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i slept with my boss and now im pregnant?

i started sleeping with my boss becuz i just couldnt help it. but now im pregnant. he has a wife who i happen to be good friends with. and he has 4 kids. i told his wife but i ddnt tell her who the father was. and she was happy saying our kids can grow up together and now i kinda feel guilty what should i do







Lady Hewitt
You could have helped it hon but you chose to do it and since you did you should take responsiblitly for the baby .... Basically i have to be honest here... You chose to sleep with him and spread your legs and this is no way the babys fault.... She will have to end up knowing the truth sooner or later as it will come out someday anyway down the road.... You need to tell your boss to either tell his wife or you will have to tell her. Honesty is the best policy you know.


girlysledgirl
you feel KINDA GUILTY? you should feel horribly guilty. you need to come clean - to the boss, to the boss' wife. you'll lose her as a friend but that was a chance you took, now it's time to face the truth.


Cori
Oh wow...well did you tell your boss yet?? whats his opinion?? i dont know what to tell you...it's gonna be hard especially cause you and his wife are friends...I wish you and the baby all the best...and i hope this is resolved in a good way..Good Luck


PfcsBaby
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Tough question. Are you married yourself? Y'all could just go on with the lie and lives your lives seperately, but something could come up in the future and then everyone would know. He has 4 kids already and that makes it really tough for him to just up and leave his family. Its your decision. You can keep the baby and live your life with no one knowing any better, or tell his wife what happened and go from there.


rozzywozzy
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Don't panic you have a few options if this guilt is eating away at you tell your boss he may not tell his wife but if you want to you can you don't have to.
you can have an abortion (not reccommended)
Or have it adopted or keep it (Reccommended) I acctually think this posting is fake but just in case I've said this anyway


katiej47
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Tell the truth and if you are ok with abortion you should not have the child. It will only be a source of heartache and lonliness for the resat of your life. Tell your boss and confess to the wife. You have to do it.


Go16
Fess up to everybody. First your boss, then his wife. It's only fair to your child. (Your baby has the right to know his/her father, and half-siblings). You made a bad choice and now you have to live with it.

In the future, make wiser decisions.

By the way, killing your baby through abortion is not a solution. It is murder. It's your fault that you are pregnant. Don't punish your baby by not giving him/her a chance at life.


twiggy_vienna_love
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tell her and stop having the affair ( I don't recommend abortion's to anyone) god put baby's here for a reason ,that's the old saying
whatever you do keep the baby


Terry M
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wow, does he know, and if so what does he want to do. is he willing to help. stay away from his wife. it is best she does not find out from you. and don't be a hypocrit about it.


?
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Yeah you're a really great friend to his wife...frigging looser.


veronica
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A dirty secret like that sure won't help the kids to grow up together. Also is unfair to that poor lady. She'll find out sooner or later and that's pain. What did she do? I think you should go live someplace far away and naturally, find a different job.


liz
omg you full of ****.... realy you are.....how can you brake up a family??


Raul V
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Being such a S L U T has its consequences and you are living them! Take advantage of the fact that you and his wife are such good friends and move in with them!


lulu2839
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You're in for one hell of a raise!!! Seriously...that's what you get for doing a married guy. Now pay the piper! Dumb a$$


ndngrlz
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Book an appearance on Jerry Springer...does HE know?? It's bad enough your the "other" woman...why didn't ya'll "bag" it up??


lefecious
Well that's great, your kids CAN grow up together. And you can keep having the affair with your boss. Not only will it help your career, but you obviously like the guy. You should start using some kind of birth control though.


Eda M
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WOW you have put yourself in a right mess! Nice way to treat a friend!


Robert P
ask for a raise!


picture
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Get a new job somewhere else and make him help you, tell him about the baby


J
Wow...that's a tough one. I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation.


CPT Jack
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If you value your friendship with the wife, raise this child in anonymity. And for God's sake, stop seeing the boss. I'd consider getting a new job.


scott b
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Stupid **** happens when you do stupid ****. My advice to you, throw yourself down a flight of stairs


Godknown
There is nothing you really can do. Just hope for the best, and pray.

People are afraid of truth, but the truth sets you free.


kelly w
why would you tell her first?
You need to tell the piece of s h it that got you preg.
I hope his wife leaves him.
This is what you get for playing hard ball. Now deal with the consequences


skenk33
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Call Jerry Springer!!!! I would love to see that episode!!!!!


bluepuddle
you are in deep doo doo.







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