something like this. good luck.. hope i helped.

mjf123000	YES YOU ARE! Just because he has a facebook account doesn't mean he is going to cheat. Get your own facebook and become his friend. You can pretty much see everything he does on his facebook that way

Bibigirl	You have issues that you need to work through. You have low self esteem. You're going to have to trust him or you will never have a relationship farther than a few dates. You're going to push him away.

LB	You do sound a little high maintenance. It's your jealousy that will spoil your relationship, not his facebook. Maybe you should think about working on your self esteem.

witzy	you are stalkerish because i did not hear your husband i heard boyfriend he is free to do what he wants i never saw facebook break up a relationship are you afraid he leaves you. jealousy is a sign of insecurity so you better get it together

thisistakingforever00	well, i'd say ur being overprotective.. and a bit crazy - but i was the same way lol and its true, myspace, facebook .. it all leads to him meeting new people, getting screen names, and chatting away... and i would be jealous too.. even if u trust him and even if he wont cheat on u, u know in the back of ur mind hes talking to other girls.. of course its OK for him to, but it would honestly get to me too... [i know i know, gime the thumbs down people...] but its natural to be jealous... just gota learn how to handle it.. talk to him and tell him how it makes u feel.. without causing an argument

sabre	Well, yes and no. On one hand, trust is something you do. Your boyfriend isn't cheating simply because he created a Facebook account. On the other hand, trust is something he gives. Which is more important to him? His Facebook friendship with an ex, or his relationship with you? If you feel strongly about it, be prepared to end the relationship.

rpetch007	YES YOUR RIGHT JUST PACK HIS BAGS HE A PLAYER .. IF HE NEEDS A FACE BOOK.. HES LOOKING .. FOR A NEW GIRL ANY WAY..

AGAsGirl	I know a ton of people who have cheated because of myspace and facebook...but it boils down to your own health of the relationship...if you can't trust him, you shouldn't be together.

schoobmx	you sound just like me, and no you are not crazy, if there is any reason you don't want him to have it then dont let him! I do not let my boyfriend go on mysapce......too much drama!!!!!

Sandy Ego	Yes, I'm sorry - but you're crazy. I'm not sure how or why a man would put up with that. Facebook is a social networking site - nothing more, nothing less.

ktejada23	just make one too and give each other your passwords.

Jon	Boy, he's a lucky guy. Talk about stalkerish. Let us know his facebook address so that we can warn him about you. I am not quite sure he knows the level of insanity.

Bitter B	Grow up!!!! He should dump you!

Jesikah Riley	leave him alone you can't love someone and be jellous you have to trust that he'll pick you over all the ohter girls and if he dosent then he's not right for oyu

openminded	In my opppinion is is just inviting trouble into a relationship.

Lisa B	Sounds like you're being a 'moomoo.'

gandhi	you're right! you are crazy jk ya ur overreacting.

HappyHolidays!	it depends....how old are you? how long have you been dating?

Wulfman	no there is nothing to worry about. just stay calm and talk to him about it

Sean	You have some very serious trust issues and should see someone about them. You're not crazy, but you're not normal either.

Mrs_O	Are you his girlfriend or his mother? Some people never would have considered cheating until they felt trapped in a controlling relationship. On the other side, if he wants to cheat, he will whether he has a facebook page or not.

crisis	i understand your reasoning (i'm a jealous person too btw) but it's kinda silly for you to worry...dont worry until there is a need to. It's not a good sign that you're showing so much distrust.

It is only my opinion	Yes you are crazy. And your boyfriend deserves better. Leave him. You will NEVER keep a man if you keep this up.

Michael	You are crazy.

box of rain	Yes. Yes you are CrAzY. Remember, you are his girlfriend, NOT his mommy!