husband cheated for 16 yrs and i finally cheated is this a crime?

MARiE BELLA	you def. did not commit a crime--thats what he desrves! remeber to never feel guilty for doing this because 16 years is a long time, and there is no excuse. did you just find out about this or did you already know but didnt do anything about it??

emgobaloo	Yes! its still adultry. Sorry he was doing to you.

[[moNNA]]	its wrong that you sunk to his level but not a crime...whats even worse is that you actually put up with him for 16 years...leave him you could do better

princessnikki246	its kinda of both.....yes cuz its revenge but no cuz it hurts him. but then he desirves it cuz he cheated FOR 16 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!! how could he do that to you?

matsystud	no, it is just plain stupid, you should have left when he did and when you cheated on him was dumb, two wrongs don't make a right! my hubby cheats on me and i am outta here!!!!!!

*~:â€¢JENNâ€¢:~*	I would have cheated sooner than now. I would have dumped his A$$ 16 years ago....No, not a crime, just payback!!

fellysman	Either way adultry is a sin in god's eyes. I'm not all that religious but you should have done something about it instead of trying to get back at him.

wildatheart	Why cheat on him? Can't you divorce him? He is a real schmuck, but why did you go down this road?

Stormchaser	Guess that doesn't make you any better than him now.

Doodlestuff	Is it a crime, no. But why don't you two just get divorced since you clearly aren't happy with each other?

jellybean	It's not a crime so much as its a waste of your time. If you want to be with other people, break it off and move on. Better to be happy then to be in a loveless marriage when you have so little respect for each other that you cheat.

przhm247	TIT for TAT

Heather M	Well I don't know if it a CRIME per sa, but why the hell did you stay with a man that cheated on your for 16 YEARS!?

just me!	It's not a crime but two wrongs don't make a right!! Once a cheater always a cheater! Leave him!

mimi	yah,both of you did a crime. jeez,you could have just done it the easy way and got a divorce...you wouldnt end up being hurt like this

Ms. Meli	its not a crime but its morally wrong. two wrongs dont make a right, should've just left his butt.

~T'sGirl~	y the hell havent you divorced his *** yet?

R T	Not a crime; but definitely not right. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Tony	Yes. There's a saying, "Two wrongs don't make a right." That holds true here. Instead of letting him cheat for 16 years only to drop down to his level to do it yourself, you should have left him or at least sought marriage counseling. As it is, doing the same thing he's done only detracts from your character.

proud to be alive	i feel cheating is never justified

meagan b	i personally dont think so

Virgo27	Two wrongs don't make a right, you should of never let him do it to you for that long.

Visa!	All I can say Is Good For You!

KeKe	yes. but both of you were wrong. love should be based on trust not lies!

i Am hiS giRL	the crime is you should've left a long time ago

Bob	pssssssh, no, dump him!

nBrEaD	depends what state you live in