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how should i feel about a wife that started smoking pot 3 months ago?

she didn't smoke pot before except once in a great while...in the past 3 months she has bought 2 bags of it...on the weekend she starts smoking right when she gets up and smokes it about 5 more times throughout the day...she even smoked it before she went to work one day...geez...she even spent the whole valentines day stoned as well...i didn't even bother taking her to dinner that night...i am not against smoking pot...i will do once in a while...i just didn't think 8 months ago when i married her that i was marrying a pothead...then she says, "well, you go to the bar and drink."...um...about 2 times a month i stop off at a place and literaly have 2 beers and a burger and come right home...should i be concerned that she smokes pot as much as she can?...should i be bummed out that i married a pothead when i didn't know that she was one?...how would anyone else feel about this "revelation" in their relationship?...







dirtyjoeblubberbutt
you should be concerned!!! geeez!!!!!! havent you seen the commercials with the girl with the weird voice thing??? help her and help her stop. its not good for your lungs


☼ GƖơώ ✞ Ѡɪηǥs ☼
Hey, are you 'squeaky' clean?
The gig is on her.
Let her deal with it and the consequences.
It could always be worse!
It's better than "meth"!
Life is what we make it!


Kimberly H
Talk to her... Perhaps there is something going on with her and she is using Pot to relax. Don't judge, just ask.


BOONDOCK SAINT
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well I don't care for it, and I had an ex who did it and that **** got old real fast.. I would be quite pissed, and she kicks the **** b4 I kick her to the curb is how I would feel.. thats way to excessive, I don't do it, never have so.. I mean it's your call.. as for me, I ain't having nothing to do with that..


!vy♥
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If you love her you'll help her. Do you want her to die young because of some stupid habit or do you want to spend the rest of your life with her?


Tammy M
your must give her a choice to make there isnt any future here. this is a short term situation unless she corrects her behavior. good luck


kimmy
i would find out if she has been unhappy. suggest marraige counselling. i wouldn't stay around.


LovesAva
Hey, light up with her!

Just sit her down and talk to her. You dont mind getting high on the weekends, but you dont want it to turn into a everyday thing. How are you supposed to have a family? Dont tell her shes an irresponsible pothead. Be rational, be considerate. Is she bored? Most people who smoke pot aren't addicted, they are just Bored. Pot makes sitting at home or doing the dishes more enjoyable. Maybe try a new hobby together? ballroom dancing, art classes, cooking classes, go for walks, bake together, make a pact to try and visit every different restaurant in town...

Add: Smoking pot is really just as bad as drinking, they just effect the body in differnt ways. Theres nothing wrong with smoking pot, but every day is excessive. If you want to start a family, she needs to quit. You cant have a healthy baby without a healthy body!


dibhead_68
well 1st of all what do u still feel about her

then cant u control her from her addiction?
and do u know any reasons y she does that...maybe somethings wrong.

u can allways bring her to rehab


Xo LC xO
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tell her theres a HUGE difference between smoking pot and going to the bar...first off, its illegal.
anyways, just try talking civilly with her about it. Id be upset if i were you but its not like you cant help her quit smoking...or reduce the amount she does. Let her know you care about her!


Annie M
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give her an intervention.. or tell her you think she pregnant and if she doesnt stop something bad will happen to the baby


notyou311
I would be very concerned, particularly since she doesn't think it's a problem. She needs help. If she won't get it, you have a hard decision to make.


Love everyone
i think she isnt happy with something in you,i started to smoke cigs when i was not stable with my husband ,now i dont and i still have troubels but i said why should i kill myself for him
talk to her,


Dawn
If it bothers you and you're not cool with it you need to let her know. Don't let drugs ruin your relationship. It's kind of just bothering you little now but if you keep holding back without saying anything it could result in a lot of fighting and bad things.

Good luck


blackberry_abuser
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you need to intervene..when its that much, its an addiction. it'll only get worse.


KelsKarl
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Find a counselor or talk to her, women want you to help them, rehab is prob best


Matriss
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Find out why she is smoking that much. There's no physical downside to smoking pot, but (like absolutely everything in the world) it can be psychologically addictive.

Ask her if there's something bothering her, if there's something you are or aren't doing, and if she's getting what she wants out of life. If, after several conversations, you may suggest she see a therapist. But be sure not to sound as though you think she's mentally ill, phrase it something along the lines of "would you like to have a neutral party to talk to?"


skillz708
drinking is bad juss smoke with her and understand her and tell how u feel wen u 2 are blazed


Crater
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It's good that you care.

You need to tell her that you think it's unhealthy and you're concerned, and that she should stop doing it if it bothers you so much. Consider getting her some help as well.


StephenPRoss
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Badly


Ryan D
Theres nothing wrong with smoking pot.
I wouldn't mind having a wife who could share as much passion with marijuana as I have.
It's natural, and safe.
Live Above the Ignorance.


Mone B
usually, people do pot when they feel sad, lonely , so maybe try to ask her to stop, she might get caught, if she does it a lot


m3xican_chick_08
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what a shame!


watch out for goombas
idk im not married and im 15 but yeah i would take away the pot or somethen...not very healthy


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If it gets worse... leave her.... or have her get some help =l


Joshua G
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thats the ****!!!!


JimSadPa
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I would kick her to the curb.







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