i feel like i've hurt my gf after i told her i don feel the same about her. what should i do?

i told her ihw i've felt about her and told her i love her and i told her its not workin out the way i thought it would. i told her i've enjoyed the time i've had wif her and always wanted the relationship to last 4 a long time cause i loved her. but she went offline and told me she doesnt wanto talk to me wen i sad i think we should be friends :( what should i do pliz help?

muddlingalong	when someone loves someone else and then that person says "I don't love you .....but i'd like us to be friends still..." that hurts and the other person might very well need a period of time alone it's like getting a slap in the face it hurts you should leave her alone she needs time alone and she needs NOT to see you or hear from you

D R	Hey, you feel how you feel. It is possible to love someone but not be "in love" with them, people fall out of love all of the time and since it seems as though you are a kid that is sooooo normal. There is nothing for you to do, you expressed how you felt to her and unfortunately hurt feelings was inevitable. You can't control how she reacts at this point you should just leave her alone. That line about, but we could/should be friends, is a bunch of BS. People, male and female, both periodically use that line and it pisses me off. That line is used to make you ( the person breaking) feel better and is suppose to be a break up benefit to the person you hurt and it's not. Don't use that line, because you can't be friends at least not for a long long long time if ever. Since you probably didn't give us the whole story and perhaps you didn't like how you ended it with her, you could buy a nice card and write how you feel about her and ending the relationship in it and send it to her. Do NOT text, email or have a friend tell her, do it personally or through a letter.

Anna	of course that hurts. i think you should just let her a little of time and then text/call her and ask her how she's feeling or something and say that your sorry coz you didnt wanna hurt her even though you did. just give her some time to think. idk if she still wants to be friends with you, you know it might be really hard to her but really just give her time to think and try to contact her if you dont hear anything from her. its gonna be ok :)

G-Babi	Truthfully respect her wishes, shes hurting right now and there is really nothing you can say to make her feel better... if anything let her come to you when shes ready to talk about everything.