i love this guy who is married and he loves me to but he don't wanna divorce his wife!! wtf do i do?

Nicole	Find someone else who isn't taken. If hes not willing to leave his wife, he can't actually love you like he says he does

fyhra20	Break up. It's not going to work out if he's married, especially if he has kids.

Bibigirl	News flash...He doesn't love you like he loves his wife and he is making a fool of you. Move on and leave the married man alone.

IndyGirl	He. Will. Never. Leave. His. Wife. Get started un-loving him, Honey. xoxoxo

Mizz	test his love. how much does he loves you, if hes refusing to leave his wife that kind of shows you a lot doesn't it? make sure you aint a booty call

Allie_rocks13	why is the guy even seeing you while he is married!! if u really want to be with this guy, just tell his wife that he is cheating on her, she will divorce him, and then you guys can go live happily ever after!

Andy	just keep doing him! that's part of the excitement of an affair. all the time you have together is quality time not vegetating in front of the TV.

lola	You have to decide if you're happy with the way things currently are, or if you want to be his one and only. If you can't handle sharing him with his wife, then you have to move on.

wantsmore	you with hold-he will either still stay with his wife or realize that he will lose you and make a choice- either way-if you want him-stop sleeping with him- if he doesn't leave his wife-then you should move on and find yourself someone who won't leave you-you should feel you deserve that!

ladyinred	There is nothing you can do if he don't want to leave his wife. You just got to move on or you can continue doing what you are doing and you are gonna be the one that gets hurt in the end.

juicyher	Leave that woman's husband alone. He belongs to her, not you. If he loved you so much, he would leave his wife no matter what he tells you and he's not doing that because he loves his wife, not you. Move on.

sophia_of_light	You shouldn't have gotten invovled in the 1st place too late now he'll never leave her and if it's not you he's messin' around with it will be someone else if it isn't already... You're playing with fire and it's dangerous for your reproductive orgains health wise... Seek a single man!!!

Starlight	Bow out and leave them be. Do they have children? Think of them. If a married guy will cheat on his own wife, he will cheat on his mistress too. And, say he does leave her and marries you, well he will cheat on you too.

Liz	Keep being a convenient toilet for him whenever he needs to dump a load. You've got a few more years of your life to waste, haven't you? At least until he gets caught and runs home with his tail between his legs like a whipped dog, or until he finds an even more gullible bimbo than you, whichever comes first.

Billion Dollar Boy	You move on. One . . don't get involved with someone while they are married. You certainly would not want it done to you! If he is ever single and you are single . .then consider your options. For now, he has made his bed, now let him LIE in it! There are plenty of unmarried guys who are great . . . give them a chance.

Evomnix	I doubt he will leave his wife.Ive heard of this situation before. He is not leaving what is his constant or what he may think is secure in his life, which is his wife. He may love you but its not that love that will have him leave his wife. You may just be his fun for now. Dont bother. Remember karma may come back to you..Just saying..

Happilycurvy	omg I can't believe you are asking that question...number one he is cheating WITH you he will cheat ON you..what makes you believe that you are better than the woman he took vows with made a legal binding contract to love until death...apparently you are so blinded by infactuation you don't see his lies will start with you next when he is bored with you ...just like he was with his WIFE

Peace&Love	Move on. He will never leave his wife, he has no plan to leave his wife. That is why he has not done anything. He obviously does not love you, he supposedly loved his wife and look how he f*cked her over. Obviously the idiot does not have any emotion, nor do you. I say grow up, get a life and stop seeing a married man.

alialoggi	What can you do? Continue to date him knowing that he wont leave his wife, or break up with him. What other choices are there? You could try to break them up, by telling her, but then he could end it with you. Really, think this through, there are no other options. If you are unhappy with your choices, you or he will eventually end the relationship.

wkidd	does he have kids? What is your age difference? Maybe the wife is sick or can't take care of herself for some reason. She needs to know to leave him so she can move on too though. You should tell the wife. Don't think you broke up the family though, he's the one that strayed on her and he'll probably do it to you too, unless he's a lot older than you and sees you as a young strong woman who'll be there for him (be prepared to have to take care of him in all ways in time). I'm sure he'll come running to you if you tell the wife (if he doesn't have kids). Men generally will want to stay with their wives if they have kids, even though they've strayed because they realize that they were just going through a midlife crises. Also remember that he'll have to pay allimony to the wife since he strayed. This is the key that keeps most men from getting a divorce. It will cost them more money to get divorced than to stay together! It's a shame, but these things happen. In the long run, I don't think you'll be secure with him because you'll be afraid he'll do the same to you. He may be a womanizer. From the looks of your picture, you look like a beautiful woman, and he may be just unable to commit to one woman. You might have a "closet mormom" guy (the guys that want more than one woman). Sorry :{

infinite crisis 247	you have two choices 1. continue with things as they are (because truthfully, he isn't going to divorce his wife...and i think that you already know this. why should he, he's getting the best of both worlds.) 2. put an end to this and refuse to be in a relationship like this a second longer. if you take option 2, take some time before getting into another relationship, so you can figure out what it is about yourself that allowed you to be in a relationship where you will always come 3rd (behind himself and his wife) and possibly 4th if he has children.

Rachel	How can you even start to believe he loves you? Are you serious? If he loved you then he wouldn't be in a relationship with his wife still. And if he cheated on his wife what makes you think he will be committed to you? Sorry to say it but if he does leave her he might just want to be single for a while and not just jump into a relationship so fast. (Especially with a girl that did not have a problem giving it up to a married man)

victoria	if he dont want to leave his wife then he clearly dont love you enough and besides what make you think that he wouldn't cheat on you to. You should do like me and get a man of your own an have d married one on the side if you feel like you really need him in your life. or if the love you have for him is to strong that you want him for your self and cant share him with his wife well then you definitely need to leave him and run run run. Don't ever expect married men to leave their wives for you.I for one would never want mines to leave his wife for me.

CARLA T	Sorry honey, but he is lying to you. If he doesn't want to divorce his wife then he is just using you and lying to you to keep you where he wants you. The fact of the matter is he loves his wife more than you. Also, you don't want to marry him anyway, he will just do the same thing to you when he gets bored with you. And he will.

jennyboo513	It's the price you pay for getting involved with someone who is married, I had a friend who went through something similar. He would always say "oh don't worry you know I'm gonna leave her for you" and stuff like that just to keep her around but never intended on getting divorced. He did have feelings for her but wanted to have his cake and eat it too. She finally came to her senses and realized the whole situation was wrong and moved on, it took her awhile of course but it's not a healthy relationship to be in. You should move on, despite you loving him he is married hence you two shouldn't be together in the first place.

Domina	You should never mess with a married man because you can never have them for yourself. They will always belong to their wife and not you. As a women why are you even trying to become a home wrecker that's just scandalous. The fact that he says he loves you but doesn't want to divorce his wife should make you have some self respect and move on and find a man that is single and available. Messing with a married man ain't nothing but trouble.

MASTER SHAKE	Just keep being his secret.