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how can i tell my boyfriend of nearly nine years that i don't want to be with him anymore?

Me and my partner have been together for nearly nine years now and for the past four or five years i have become more and more frustrated by his lack of commitment i am a 27 yr old male and my partner is coming up 60 and we live apart as much as i would like to live with him but for some reason he doesn't seem to and the relatinship is going nowhere and i feel like it is just so one sided. can anyone please tell me what i should do?







liz
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Unfortunately its not so exciting now is it the age gap ?? The best thing to do would be to say honestly that you want time on your own. The age gap is showing now and you want other things in life besides what your partner can give you, that's not your fault its because you are young enough to experience these things. He too needs some excitement in his life and perhaps he can go on to another relationship with someone nearer to him in thought word and deed. At 18 when you met, you obviously enjoyed what you both had, but its natural that you would want to experience other relationships as you are only still in your 20's. There is no reason to stop being friends, but a good heart to heart would work between you. Lets hope he is willing to listen. Good luck.


Pujun2Power
wow this is going to be tough. nine years. thats quite a stretch. see if he is willing to work things out. P.S.thats a large age gap


luv2help
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Helloooo does the term Boy Toy mean anything to you? He has had you on a string for this long and you are finally getting a clue? I don't mean to be mean sweetie, but to me.. it seems like the writing has been on the wall for sometime now. Go out and meet yourself a nice young man.


mrs g2
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I suggest you end this nowhere relationship, and look for someone nearer your own age. If this person can't commit after 9 years, it will never happen, so break it off.


‚ô•BEX‚ô•
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At 60 - he's probs too set in his ways for settling down , 9 years on and still no commitment that has to tell you something , i would just tell him straight that you think its time to end it , be honest with your feelings , you are still young to go out and live a little ,it will be hard but you only have one life enjoy it .







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