got a little problem with my wife?

Rylee is.	Hmm.. I honestly don't think I can think of a way that you could talk to her about it and not have it turn into an argument or her having her feelings hurt. Instead, maybe you could arrange a date. Tell her you want to treat her to a night out to a fancy restaurant, maybe some classy dancing, something that would require her to clean up a little. This way it shows your appreciate her because you want to spoil her a little and show her you love her. Maybe then she will be inspired once again to take care of herself. Be sure to tell her she's beautiful.

Candy B	what did you marry some immigrant from the far-east?

Trixilicious*	that is not a woman that is a caveman..

Alex	ask her in a jokingly voice and that will get the conversation started

5star	Tell her your not shaving till she does.

babygirl09	try honesty,that's the best policy.maybe if you let her know how you feel ,she'll do what you ask.

heythere26	ask her about it. just be nice, but if its really bothering you then do something about it.

Gwen	I think you should where a silky lady wig and wear it around, then buy a fake mustache! Fool around with your body hair.

theycallmesool	Your her husband so she'd take your criticism more than anyone elses. I'd say run her a bath and shave her yaself she can't say no to that

Sweetie	You need to just tell her Nicely to shave her legs, and armpits!!! because I can't imagen that she does not to this good luck

Jack	Grow a beard, when she mentions its getting a bit long... theres your opening to talk to her about it (this is not childish, this is genius)

Yamelaine G	Hah, she has two kids for crying out loud, maybe she's too busy for that, take her out for dinner often so she regains her self-esteem once again... or try to help her more with the kids so she has more time for herself...good luck.

Sophie Rose	Tell her you are going to take her to a tropical get away or a romantic night out and tell her to et dressed up and she might shave P.S buy her a short dress with no sleeves so she will have to shave

rev. Doc Holiday	Invite her into the shower and you shave all that stuff off. Then tell he you going to grow a long scraggly beard just to make sure it hurts and scratches her.

Jonny Dangerously	next time you go down on her act like you are choking to death-- she'll trim it. Idk I would be like "hey if I wanted to marry a dude I would have moved to Mass" if that don't work slip some Nair in her pants. hahaha

a1ways_de1_lorri_2004	a question to a question..... Has she got anything to keep her appearances up for? do you take her out on a regular basis? do you buy her new clothes that would make it necessary for her to shave more? maybe, maybe not, i don't know. But therein might lie the answer.

Briny	next time her birthday, yalls anniversary, or any kind of holiday comes around buy her one of those really nice shaving kits the ones with soap, a nice razor, and extra blades all that good stuff. maybe she will get the hint. and your not a pig, that is sick!!

Sarah	ask her if shes okay. if she needs some time for herself, maybe go get a massage or something, maybe shes feeling depressed or just feels she has no time for herself. maybe then if you give her some time she will shave herself. she might not want to go get a massage if shes hairy. don't forget to tell her shes beautiful.

A Canadian	Buy her a trip to a day spa/aesthetics Studio and make sure the package includes all the body waxing treatments plus a massage. You really need to ask her why her personal grooming habits have changed. That's the mature approach not being passive-aggresive and merely hinting at it.

Kate	The only way you can get her to change is to talk about it. Bring up how she hates stubble and how she shaved when you first met her. Let her know you still love her but that this is a turn off for you. If she cares about you she will change her grooming habits and if not well...

pinkstar_lovesu22	I don't think your a pig i just think women get to caught up with there children and life things... maybe by giving her a day away might change her out look talking to her about going to get her nails done or even her hair done maybe letting her just go on a little vacation to find her self again. i'm sorry this is happening to you. hope i can help in some way.

kr55	So don't confront her...that sounds like you are ready to argue. Have you thought about just telling her that you miss the "clean shaven" body of the past? The conversation should go something like this, "Honey, I am not sure why you don't shave any more but you were such a turn on before you stopped." Then offer to shave her legs.

Prince of Shananana	you should man up and talk to your wife man if you never say anything then she will never know what the problem is there has to be some point when you both settle down at night and talk and if there isnt then there is another problem you all need to work out the point here is that if you never say how you feel then she doesn't know how to fix it dude the only way to a successful relationship is to have thorough communication between both party's involved

King Vulture	thats the problem with women today, once we get marriedwe turn into a human ATM machine and all you want is her to be well groomed like she was when you first met and your the one that feels guilty? tell her straight up that you do not reconize her. What happened to the women I married. And if she gets an attitude, then grow your beard like the taliban and stop using deorderant and say you are taking her lead. Good Luck!

pokyhoney	Give her a gift ceritficate to take a beauty day at a nice spa. Make sure you pay in advance for services that NEED to be done on her (i.. waxing, shaving tweezing..of legs, armpits,chin) I think you get the picture.. but along with a facial, manicure, pedicure, so it seems like she's truly being pampered and I think it'll be hard for her to figure out if it's to really have her get groomed or was it a truly a beauty day for her. I hope this helps!