is it cheating on spouce if spouce has affair on line?

cam c	If no physical contact, then no. However, What's the spouse doing online with someone else, other than a friend that you know about. Not acceptable, but not an affair.

Angel	To me personally yes it is cheating but I have met people (men & women) that say it's not. So I guess it's up to the 2 people in the relationship. I'd say casually bring the subject up maybe around other people & you will found out what your spouse thinks.

Nessa	It's spouse and yes. It's cheating.

*Cara*	If you have to ask, YES, its cheating.

Jest sum guy	It's a form of cheating. It just shows that the spouse is bored in the relationship and wants something more, and if it is online then the spouse is looking for someone to talk to, someone to befriend, something that spouse isn't getting from their partner.

Terry	Yes. Anything you do online that you cannot share comfortably with your spouse is CHEATING, Lying and it will only lead to trouble and marriage problems.

Anna B	Yes definately.Cheating is cheating.

splashdesign238	Yes. In fact, you've answered your own question. "Affair" is an affair no matter where or how. The problem lies in the heart, however. There are many couples having affairs throughout their day, not even realizing that unfaithfulness fills their minds and hearts. If not dealt with in a practical way, it is only a matter of time before the marriage breaks down and a loss of marriage and family occurs. While it certainly is committing adultery, infidelity should never be a "blame game". Both parties are always at fault and to blame within the relationship. It's never one sided, or one person's fault. Because "both" are married, and "both" made a committment, "both" are responsible for making it work!

yogurt777	Spouse, not Spouce. Cheating is cheating...period.

*((Accidentally in L.O.V.E))*	I guess it all depends on your perspective. I would say thats cheating because there is another individual. I hope this helps.

Petunia	Yes!!!!! Your still going behind your spouse's back to chat. or flirt or what ever you talk about....Which is not good. Once a cheat, Always a cheat....weather you physically do it, or verbal... It's still wrong... How would you feel if the other spouse did it and you found out... Pretty sad!!!

juniper555	YES its an emotional affair

The Naughty Librarian	Yes.

Ledreru	Uh- ya

noodle	YES!!!! even if nothing "physical" is going on it is still an emotional affair which can be WAY worse. If you are going online instead of to you spouse you should definitely think twice about your relationship

Duck!	Not really. But it's a sign that they're bored.

Corgis4Life	YES.

daytonaqueen	yes it is because if u loved ur spouse you wouldnt be online looking for someone else

littleluvkitty	cheating is cheating one way or the other its still worng .

snddupree	Cheating is cheating. . . a definite YES!

martinthurn	NO! And what's the big deal about "cheating" anyway? Why are women so possessive / selfish about the issue? If your spouse cheats, you need to get a clue that YOU ARE BORING HIM.

Morgan J	Yes I think thats the most immature bull **** when someone in a relationship does that...I sounds bitter because it happened to me and you never will trust the person afterwards

*,:Ludy:,*	YES

catwomanmeeeeow	Yes.

big d	Yes...cheating is cheating

olderwiser100	depends on your definition of cheating. to my way of thinking it falls into the "no harm, no foul" category.