i have had enough of his abuse and need to say goodbye?

their is this guy i been having a relationship with for almost a month now and it is via internet he is very generous but then he gets abusive verbally the other day he was very cold to me and for no reason and when i asked him to not be that way with me any longer or i will have to say goodbye he said some very mean things to me and now is giving me the cold shoulder when i didnt do anything he does not even have the decency to even apologize he just shrugs me off like he doesnt care then a couple days later he comes back like everything is roses.i havent even met him yet and he is this way should i just call it quits now?? i am just so tired of him treating me like this..i have tried talking to him but i end up apologizing for this guys mistakes i am beyond being hurt now i am just plain mad now and at my wits end now.should i give up and say goodbye any advice please??

Happy-2	Shame on you for striking up relationships with random men on the internet - your poor husband!

Laughin' At Obamaniacs	oh no how could you possibly get away from this tool. Oh yea, dont talk to him anymore, solved. NEXT

Christopher	Just leave him its not that hard.

led head	stop talking to him and don't meet weird people off of the internet and you posted in the married section....

Dumbo Engineer	just block him! if he's acting like that even if you haven't even met, no point getting any more involved.

AnnieO	just stop emailing....

yea	You have not even met this guy and he is already acting this way you just might be better of moving on to the next one

Krazy	noone should treat you like this! ditch him and find a more kinder man who treats you with the respect you deserve you don't have to put up with this

cleopatra_adkins	obviously end it.

Foodie	I am shocked ... how can you even tolerate such nonsense that too from a person on internet ..even the fact that you have posted this question here and looking for advice surprises me

Marrisa	You need 2 talk 2 one of your close family member and stay with them 4 a little until you get help.

PuNk RoCkEr	AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAâ€¦

Bran	Neeeeeeerrrrrrddd!

P'quaint!	That guy is bad news! If you want to keep sanity intact...call it quits! You don't want to make his problems yours...do you? P.S. I'm curious about him being generous??? How, on the net?

Tigger	Drop him like a bad habit and move on report him, then Block him from everything.

noni	yes you should end it before it gets worse and if you havent met the guy then thats probably better well dump him and dump him soon

latina_lachula	why would you stay in a relationship like that? he's not taking you seriously and he probably doesnt take you serious so just dump him

Lucy	You are infatuated with someone you've never met. Move on. If he is acting this way now, how do you think he will act if you proceed with this relationship?

ihaveyouranswer	Yes leave him, he hasn't even met you yet and he is treating you like this. this is ridiculous. I am sure you can find someone who will treat you well... Good luck.

ashsmithy89	you just need to get out there and meet someone yourself! delete this guy off of everything on the internet..myspace, facebook, IM..and start over..if he is abusive this early itll get worse.. Id say goodbye

DavidL	you already answered your own question. Anyone abusing or insulting you can not, ever, be your friend.

Seth. Snuggie Sutra with Me.	He could be anyone. Just log off your MSN or wherever it is you talk to him and never log back on, it's that simple if you want to get rid of him. Get a new MSN address and only give friends your ID.

Kaia	If he treats you this way now, do you believe that it would be better in person? You need to end this now. Hopefully, he doesn't have your home address or phone number.

Marina	This is very cut and dry and it escapes me as to why it is such an issue for you. You have no relationship with this person. Tell him to go to hell and block him. Problem solved.

rplayer64	Ask yourself what you want in a partner. Do you want someone who will abuse you verbally and gloss over problems? No, no you don't want someone like that. Just don't talk to him anymore and find someone else.

trick1us	ok princess the internet is a dangerous place this man is most likely searching the net for different women he is not treating you good at all and you do deserve to be treated nice by a man so you should just cut him off and delete him

xjuma970	Man oh man...get rid of this guy. He's obviously got some bipolar disorder to run so hot and cold like that. Just be glad you've only invested a month in this guy. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on. Best of luck to you, sweetie.

omkar.devdas	its upto u how long u want to have a relationship with him. Infact i dont understand your feelings towards him .why are u so much obsessed about his behavior? if he is abusive to u, u can easily avoid him. these type of person are extremely moody and self centered stay away from such relationship.

wally5234b	You seem to have given up already. Just say goodbye. Life is only complicated when we make it so. Seek after happiness, not misery. The answers to your questions have been in your head already. A guy you haven't met. What do you think you owe this guy when you get nothing. Stop being needy. How important is your happiness.