is he cheating on me?

RN2B	More than likely he's doing something he shouldn't if he feels he has to sneak out and not tell you.

abkasy n	no he is just hungry for LOVE!!!

La Laurita	Probably. It's either another woman, drugs or another woman. Hopefully it's not another man. Start looking at options for getting out.

Mr R	Just because he was out of the house at 1 am doesn't mean he is cheating. All you know is he got a ticket. He could have been running after some Tylenol for all you know. Don't jump to conclusions and communicate with him. Just ask him to be honest with you and tell you whats going on in his head.

You ask, I answer	if he's not cheating, he's still sneaking around. you need to find out what the hell is going on.

Elisha H	He may not be cheating, but I would definitely find out what has him sneaking out in the middle of the night. Stop trying to give him everything he wants. Hon, you need to be happy too.

Hello	Nobody will be able to tell you for sure if he is really cheating or not. You have to find out yourself.

ben b	I am so sorry All I can say is it cant be good

Cole.Baby	Well something is definatly up. you need to have a serious talk with him. ASAP!!! or you may have to catch him doing it. like when he leaves pretend you are still sleap, but when he gets home and is about to walkin the house turn all the lights on right as he walks in the door, and demand an explination. u deserve 1. Goodluck

lyobov	Stop trying to give him everything he wants. Stand up for yourself, & the future of your kids.

Karen	WELL HAVE YOU QUESTION HIM ABOUT IT....YOU SHOULD TELL HIM THAT WAT IS HE DOING SNEAKING OUT,AFTER ALL HE IS A GROWN MAN WAT IS HE HIDING SPECIALY IF YALL HAVE KIDS,THEY DONT DESERVE THAT AND YOU DONT EITHER!!!

Tara B	confront him about this he might be cheating but he might be looking for something for you the only way youll find out is if you confront him the news might not be good but at least you wont have to live with the question for the rest of your life

Rukeann	Women have a special sense about this and other things. Go with your feelings. If you doubt them hire a P.I. And STOP giving him everthing he wants...He should be giving you icecream, pickles, running your bath etc. Who's pregnant anyway?

shuggabhugga05	HI....Don't assume anything till you get more proof. Getting a ticket doesn't necessarily mean he's out cheating with another. Now I have to admit that 'sneaking' out of the house after you have gone to sleep is rather mysterious and not being very honest but maybe he's meeting one of his buddies or he's got a crave due to your pregnancy and this is why he's leaving at night. There could be numerous reasons for this and not just cheating that you are assuming. Have you asked him yet on why he leaves in the middle of the night? If not, ask him, maybe he'll have a good reason. Maybe in his way of thinking, he wants to be with you during the day so he doesn't leave anywhere but he knows you are ok in a sense at night and you are asleep so he hangs out with his buddies. Sometimes a hubby or bf just needs to get away and have their own space at times. But think positive, don't think the worse it's not good for you or the baby if you are going to worry or be stressed about your hubby leaving at night. Don't dwell on something that may not be an issue. Get more evidence to back your assumption then accuse. Good luck and congratulations on your new arrival. Have a blessed day!

Suzy	He's cheating. Get a good lawyer now to advise you.

hannah	yeah he's prolly cheating on you...the reason is because alot of men feel overwhelmed with kids and a wife and want to get away with someone else for a night. Its not that ur not good enough for him its that he's seeking something new. if i were you i'd tell him how i feel and if he sneaks out of the house again then think about the d word

Perry C	He's not a grownup yet. Whether he's cheating with another woman or another man doesn't matter. When he leaves you in the middle of the night, he's divorcing you emotionally. Sounds to me like you're headed for a reallly tough time. Get some friends and family lined up to support you, because you're gonna need it. How do I know this? Because I was lke your boyfriend- an immature, selfish twit.

omgtheykilledkenny	i think u will know that better than anyone on here. u know ur husband, we dont.... ask him

mnm16685	Just ask him where he went the worst you could do is accuse him!!

Unknown	Tell him to stop sneaking out. I don't know if he is cheating, but that sneaking out must stop RIGHT NOW! :)

always51787	It is definitely a red flag, the only way to find out is to just confront him. Whatever his reasons are it would be pretty lame, ask him why, you might not want to hear what he will tell you, but at least you will know right? You can make a decision at that time on what you want to do. You are in a tough situation because you are pregnant. I wish I can tell you why men are the way they are, but guys will never be satisfied, I guess. Good Luck

nesa	true its a 50/50 chance if you think he is cheating on you try talking to him about it good luck!

Hollynfaith	Honey, I don't have a crystal ball, nor am I a psychic. I think the best thing to do would be to ask him. Maybe it's nothing, however sneaking out at that hour, when not much is going on, could easily lead one to think that. Just ask him. What do you have to lose? And if you are thinking about your family, and afraid of what that answer might be, you need to get over your fear and ask anyway. What if he is cheating? Is he bringing you home any diseases you should be worried about? And how much priority would he be placing on his family if he's doing this? You and the kids would deserve better. I know it's hard and I know your emotions can get the best of you while you're pregnant, but if this is really bothering you and you need that answer, then you need to ask.

lollipop	I would test him for STD's before he got back in my bed. And, is he meeting women or men ... Time for honest communication and probably counseling.

lisaanndubay	just ask him

Media1	its a 50/50 chance..or he could be headed to a drug dealers house watch out

Michael	Not sure if he's cheating, but I know one thing for sure--he's up to no good! The only thing he's after (while leaving the house regularly at that time period) is trouble. Late night trips to Taco Bell aren't completely out of the ordinary, but we don't normally speed to get there--the food isn't that good. As you suspect, the traffic ticket is a red flag. You know from how he's treating you recently versus when you were really into one another that he's doing something he shouldn't. Intimacy is the first to go when somene's fooling around. To answer your question about guys: some guys never grow up. However, your husband might just have a problem he just can't seem to deal with. Maybe if you allow him opportunities to open up, he'll talk about what's really bothering him. {I'm NOT saying you're to blame at all. Please do not think that. I just ask that you allow him the chance to open up and deal with his past. If he does, you'll have regained your loving husband. If not, then at least you could always try counseling.} I wish you all the best!