if you r husband converse with other woman on the internet is tha cheating?

Daniel H	The only thing that matters is what a couple agrees upon. If you don't like it, and he insists on doing it, that's a problem. How would he feel if you were talking to men on the Internet? Do you want to try it and find out?

texasstar1974	I don't thinnk so , unless he's making plans to go away with her. I've found that men online are very easy to talk to about anything. I don't even know what they look like. It could be alot worse.

DEBBIE G	I don't know if I would consider it cheating but I wouldn't like it --- and I would wonder what the hell he's chatting with them for. What about me?

debbie v	it can be

eastslc	Depends what they are chatting about. And how do you know in the first place?

anakin s	You should do the same thing to him.

Therious	Depends completly on what they are conversing about. If he is having a pleasant conversation with no innuendos then that's gravy. However, if he's "clicking his own mouse" with her then that's wrong. Also f he's having "personal" conversations that should be had with you, then that's borderline.

manybagolike	Cheating? No. Wrong? YES!

DrkLashes	No, it's not technically.... At the same time you also have every right to gently let your husband know that it hurts or bothers you, if it does. If you present it to him appropriately without being demanding, and he gets aggressive about it or still talks to other women on a regular basis, then I fear you might have a little problem.....

someones friend	Depends on the conversation and the site. If it's related to a personal ad, ie, match.com,true.com then I would have to say he is interested in someone else. If he is in a chat room and carrying on a general conversation no it's not. We are carrying on a conversation right now and it's just general. Maybe he is answering questions on Yahoo. Good Luck.

stacie	no. but, it could lead to it.

floridaman39us	Chatting is cheating. You bet it is.

boffthewall	it depends on what they are talking about.

Brandie H	probably

DrPepper	A BIG FAT YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Phatgirl26	It depends on how you look and feel about it. Also whether or not he is trying to hide it from you or not. If he is hiding it then maybe there is something to worry about.

whitexsaucer	No, it's a little wrong, but not cheating.

PiNkY	Well, unless he's conversing with her while booking a second honeymoon trip for the two of you, then yeah - its cheating!

bbq	only if it takes away from the quality of your relationship (i.e you dont see him coz all his time is on the computer) or the quality of their conversations (is he revealing too much and starting an emotional affair?)

Major	Yep.

ahhchoooo	well not necessarily, it depends on who she is and what they are conversing about..

Ian S	Depends.

ideally_rational	it all depends on what is being said.