how can i find out if my husband is cheating?

No one	Ask him. Don't be accusatory, just simply ask him, "Please honey, don't lie to me. Are you seeing someone else or have you?" It is amazing the information you can get from a man if you simply ask him the right way. Don't put him on the defensive if you don't want him to lie.

Laska	Have someone that he don't know follow him around for about a week and you will get good results.

Laura	one good way is to get some software that tracks keystrokes on the computer and delivers all the websites, emails, etc., he's visited to your email. you can probably quickly and easily get your answer this way. you might also want to pay special attention to his cell phone bills and look for strange numbers. you can find the software on the web... type "catch a cheater" or something into Google and see what you come up with. like everyone else said, your intuition is probably correct.

spitchus	women know, if you have the feeling , and you never have had it before its mostly likely the right feeling go with it

Sarah	You should ask him.

R.W.	I suggest u rent the movie 'Dairy Of A Mad Black Woman' She says, ''if u think yur man is cheatin' he most likely is''.

tadm	Are you a good wife. Do you take good care of him. Is he a good husband. Dose he take care of you? Then he is not cheating you may be you are in a differnt way.

Terry	Ask him , if he lies then kick him out the door

Rebecca S	STALK him.... tell him ur going somewhere && then follow him... borrow a friends car.... tell him ur going out of town and stay in a hotel and watch him... but DONT get caught

â˜…BanÃ¤na á¨ NightmÃ¤ráº¹â˜…â„¢	GPS tracking device works.

J S	This could be quit difficult depending on his job. Does he travel to other States? Does he travel within the State? It could be as simple as getting a copy of his phone bill. You might have to have someone follow him. If he uses toll roads with EZpass you might be able to get a record.

Mr. Cadillac Jones	Hire a private investigator or follow him yourself. If everything checks out then fine.

Betty B	If he is and you really feel it in your heart....then try to ask sneaky little questions like....If you have a fantacy lover what would she be like and if she would see you any time you wanted....and then ask him why would you cheat on you any way.......If you get the right answers in your heart will feel it even stronger...and then put a tail on him like follow him when you can and check his phone records by the phone company by getting copies of incoming calls & text messages.....good luck

ndnqt1966	Try asking him.....if you don't get what you feel is an honest answer....Just keep looking for the clues...you will eventually come across them.

youcandoit	Hire a private investigator to follow him or a really good friend with a car he doesn't know.

sergeo	Do you have a reason to be suspisious or just a person who thinks everyone is going to screw them over? If you have a legit reason to think so and not just playing the jealous wife corner him when you know he is lying. watch his reaction and feed off it, as a wife you know the signs of you husband lying I know I can not dodge my wife if I try to small lie my way out of a picnic with her family let alone cheat on her with out her looking at me and knowing.

chaskfrazier	He's your husband so you have every right to confront him. If you think he is, do whatever you need to do.

berry	Hire a PI. Money well spent.

IceCube	You don't. If you don't like him anymore, leave him. If you still love him, win him back anyway even if he doesn't have anyone else.

andertwinsen	ask him

Y/A Eighth Wonder of the World	When he comes home smell his fingers

THE Cupid HATER	Curious, what makes you think he is cheating on you? Female intuation aside, has he suddenly changed various habits,without giving a reason, or giving a bad reason. Hiring a detective is expensive($200 a day plus expenses is not uncommon)! Asking him will get you either the truth or a lie.

April First	They act different. Listen to different music, where a new Cologne, dress more carefully, lose weight if they are overweight, work out more. Money is spent that cannot be accounted for etc. but most of all your intuition will tell you the truth.

bonnielynn73	have someone follow him

Allen K	Confront him. If he doesn't confess keep asking until he crumbles.

lvillejj	Bug him.

RozPot	If you think he is cheating, then he probably is. Women can be some of the best detectives, especially when your relationship is involved. Check his call log on his cell phone, caller ID, clothing for makeup, lipstick, perfume, pockets for hand written notes/phone numbers, coming home late, unusual behavior, lame excuses for whereabouts, not answering your phone calls promptly. Inquire with his co-workers. Tell him you will be detained and drop in wherever he claims to be. Check his mileage. Lovemaking is different--new positions. Dressing nicer than usual. Change in hair style or cologne. Gives you gifts for no apparent reason. Or, you could just ask him if he has any new friends. You now have the 'upper hand' and the choice of forgiving would be a very difficult thing to do. But, it would either make your relationship stronger or unable to ever completely trust him again. So sorry for you! Good luck!