im 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to do it, but i think i am still to young. What do i do?

ladytaurus5339	Nope ! Don't do it ! If he breaks up with you then he isn't good enough for you any way !

ClaireB	you tell him 'i don't want to do it. i am too young.' and if hes a good bf he will say ok if he's not worth having he can go. plenty more will come and they will be better

Wise Old Witch	You are not ready. He is a horny kid. If you are afraid he'll break up with you then it is emotional abuse and rape. OMG why would you do it with some one just because you are afraid he will break up.Please, please, if you do get birth control help.

cope_acetic	Hon, if he breaks up with you over THAT, he doesn't care about you at all---and you'd be better off without him! You ARE too young...save it for someone you love, and who truly loves you!

SexyhotBIchick	His hormones are out of control, and when he done he'll just go to another girl. You be all over the locker room walls. trust me wait till you get older.

bigmom	If he cares about you and respects you he would not place an ultimatum on you. Don't do it, save yourself for someone that really loves and respects you.

It's time to let go!	My daughter is 15 also and I have always told her that if the person really cares for you then they will respect your decision. My parents never talked to me and I ended up getting pregnant at the age of 14 I was barely 15 when I had my first child and even though I don't regret my decision to keep him I do regret the age I was when I had him. Don't let anybody talk you into doing anything your not ready for because you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Gina C	Tell him that you are not so stupid as to exchange your virginity for acceptance. He's a lout! Normal, but a lout. 21 is a nice age to choose your first true lover. Have a GREAT life!

J	Dump him. You're only 15 the chances that your relationship will last and you'll actually end up getting married is EXTREMELY slim...so you're probably going to end up breaking up anyway. If he's so willing to dump you for not doing it, then why can't you be just as willing to dump him for pressuring you before you're ready? If you do it at your age you'll regret it...most people do. EDIT: I believe the age of consent is 16 in at least the majority of states, so if he's older (since you never said his age) that would be statutory rape.

lonewolf	Hun, any guy that wants you just for ex is not worthy of you ! There are plenty of others guys that you have never even met so do not let this guy disrespect you by doing somthing you are not ready for ! In Jesus name,Kenny

Warren	Just tell him you're not ready. You're too young. If he breaks up with you over that, that should tell you he's no loss. He's not interested in you, just doing it.

â™¥Sabreâ™¥	so let himbreak up with you then - if he were to break up with you for that stupid of a reason then he doesnt respect you

heartsarebad	Never do it for a Boy wants you to. He isn't worth it. He will do it with anyone that gives it up. You will be a ho. Go talk to you mother about this. not to internet strangers.

Hi, how the heck r ya?	im 15 too,haha--- YOUR TOO FREAKING YOUNG TO EVEN HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!WHAT IS WITH YOU PEOPLE THESE DAYS!!! OOO LOOK AT ME IM IN HIGH SCHOOL I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!! YOUR TOO YOUNG, EVEN I DONT WANT ONE!!!! ODDS ARE THERE GOING TO DUMP YOU OR UR GOING TO DUMP HIM, EITHER WAY UR GOING TO BE DEPRESSED BECAUSE U DONT HAVE A BOYFRIEND, THEN UR GOING TO MOPE AROUND AND BRING EVERY ONE DOWN WITH YOU!!!!