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is it true that when you give too much attention to a guy..?

they start ignoring you. like if you call them alot they will get a big ego and be like whatever. and if you stop calling they end up calling you??

blah i know i shouldnt call him that much that i am being dumb but its just outta nowhere he didnt even give me a reason just started ignoring me. im here left with our son and i thought we were gunna stay together :o(







Tainted Heart
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Unfortunately some are like that but not all.

Just stop giving him so much attention. Even though you mean well he may see it as too clingy.


Bob J
It does get abit annoying tbh with u, but if u call/txt him once every 2days thn it will seem more Special whn he gets it:)
xx


Kat
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its true sometimes if the guy isn't that interested...some guys and girls do that..when you call them alot ..they act like you are bothering them..and when you back off..they call but don't count on that happening..instead I would just stop calling him and see what happens..if he doesn't call you back ..then you know he's not interested..if he does..don't start over doing it again...try not to be too needy (not trying to be mean either..) just try to be more confident and get your self esteem going . You don't need to chase a guy..


snorkeling_llama
It's not so much the ego... It's that they think you're creepy, and are trying to distance themselves.


tfblechris
No, you can't cover every guy with the same blanket statement like that. Every guy is different, I wouldn't mind being called often, just not at work. Hope that you and your son are ok.


nenee305
look if he lives with you than if that's going on than hes cheating on you and if he doesn't live with you than your appeased with him and hes tiered of you and just give him a little space not that much just a Little bit


Hammurabi
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The guy might not realize it if he is doing it. Tell him...thats the only way it'll get solved.


o0mg_thats_rad
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no, they don't start ignoring.
you just seem to be REALLY annoying to them.

that's what i've learned.


Sarah;Sasquatch;*;
if you call him to much hes gonna ignor you because hes getting annoyed by your calls


Revoevo
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well im a guy and i dont think we do that unless were u no like spoiled or really stupid :P hopefully im not 1 and its not really true


AlessioPensoso
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Thats funny...Its the same thing we think about you Girls!! If we call you too often or Over shower you with gifts romantic things and loving jestures!!

To tell you the truth if I truly loved the woman no I wouldnt feel this way at all. Im so sorry your left all alone pls call him less often I hope the Idiot comes back to you and his son!


Mommy2girls
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Yes VERY TRUE! I have learned that from experience myself. As hard as it is not to call try not to so that way he will come crawling back to you & then you can be like whatever. Good Luck!


I love me :]
yea MOST guys are just like that.
its just that we live in a male-dominant world so when we give a guy too much attention, they think they can just do what ever and we'll still be loyal to them -_-''


no one
yeah that's right...?


Jonathan S
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Men are very complicated, they want you to call them / text them then they want you to stop talking to them so much and stop texting so much. We're just weird, sorry. lol


Mittmoudh R
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if you are calling him a lot, maybe you are a pain


enochville
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It is not that they get a big ego, they start thinking you are clingy and needy and that is not attractive because it belies an insecurity.


tucker
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um, as a male, i would consider it an annoyance.

Hope it helps! :D


Court
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Aw im sorry thats terrible, if hes ignoring you, you deserve better. I think this is why girls try to play hard to get, but if you play too long boys get uninterested and lazy. its so hard to win :/


tha_masha_redux
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It is definitely true. Whenever a woman calls me a lot I tend to lose interest. I have talked to friends and they have the same reaction, whether they are male or female. Occasionally calling, and acting a little disinterested works way better than calling a lot and acting overly enthusiastic.


tiredofitall
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No, but it works that way with women...


feeso
Yeah...too much attention = crowding their space


Kenton C
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I don't do that. I know guys who have done that. But not every guy is like that


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marylnn
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yes unforantaly it is true please someone answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqcjDe9p4C2ADO8Q3IAOeALsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081118145756AAonQBe


volkgal
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It is true...if you have the wrong guy.


MemyselfandI
no. i would never ignore a sincere girl. just dumb ones with orangey-skin who hang out at the bars/clubs every friday and saturday night... and don't know basic things like the capital of Sweden.


peaches6
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That's right!


anie*
yes.. stupid male ego.







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