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i'm 19 yrs old. I'm not married but all my other friends my age are?

I've been feeling depressed cause I don't feel like I fit in any more.I 'm still single.







!! LuBB!n G!ggl3s !!
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girl ur smarter then them so dont think that you dont fit in cuz u is way smarter then them they didnt know how to live their life and have fun. now when they want to go out they cant well unless if they take they man and wel its kul cuz u aint got noone to worry bout so dont feel bad cuz if i was ur friend we'll make good friends havin fun


Irish Sean
Here's a newsflash: at age 19, you're supposed to be single.
If you don't feel like you fit in now just wait a few years when their all getting divorced and their credit is ruined.
Be thankful for the position you're in.
Don't rush things, they'll happen in time.


mr_crankypants
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Oh my god. The divorce rate for people who marry earlier than 25 is through the roof! You should be greatful that you have not made such a horrible mistake. In my opinion, you change so much as a person between the ages of 18 and 25 that you're taking a serious risk by making a lifetime commitment during that time. You MAY remain compatible with the person but the statistics and common sense says you probably not remain compatible.


The Animator
Go to college get a job w/health benefits than after all that you should decide if you still want 2 or not. Otherwise life may be hard.


Harleigh B
All your friends may have a husband but they are probly rushing it. You will marry a man who loves you but first you have to fall in love. Please dont fall in love with a guy that wont treat you write or abuse you. Glad i could help.
LOVE
HEARTBREAK HAR


jmizzle
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Good Lord, where do YOU live!?!?! Seriously, when it comes your time to marry, you will know it IF you don't choose to marry a man, simply because "all the other girls are doing it". There is a lot to be said about usingyour teenage years and young twenties to give yourself more time to find out who YOU are. You will find that at least half the marriages you see now, will not be viable in about 2 to 7 years, because people grow and change, and you simply arent who you were at the tender age of nineteen. So relax; nuture your relationship with Self, and find out more about you and the things you would like to accomplish while you wait for Mr. Right to either show up, or mature. Blessings.....


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You're only 19 year honey. Most likely you're in college. You don't need to get married yet. Getting married young results in lots of divorces these days. It's called "Too eager to jump the boat". Give it time. You'll find that one guy some day. You need to focus on school right now. And when the right guy comes along then you can think about marriage.

Most teens want to get married because they think they're "in love" when it's just lust. This year is going to be me && my bf's 2 year anni. I also feel like this guy might be the one but I'm waiting to see if this is true love. Before this relationship I was with a guy for 3 years and we didn't end up getting married like we thought we would be. It's people's biggest mistake, getting hitched too early. People should wait it out and see if the love is still there, if the chemistry is still alive and if you REALLY want to be with this person for the REST of your life. I know that I don't want to get married until 5 years later/in my early 20's. Your friends just didn't think it through. You'll be fine!

Don't be depressed. I think getting married in your mid to late 20's is better for almost everybody instead of their teens. 19 is too young because of school and for all the fun you want to have. Nothing is wrong with BEING with that person you want to marry and waiting for the right time to get married. But actually getting married might end up kinda bad. Don't follow your friends. You have your own life and make your own decisions. You don't want to regret it and you have a whole life ahead of you to find guys.

Just focus on school and have fun for now!


Perfect Imperfection
Girl you are young! You need to go out to a mix meet and mingle spot where you can meet people your age that you can hang out with, who wants to be tied down at the age of 19..you're not even old enough to drink...OMG..try speed dating...are you in school, join a club, you are sure to meet cool people if you get involved with your community...good luck


amandakaye
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19...??? wow most 19 year old are NOT married or there marriages fail.... i will be getting married around then but i have already been with my man a year and a half and thats like 3 years away.... but no enjoy life party have fun love life your doing just fine


♥Miss 87♥
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Oh my, I'm only a year older than you & not married--no reason to be getting depressed, be happy because you still have your independence. To each is own. Don't worry about not fitting in, at 19 it's better not to.


tom_gpp
At 19? You are the lucky one!! You don't want to be married right now, you want to enjoy college, drunken nights, one night stands, etc. there will be time to be married later. Enjoy yourself now!


Jane
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I'm 19 also and all my friends are doing the same but I know that I'm totally not ready to take that step yet with anyone. In fact, I just broke up with my bf.. Sometimes you gotta keep searching. When you find them you'll know..


Cool G
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19 and married? wow I think that is a little too young...just wait till you feel ready...


Redd!
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yep, u are smarter...19 is way to young...even early 20's...iv heard a study that ..80 % of people ( really young) get divorces, so dont worry...have fun! i wanna wait til im like 25 , 26 ish to get married


elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom
better to be single than be divorced, lol!

stay single until you know you have met the right one...that's the best thing to do, don't get married or look for a partner just because everyone else is married...!

date, but, don't get serious until you know he's the one...!

don't be depressed, have fun, let those guys buy you dinner or drinks or whatever...have a good time!

when the time is right, Mr. Right will come along and marry you! good luck!!! =)

get out there and date girl...


Alex
U should feel great. Spend extra time traveling that ur friends will wish that they did bfore they were married.

I hope that I helped!!

PS..... Marrying at 19 i8s really young. 30 is a better speed.


Super Saiyan
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yep, unless they're smart and have good jobs they're gonna suffer paying the bills and getting by.


Mellie
19 years old is still pretty young; if you were 29, then id start worrying.

Just have a good time while you can; you're not tied down like you're friends.

Wait until you meet a special guy you really love.


Mickey.Slick
19 is WAY too young to be married.

dont worry about getting married until you're finished with school and know yourself really well.


C_DOGG
your fine, your friends will be divorced in about a year anyway and everything will be back to normal.


OMG I'm Pregnant!
All your friends are really married?

Don't feel bad, you'll get married when it's your time. The love of your life is worth waiting for.


SK
19 years old is to young to be getting married, consider yourself lucky that your not married, tones of people are single.


Kelly
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19 is waaaaaaaay too young to be married. Love will come, at least for you...I have the same prob..


♥ Embracing Optical Freedom ♥
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Who cares? All of your friends will be divorced in two years as well.


dancer210
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where do you live, because i live in america and most 19 year olds i know arent married


J. Aaron
STAY SINGLE - for AT LEAST 5 more years... Go to college, travel, live a little more before you settle down. You are entirely too young to be married.


~♥Truckers Wife♥~
You are on the right track.... they may be married and you feel left out. but look at it this way, when you do find the right person, youll be that much more happy!


jennifer484
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I wonder where you live that your 19-year-old friends are married. I'm 24 next month and the only married friend I have is muslim, all of my other friends are single.


Cameo
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You hang out with stupid friends. Don't follow their examples.

This happened to me, and when their relationships went afoul, they cried on my shoulder and were jealous of the freedoms that I enjoyed.

I did learn from their mistakes, waited and am happily married now.


**k**
You are only 19, you shouldn't be married yet. Go out and have fun.







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