i don't think my youngest child is my husbands...?

khandiki	I'm married and I'm not a fan of deceiving my husband, but if you are already sleeping around on your husband, then why can't you just go behind his back and take a paternity test with your boyfriend as the first step? If he's not the father then go from there. If you and your husband stay together after that and you tell him after the fact then maybe it won't be as hard for him to grasp the fact that you are not leaving?

theartisttwin	Well....there sure are a lot of selfish, immoral people on here tonite. I don't want to even answer your question. I will however say that the comment that your husband is clinging to you like a three year old is appalling. He loves the child and remains there to try to have a relationship with someone who clearly is the one who acts like a three year old. If I were you I would give the children to your husband, let him find a good woman and leave the lives of those kids before they grow up as screwed up as you obviously are.

jeff b	JERRY JERRY JERRY

bigdaddy9965	because of you, this is why woman have bad names, you decust me

nared0971	I think its horrible that your looking at your child as a pay check! If "The Boy" (What a cold way to talk about your son) has a father that's willing to support him like your husband then that should be enough! whether you sleeping around on your husband is how you got pregnant your not, one man paying the bills should get the job done. I feel sorry for your son having to grow with a mother that thinks so little of him.

islandgirl0521	Wow, I feel bad for your husband. I know he is willing to love your baby no matter what but for health reasons you should know who the real dad is. What if the baby needed a match for a kidney transplant? It shouldn't have anything to do with money. You my dear do not deserve your husband. You are not a good person. You are nothing but a money hungry cheat. You also do not deserve to have children because you are the furthest of a roll model. I know you won't like what I wrote but I couldn't care less!!! You are NASTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!â€¦

Sweetie	What does your husband want you for you sound like mentally unstable u need help lady. Keeping it on a serious note why ask us we really have nothing to do with who your baby daddy is. Thats between you and the two blind guys that decided to sleep with ya

Ellie	You're so shallow on so many levels that I'm surprised he wants anything to do with you. You cheat, you're blind to the love he holds for you both (FAMILY!) you're insensitive, you're more concerned about the chance for child-support as an extra income instead realizing there is a man in front of you who has taken on that responsibility, you have a 'small minded' idea of what it means to be a good mother and you're degrading your husband for loving your sorry cheating ***. I would toss you away and fight for the kid. You honestly make me sick.

Neishi	I personally believe you shouldn't if he is willing to take the child as his own your a lucky women especially if you don't know who the father could be at least the child will have a 'dad'. The money is just being greedy cant have your cake and eat it too.

M W	I think you're being stupid and ungrateful. You've cheated on this man, and had a baby. He says that he doesn;t want to know and wants to raise the child as his and keep the family together and you have to drag it out over some money?!! Do you even love your husband? You need to decide what you want......child support or stable family life with your husband and children.

sunshine23511	It is not a good idea to put your family through this so you can get additional money. What make you think that the guy will not attempt to take the child away b/c you have lack of funds. maybe you should listen to your husband.

Chad L	dont use your son as a pawn for money try to be more faithful also

daisy	by doing this money is nothing if the man that may be the child father is he may be a bad man his family may be bad for the child think on it OK money is not everything. love is what is best for the child...we can not take money with us when we die......and he may cause your child hard ache too. so just thing of more then the money OK...good luck

tallerfella	I think he's afraid that the child is his and you will be disapointed because no check. Just promise him that he can have an extra 40 from 7 -11 everyweek once you start getting your checks. That should perk him up! Oh yeah! And the weekend trips to WalMart and Sam's Club!

sjb	wow... I think it is something you guys should decide together. He obviously loves you and the family he undertsands as his, very much. This is corrupt and change everyones entire lives. A paternity test seems like the right thing to do... but i guess it shouldnt be out of only getting the child support... thats your baby and i think maybe for better reasons you would want to do it. not ONLY just for the $, which i can undertsand would probably help out, yes... but can you imagine the devestation and hurt your husband with go through, the kids, you, everyone will go through. you need to talk and decide together. bets of luck.

Lily B	Its about more then money. You are risking more marital problems. If your husband says let things be, then let them be. If he finds out that its not his, he may not be able to control the resentment.

Lisa E	I think you're being really selfish. If you need money, get a job or a second job. Don't use your child for monetary gain for heaven sake. You don't know how that will affect this poor kid! He has the love of his FATHER. It doesn't matter who the sp*rm donor is. For God sake, girl! Your husband is getting 'annoying' because he's begging you to LET him be this boys father? You have lost your mind! He's thinking more about the welfare of a child who may not be his...than YOU are, and you KNOW you're his mother! Other people have money issues. They deal with them. I don't care how far in the hole you are...you're NOT broke enough to use this boy as a means of getting out of it.

Coolio A	Wow...you deceived your husband...and he's afraid of you doing this because he LOVES you so much...I can't believe you did that. How do you even know your boyfriend will provide you guys with child support??

SolarFanatic	Don't rock the boat. If your husband is taking care of this kid then you already have support. You don't need to use your prior behavior and irresponsibility to mess up the family and the kids life.

ÊŽÊžÉ”oÉ¹	You should be glad your husband remains faithful to you. Don't do anything more to hurt him.

Diana	You could always do it without him knowing, I suppose, and choose to tell him the truth in the end or not.

~Christine~	I think your husband has some legitimate concerns here. You should consider what is in the best interest of your son. What will happen if he finds out the person he thought was his father is not? Your child's welfare is more important than some extra cash. Besides, chances are this other man who may be his father won't pay it anyway. They usually don't. Is this money worth tearing apart your marriage?

thethingzuneed	WOW. Ok you have a husband AND a boyfriend and ***** other guys on top of that as well.......and you don't use protection?

practice_what_u_preach	tell him that! make him understand that you love him and could just use the money.... sit him down and be an adult don't beat around the bush

waffle house whore	this is a job for.... MAURY!!!

Jenel K	stop sleeping around

Nbfn142	go visit maury

secretsecret16	Isn't this person a troll? I could be wrong, and if so, forgive me.