im done with life?

sexymonk31	ive been down that road b4..b strong think positive ..life does have lotsa tough test for u...ru giving up..too early try ur best first..if u can past the tests , u'll sure be a much stronger person and u 'll live happy then..sounds like u need to consult a counselor and doctor for depression..it'll be okay..stay strong.

pao	You can try to live without hurting others. Or you can be more flexible, more tolerant with yourself. Just because you aren't the best doesn't mean you're not good. Just because you hurt others doesn't mean you can't help them too. You are possibly experiencing depression, or it could be an emotional phase you'll get through over time. If you have good reason to feel hopeless, then you need to work through and solve the problems facing you. That could mean long talks with friends or family, maybe even therapy. If it's a real medical problem, you may need to talk with a doctor about getting into treatment for clinical depression. In any case I hope you feel better and find something to aim for.

ThatsNachocheese	Well you shouldn't think that way. You are here for a reason, maybe you just haven't found that reason just yet. What could be so bad that you don't want to live anymore? It's a selfish way to go, you leave people behind that love you wondering why and hurting because of it. You should seek some sort of counseling to help you talk about it and understand why you're feeling that way. Everyone hurts at some point, you just have to see it through and it will eventually get easier.

Loiterer	First, what is your problem? probably a divorce! so now listen: if you don't believe in God and Heaven, that's good! now find another more realistic aim, for example find the laws of nature and know yourself and understand all things you do not do understand now! So just change your approach to life: live to reach perfection. what is perfection, you say!?? you should find it yourself, 'cause the pleasure is in this very action!

Mr. US of A, Baby!	Understandably, when people are miserable, they want it to end. Go to your pastor, your doctor, and/or your best friend and talk it over. You sound like you are really really depressed and in need of professional and/or medical treatment. You can be happy again, and will if be you get the help you need now. GOD BLESS YOU & KEEP YOU SAFE UNTIL THEN.

eyesopen16	u sound like u r in alot of emotional pain...and u need to talk to someone...i dont think this site is the right thing for u...u need to talk to a professional...i hope u do not think thyat suicide is the only way out, lots of people go through depression but it will get better...trust me...u need to give things time to heal...i really hope u seek help somewhere else and good luck to u.

kitchenhelper	Okay, if you really wanted to die you would have already. Why would you even think of pouring your soul to everybody else. I think you need to seek some help. You are your own worst enemy. So, get some help go see a advisor that can sit down and talk with you and maybe you can realize how special you really are and consider giving your life a second chance.

iyamacog	Are you aware that you've referred to you, 18 times in your writing. I dont mean to be harsh. But perhaps if you try to concentrate on WHERE your pain originates. And what you can do to resolve your pain. How you're hurting others. And what you can do to resolve that as well. Look for some answers that will create some desire for you to do better all around. Once you concentrate on how to fix your pain, you may be able to actually make progress. Have you considered that you dont deserve to die either. Thus the reason for your being here. Now why not make your life have meaning, by doing all that you can to improve it. You dont need to hurt, if you CHOOSE not to. You dont need to worry, if you CHOOSE not too. You have all the control USE it!

Lev	I know how you feel I have been were you stand right now! I had been hurt so many times by so many people. But, I told myself that there had to be a better way, not by my own strength or understanding but there had to be something that wouldn't hurt me and a better answer than taking my life! You know something? THERE IS! The Bible Says: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Prov.3:5-6) Know that we are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed! (2 Cor. 4:8-9). I believe that you might be hearing the voices in your mind that I once heard right about now. About ending your life and your nothing and have no value! But you know what? THERE ALL LIES from the deceiver Satan! You don't want to hurt no more right? I then would encourage you to turn and give your lies in your mind over to Jesus! Know that you are Loved, you are something! and above all else you are certainly valued! The Bible says: Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Phil. 4:6-7) Jesus said: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you! (Luke 6:27-28) The only way to start to stop hurting is to forgive the ones that make you feel the pain you feel now! In addition start developing a relationship with God and Jesus.Challenge yourself to match the lies in your mind with truth! Know that no matter how alone and hurt you feel. Know your never alone with a good relationship with God and Jesus. God loves you! The Bible says: "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5)God created you, and God loves you. His only Son, Jesus Christ, loved you so much that he gave His life on the cross so you could be saved and break free from in perfectness, sin,hurt and voices of lies in your head that try to put you down to become a child of God. I know you feel like you are caring your own cross on your back right now but, PUT IT DOWN THIS INSTANT! And give Jesus all your worries and burdens. When you accept Jesus Christ into your life, something wonderful and supernatural happens. God Himself comes to dwell within you! You become part of His family, and you can know the joy of His presence every day. Pray right now and I encourage you to invite Jesus into your heart, ask him to bring back the joy back into your life! I to will be praying for you sister because I was too once where you are now and the only way am still alive is because my Faith in Jesus saved me and he showed me the better life I could be living if only I put my faith and trust in Him. I encourage you to read a bible right now! start with the gospel of John! There you will find a story of a man named John the Baptist that paved the way for another man named Jesus that loves you and will bring you guidance and hope to your life, if you look to him and follow him for your life's answers instead of your self! I can't stress enough how I know what your going though and you really need a change of atmosphere in your life, get out of the darkness and try to meet new people! A lot of Church's have small groups and some even have single groups. So, I would encourage you to do that because it wasn't till I started putting Jesus first before myself that my life started to get better, I had a whole new image of myself and I started to see how much I was really loved and valued in God's eyes. You are so loved sweetheart don't you dare try to take the easy way out! You have so much to offer! So, Go ahead right now, this minute, cry out to Jesus! ask him to lead your heart so you may trust him that everything will be all right and the next step you take will be right in line with what he wants for you in life, and what life is suppose to be like in serving him! Tell him you don't want to be hurt anymore! You don't want to live with these voices in your head that tell you that your not valued. May Jesus bring some new friends into your life that will help you and teach you truth! In Jesus Name. Amen

maerivsa	You wrote alot, but didn't really say anything!! Like what is making you so upset, and depressed? What kind of emotional pain are you talking about? Where/ When/ How did it all start? Every minute of every day, everything is changing! Whatever is bothering you right now, will soon be in your past! People's brains have their own way of dealing with the type of pain you are talking about, and it usually takes some time, but you WILL eventially get over it. I felt the same way a long time ago. Then eventially, I got my life back, and am happy I am still here!! You will be too, it just takes time, and friends to help, understand, and support you. A few with good shoulders to cry on kinda helps too! It really helps to talk, and get it out of your system, so you can start fresh. Good-Luck, and hope to see you around here again later!!!

Tash	You have just got to think on the positive side. You can do this. You have to make yourself happy others can't do that for you. Don't do suicide because you never know when something great could have happened.

anacacia2002	Don't die. God puts us through trials and we have to get pass them. This could be a test for you. Don't hurt yourself. If you need to talk to someone there are hotlines for help, and you can call. Suicide isn't the answer.

Sonoffun1	You are alive and no matter how difficult your life is it is yours to cherish. Many have contemplated taking their lives because life is tough and things are crazy and they can't cope. You are blessed to be PERIOD!!! Life is tough and life has many downfalls, but you'll never appreciate those spectacular times you're gonna have if you don't experience those difficult times every so often. That being said do what you need to do!!!

tonysae	it might sound too religious for u....but the best answer would be to go to a priest and express this feelings...he would be able to guide u through.

Kitty	Please get help... I don't know your situation, or why you are in pain, but there is ALWAYS always hope. Reach out for help, in any way you can. There are always people who care about you; you would be hurting them greatly by taking your own life.

Manatee	Hi Betsy, I'm sorry you are going through a bad patch. We've all been down in life. I don't know how old you are. If you are a teen, I can tell you that your brain's chemistry is probably the most challenging thing you will face in life right now. Either way, you are reaching for help in this forum ... that is good... take that reaching further and talk to a professional. Seriously, this way of thinking is as dangerous as heart disease. You MUST seek some help. You are most probably going through some depression and a short prescription to snap you out of it and put you back on track may be all you need. Please make an appointment with your doctor ASAP and don't feel shame... this is real!

froggy_dimebag	I recommend you move away, away from all the crap that is hurting you inside, start a new life somewhere else where no one knows you.

thewayiam23@yahoo.com	i am feeling the same way but i am fighting through it

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emtb9	Do you think you are the only one out there that has problems? Do you think you are the only one that doesn't know where to turn when things get at their worst? If you seriously feel this way, then you are way off base. Life isn't easy, life isn't fair, but there are other ways. If you believe in God, you need to pray... He doesn't give us more than we can handle. You need to get your phone book, and find you the phone number to the suicide hotline, or the crisis hotline. Good luck to you.

Wat Da Hell	Hurt is a strange thing...it can last forever. I know that is not very comforting at this point in your life but it is true. My mother took her life more than six years ago. My father died 28 days later from what I always thought was a broken heart. I don't think I will ever recovery from that period of time. I always felt that I was alot like my mother. In fact I have considered taking my life on a number of occassions. My line of work forced me to face family separations on a daily basis. Then came the physical pains of sickness. I had a triple by-pass and I am a diabetic at risk of losing both of my leggs. My wife and I have lived through a fire and I felt I had reached the bottom I think at some point I began to question my beliefs. Why my mother...she was a good person. My father was a deacon in the church. No one could even start to give me answers to my questions. I began to get angry at people that were happy. How could they be happy when my world was falling apart. I am still not sure! But my youngest daughter gave me two beautiful grandsons. My youngest son gave me a beautiful grandaughter. Now each day I only hope that they grow up happy and safe. But more important I hope to be there with them as they grow older. I guess my point is we never know whay is in store for us in the future. I can only hope that you find the relief that you seek and God provides you with a reason to live.

android200002	Hi, just take it easy. Dont know the reasons, but sure there must be a solution. Feel free to IM me.

kipp B	i used to feel that way, but i have learned that tomorrow is always a better day. it may take awhile but the day will come when you are glad to be here. we all go through hard times. these days will make you appreciate the days to come. hang in there.......it will get better

Tasha	Hi Betsy, I know exactly where you're coming from. No matter what is going on in your life that you think is making you feel this way probibly isn't the problem. You could possibly have depression. (I do) I know I'd never kill myself but there are times when I wish I could just die. I have been on zoloft and paxil. I highly reccomend going to the doctor and trying an anti-depressant. Zoloft is a good place to start cuz it can be taken temporarily with a doctors orders. E-mail me if you'd like to talk more. It'll be ok:)

coolio	calm down and try to be rational. almost EVERYONE goes through times like this.. some more than most and the time length varies for the different people and situations. but S*** happens in this life. and you just need to deal with it. leaving this world will do nothing for you and will not solve your problem. it is a permanent thing.. and THIS TIME WILL PASS!! you need to remember that. you need to focus on your wonderful qualities.. what makes you unique from everyone else.. the WORLD NEEDS YOU! and you need to remember that there ARE people who actually even have it WORSE than you. at least you are still given the chance to live. don't take that for granted. because i know there are millions of people who have died not by choice and would be so THANKFUL to be able to have just the CHANCE to live. live your life to its fullest and don't be so negative.. because it does you no good to think that way.. it just keeps you set in that same track of line! you need to not always just rely on others to help you and tell you what to do and rather focus more on YOURSELF. be friends with yourself and help yourself through this. yeah friends and other people can be a helping crutch.. but you need to learn to love yourself first. i do not know you but i know you are special in your own way.. and PLEASE do not resort to the ultimate decision.. you will miss out on so much and it is obvious just NOT YOUR TIME to go. everything happens for a reason.. and remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. i hope your life looks up soon, but if not sooner than later then please don't get discouraged and give up!! life is just hard!! or else what would be the point..?

bearjear29	I'm sorry that you feel this way, and in some ways I do feel your pain. I think it is important to look at the things that you do have in your life, and the fact that you have it at all. If you let yourself get caught up thinking about all the negativity in the world, you are going to cause yourself problems. Try something new, do something you know you like, spend sometime treating yourself to some good things; a nice dessert, a night out, etc. Get the negative thoughts off your mind and keep busy, When I get down, I try to think of all the good things there are in this world, everything that has ever made me happy. Living is inherently good, and never forget it. :)

stephanie	there is a fashionable word for people like you: EMO

ghostwalker077	we all feel this way at time, but you was put here for a reason,.... i not sure of what pain you are haveing,but think of it this way, their are some out their that wish they could feel something,,,,,,but to you i do ask one thing of you dont give up, if you just wait you find the reason,you are here, may be it a chil you must help, only god know the reason, please dont give up