girls only. what would you do if you found out that your husband was touching himself?

Â	It really doesn't bother me. Sometimes, the situation is to a point where we do not have the privacy to get intimate, so he just has to take care of himself. Also, we are in different places, due to the military, for a few months at a time, and during that time, it's only expected that sometimes he'll have to resort to taking care of himself. As long as he's touching himself, instead of someone else, I'm fine with it.

Nurse Answer Mama	It's normal. I'd give him some privacy.

Aumatra	Join him of course!

Jewells	Well as long as he is not doing it while we are at the dinner table then I am fine with it. I say stroke away!

live, love, laugh often!	Honestly it's happened to me before and I felt like I wasn't enough for him. Then I wondered who he was thinking about to do that. Alot of things went through my mind, but now I just know every man does it. It hurt at first to know he did that, but then when I found it was natural, I was ok with it. I understand how you must have felt, but don't think it's something you did wrong, or haven't done. I wish you well.

supernaturaldj2000	Lol@ Karma.. right on. Also depends on what he was using to get off with.. if it's pictures of farm animals or young children I'd be a LOT concerned. If he's just home choking his chicken for the hell of it, I'd probably tell him it was hot and not to stop til he was finished.

kz	I wouldn't mind a little show. ;-)

candi.delight	Happy that he not out cheating.

j_n_js_mommy	Nothing why should you care at least he is only touching himself instead of gong out and touching other women.

starsmommy	All guys do it - even the ones that are married. No big deal - ask to join in or if it bothers you go in the other room till hes done.

fiestylady	I want to be there to see. Nothing is wrong with pleasuring yourself from time to time

Nancy Kay	I would think it stranger if he weren't! Darn near everybody does, and I think it's fine (if kept in perspective).

The Doctor Is In.	No big deal. I would simply join in. Self love is a beautiful thing. Why? did you do this and your wife freaked out?

Heather C	I know he does, and I couldn't care less. I do it, too! Maybe even more than he does. What difference does it make anyway?

Masha S	I would see it as a major turn-on. I would do it with him, and maybe even help him a little bit...:)

Patrick G	No, the question is what is wrong with him if he is NOT? Guess what ... we all do... where are those really thick glasses

sleepyhead	i would be relieved....might take some of the pressure off of me

BlueFish	Be happy that he was normal.

Kristie	Ask him if he wanted help or could I pull up a chair and be his audience. :-D Seriously. I heard somewhere that 90% of men do that, and the other 10% lie about it. IT'S NORMAL!!!!!

"karma"	Watch!!!