i need some guidance....i'm considering leaving my husband!?

rtanys	Either this is a completely bogus question or you're the most selfish, high-maintenance ho I've ever heard of. You threw a fit because he didn't buy you a diamond for the anniversary of your first kiss? Did you buy him anything for the first time he felt comfortable enough to fart in your presence? Either get some perspective, or get a life.

eshie	..........ummmmmmmmmmm your crazy!!!!! first kiss....first date....???? who cares..is that at all, i have been with a girl for while (5years) and I have no clue when those dates are, I know when we made everything "official"....how does he treat you? do you have fun? Are you happy? If you are thinking about divorce because of that....there is more behind it!!! My GF knows she is the only one in the world, and she knows that I make her feel like that! But she also knows not to care about stupid little things. Sorry for being mean.

jag	Are you serious? Men forget things all the time, your first kiss? I don't even know the anniversary of my first kiss. I would say try to stick out this marriage. You may get someone much worse than this. And try to start thinking of other people besides yourself. Maybe you could purchase gifts for some old shut-in relative or help with a charity, count your blessings!

narendra	No, not at all, you should not prepare for divorce, but love him more, take a task to fulfill his like/dislike, he will became a best husband, & he will remember all your needs.

SOMEONE	dont listen to chad....hes full of it!!!

Dr, Dave	ARE YOU FOR REAL????????????????? The anniversary of your first kiss and date.... you've got to be kidding me!!!!! At best these would rate a mention and maybe a flower not any kind of big gift.... what's next the anniversary of your first bowel movement when you moved in together or maybe the anniversary of that mullet you're sporting in your picture?

haringmarumo	you are seeing relationships and marriage as if you were a mere child, i advise you to mature, and yes to divorce him, and to learn more about life, and how you could become less selfish, you are not really wife material, more so mother material,

Kat	well noooooooo.. you sound very selfish to me.. men dont remember that stuff. hell i dont remember that stuff. you sound like your looking for a reason to leave him.. and to me those are not good enough reason to just give up.. it was for better or worse. i would think about this more and not fight over things that are not important.. good luck

Joseph C	no most guys do forget those thing.as long as he rememebers ur birthday and the date u got married

Rich	Coming from a guy here....once he married ya, the 1st date/kiss thing is long gone. The marriage date is/should be the date he remembers. If you have been married for under 10 years, yes 10 years, you have a lot ahead of ya. If you are concerned about the 1st kiss/date thing, you're being selfish. Give him a break. If he is forgetting important dates like b-days, the date you were married, and such...then sit and have a talk. A nice calendar on the wall with those days marked so everybody can see them is a nice trick to help out too.

KatieAnn H	drink a lot, have a pitty party and then get up and get on with your life and never look back

Chief Wiggum	Its the only way. A man needs enough care for a woman to get her good Zirconia or he basically needs a good avatar. Your man has neither. Move on. I'll take the case

Tequila	Divorce. Not over such a silly matter. Men dont remember all these date things. Dont go overboard because of these minor issues. And whats with the diamonds etc >Dont measure ones love by the number of diamonds he buys you. Thats so shallow. Why bother with these overpriced pieces of rock . There is more to a relationship than just diamonds.Love and respect each other and be tolerant and caring.

Bri	HMMM, okay. well sometime you have to flat out tell a man exactly what you want and what you feel is lacking in the relationship. If this does not work or has not worked then I would guide you to follow your heart.

Blake P	Ok, you have to cut the dude some slack. The frist kiss anniversay? Nawww let that slide. guys are really not into all that. and the first day? i mean...ya some guys remember but after years its like.. why... ha. mean... but if he forgot when you got together then you need too kick him out. NO ONE should forget that. I think your the problem (no offence) im not sticking up for the guy. but he took the time to get you something after he messed up. Shouldn't that be good enough? i mean just cuz you didn't get what you wanted doesn't mean you have to divorce him.

Matigas	I think you have issues too.

Curly	I know guys who dont remember their wedding aniversary, but love their wives very much. Those guys would say you are very high maintenence if your willing to leave your husband for him not remembering other dates. I think you and he are not communicating. He doesnt understand whats valuable to you, just like you dont understand whats valuable to him. Get counseling.

nutterbutter475	wells, i mean, if those things really matter to you, talk to your husband. If hes a good person and he loves you and like spending time with you, i would hope you feel the same way about him. It seems to me like you guys dont connect very well... so work on that. Unify with one other, if that makes sense. Know eachother and communicate.

Brandon H	wow your kind of being a *****. Most husbands can't even remember their wedding anniversary. Chill out a bit, he tried to make up for it, it just wasn't good enough you. From the sound of it your husband should be the one with a hard decision to make about now.

Ali	I'm sorry but you expect him to remember the anniversary of your first kiss? first date? GOOD GOD! Then he buys you a necklace but that's not good enough because you wanted a diamond... holy geez I feel bad for him.

bd3333	haha sounds like he should leave your ***, golddigger who cares about your aniversery of ur first kiss oooo wow get a life and tell your usband he should leave you.

howdigethere	You got to be kidding!!!!!!!!!!

David	No don't go for a divorce yet. have you talk to him and told him how much it means and asked for his opinion? Take it easy. remembeer what made the 2 of you fall in love?

chad k	it sounds like he should leave you.

mylittlemargie	You'ss be doing him a favor if you file for divorce.

froggy	Don't get a divorce over this petty crap. Try counseling first. You must have known how he was before you married him. Did you think he was going to change?

buttfor2007	You need to learn to respect the man. What a disgrace.

summersweetheart_16	and you call him selfish. psh.