husbands !!! would this upset you ?

openminded	Uh ya. Tell her to turn it around and see how she feels.

Shlane	I would! It's not acceptable.

Aunt Rose	Yes i would

nakedgie	She is doing him! Somebody had to say it.

InYourDreams	ok, i know you asked for "husbands" and i am not one, but i would like to post my opinion. I WOULD BE VERY UPSET!!!!! i don't think that i would want my man working out with another woman at all, nontheless it be everynight! Good Luck! i think you should TALK to her about your feelings and ask her how she would feel IF the tables were turned!

bibus75	sound suspicious, watch what she is after but getting upset leads nowhere.

KingAndrew	This is a securities check, if you trust your wife then what is the problem? My wife has many male friends and I do not have fears of anything happening, now her girlfriends, that is a different story. Just relax and enjoy the fact that she is so driven to maintain her health and appearance.

MoMMy	I am a woman ... and YES that would bother me if my hubby did that! I am kinda in that situation right now ... my hubby has been staying late after work and having drinks with a waitress ... and it drives me crazy!!!

wade orchid	no

patrickd89	Yes I would be upset and would not allow it. She should not even ask.

Rhian H	Eh, I mean, I wouldn't want it to be with another guy... and if it were my boyfriend doing that with another girl I would be hurt. But I know from my personal self that I need motivation to keep exercising. If I don't have a friend to go with me, then I don't feel like going. I'd ask her to find a GIRL friend to go with her in stead of a guy. So I'm sure she isn't trying to hurt you by any means, but I can also see very clearly how that would hurt you.

Wim Wam Woozle	I think you are overreacting. She can do what she chooses to do, and if you have trust issues it is your responsibility to discuss this with her.

b house	Hell yeah i would be upset. First of all it's your wife, and this dude is supposed to come and replace you as her workout partner. I'm not saying don't trust your wife, but never trust the people around her. I would definitely not let that slide. That's just my opinion.

rlb1961	Yes. There is no reason for your wife to want to get into skimpy workout clothes and get all hot and sweaty with another guy unless there is some attraction there. I'd be very suspicious of this. It is completely inappropriate for a married woman to behave this way. If she insists on doing this, you should make it a point to "drop in" on their workout sessions a couple of times a week without notice. Come prepared to join in on the workout. If there is nothing going on, she shouldn't mind. If she gets mad (or worse, if she is not there as she claims), it may be time to find a lawyer and set up a seperate bank account...

Ricky	No i wouldn't care i ain't getting any from her, wish someone was getting some good out of it but hey that's just me.

CatNip	Ask her if it's ok for you to start working out with a female. I'll bet that she doesn't like it one bit.

dogpound	If you have trust there is no room for jealousy.

inoffensive nickname	Let her.. then show up some night just to check up on her... but tell her your schedule cleared up and you thought you'd work out with her.

sunshine11	It would upset me but hey...shes telling you about it so it doesn't sound inappropriate. I'd save the concern for something that crosses the boundaries further.

Curtis R	get her a home gym, or have her wokout with a chick. if she is not willing to do either i'd be suspicious.

Rev. Bobby L. Adams	Hire a private investigator to investigate your spouse.

nickyname	Hum? Just what kind of workout does she get with this other man?

Lisa M	SHE SHOULDN'T BE WORKING OUT WITH OTHER GUYS!! HOW WOULD SHE LIKE IT IF YOU WERE TO WORK OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL BESIDES HER???????

Look Away, I'm Hideous	Yes donnie that would upset me. I would ask her why she wants to spend time with this other guy. I would ask her to meet this other guy to see what he is all about. I couldn't help but be suspicious.

Rice	Yea that would bother me. Not to the point of fighting about but I would let her know that im not comfortable with it

Rapscallion Account #2	Your wife needs to learn that having guy friends is unacceptable. Hate to disappoint all the naive females out there, but guys can not be just friends with women.

KF	i would be upset