Home     Links     Contact Us     Bookmark  
 
   Homepage      News      Legal Forum      Dictionary  
Home : Legal Forum : Marriage & Divorce

is it wrong to nag my boyfriend to buy me things?
Find answers to your legal question.





is it wrong to nag my boyfriend to buy me things?

he ends up buying them for me 90%







Raina
YES. Why can't you buy them yourself? It feels so much better when you pay for it yourself. The only exception is your birthday, Christmas, and your anniversary.


kotaro z
Rating
Yes, cause eventually he's gonna question whether you love him for him or for his money. Not to mention it's annoying and he's less inclined to give you a gift on his own...


Bouillon
Rating
sorry but nagging gets annoying....and maybe his reason for buying you things is so you could stop nagging.


Anthonyâ„¢
Yes it is. How would you like it if yall had a child (if you dont already) and they kept asking you to buy them things. You wouldnt like it.

But if he wants to spend all his money on you when ever you want him to thats just him. I hope ur doing something nice in return.


jwvu2004
Rating
Yes, you shouldn't have to nag him to get you things. He should do it on his own because he wants to. Also, there is more to a relationship than material possessions.


kitty
TELL HIM WHAT YOU EXPECT IN A RELATIONSHIP SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO NAG HIM TO GET YOU SOMETHING...............................…


♥Juana♥
Rating
Yes it is because he will soon think your selfish and all you want is for him to buy you stuff. Besides, a gift is better when its a surprise, not when you nag for it. Shame on you!! If you want something as a gift, its better to hint at it rather than beg for it. Show some class and alittle less selfishness. When was the last time you bought him a gift?


Michelle Zalbo
Rating
Yes.

Guys HATE girls who nag - it reminds them of their Mom.


Haley P
well it depends on if you think its bad!just follow your heart!go girl!


badboy4life
Rating
you sound like a gold digger !!!

sorry its actually quite sad really .


jOhAn
yes, you shouldn't try to get things by nagging, it's incredibly childish. That's what a baby does when they don't have something they want/need, they start crying. By nagging your giving in to that same childish sense. You should learn not to nag and instead simply ask him about buying you things.


Kills
Rating
if its expensive yes but try not to do it to often it u dont maybe hell offer to pay if u want something


Promise
Rating
One word. Gold digger. He should buy you things because he want to not because you pressuring the man.


Riley B
Rating
to nag him yes, to hint towards it no


The Wonderer
I think if he's losing the farm, then yes- otherwisie, let him feel like he's the big hero.


CCRIDER69
Rating
your a spoiled brat...he'll get tired and dump your asss oneday!!


princess_dnb
YES! That is totally wrong. You shouldn't ever expect/nag someone to buy you things. You are using him. You don't really love him. If he has any brains, he will dump you and find himself a woman who loves him for who he is instead of his money.


ragnarok
Rating
As long as he makes you work it off in bed. ;)


cynderella
Rating
YES!!! Girl never nag! it makes u look desperate.


photoheathen
Is that why you're dating him, for things?

Does he buy you things on his own, without you nagging him?

Are the things he buys for you on his own all wrong?

Is he selfish and never even considers buying you things unless you nag him?

Why do you need things?


MF
Rating
It makes you look gold digger-ish


beach babe
Rating
yea it kinda is


Kirkiee
Rating
leave him alone sheesh.


cindy h
Rating
Yes its rude and very distasteful. You should get yourself a job and stop being a leach. Men like to buy for their wormen but not like that.


lalalala
Rating
Yes. Leave him alone, its his money.

As for yourself, you should look after your own independence. Get a job. Don't live off of other people. It makes you a weak human being.


babywisdom88
Rating
YES that means ur a gold digger!


heatherr
Rating
yeeah, you shouldn't nag him to buy you stuff. if he does buy it for you then it's special, but what does it mean if you bug him to buy you stuff? it's rude to expect that from him.


Jay
yea thats a very bad thing to do, thats shows u cant take care of yourself and that u might be using him just so he can buy u stuff


Rebellion 101
It's okay if you want him to buy you things now and then. But you don't want to nag at him about it too much.







Legal Discussion Forum

 WOMEN....How many of you shave down there?
I personaly do, my husband talked me in to it 4 yrs ago, and boy it's much better. I've jsut heard od alot of girls that don't do it. They think it nasty......


 Is my husband cheating?
My husband is constantly making profiles on dating websites as a single man...he says that it is just for fun and it doesnt mean anything but something about it feels wrong. he swears he isn't ...


 Should I marry my best friend?
Kind of a long story. I have known my best friend for eight years. He has always told me he loved me and has always been there when my heart has been broken or when the chips were down for me or if I ...


 Spouse not a kisser... and so I'm missing kissing?
Anyone else have a spouse that has no appreciation for good kissing.

What's the point of having a mate who isn't into kissing.

Does anyone else think kissing is about ...


 I love my husband but.....?
On our first date, 3 years ago, he said he wanted to see my cat and kids at my house (I had a previous husband), and then he raped me. It was rape because I didn't want to do it. I got married ...


 Am I wrong? 10 points for honest answer. Thank you so much for your kindness?
Hi everybody,

I have been asking you guys about my relationship problems. This guy and I like each other for 3 years. We separated last year, but kept in touch as friends. Recently, he was ...


 Is this a new trend?: Asian girls with white guys? I've seen so many in the medial lately.?
What is it with these asian women?...


 wife of 8 yrs pregnant by a black guy should i stay with her?
we have three children 9,4,9mnths she been cheating on me with a 300lb lazy black man, yes my family is white friends tell me if you love her you will accept the mix baby as my ...


 Your opinion on divorce?
I think the institution of marriage has been distorted and mutilated. People aren't thinking clearly when jumping into it. Marriage is about everlasting, undying and unconditional Love, ...


 Is my wife being unfair?
9 years ago, she cheated on me, we got over it, got counciling etc.
But I told her then that i would have one good with her,she agreed then. A get out of jail free card so to speak. Now I have ...


 My best friend's husband is having an affair with me. Should i tell her?
...


 How long have you been married?
How old were you when you got married? Is it a good marriage? My loving husband and I have been married 2 weeks and plan on staying together til the end. I just want to hear some honest views about ...


 I never thought I would ask this but please answer ?
my best friend came over and asked me advice in something I am not familar with but thought I would ask on here. She likes this guy but on their 1st date he mentioned how his ex girlfriend enjoyed ...


 my boyfriend broke up with me in september, should i send him a xmas gift?
he broke up with me. it has been a difficult breakup for both of us. i just want to be compassionate. i am not expecting a response from him i just want him to know i care....


 Would you get married to someone to provide a father for your child?
I've known this guy for 20 years. We dated for nine years and have been friends ever since. He and I have both moved from our home state to other states. He wants to get married and wants me ...


 How do you married people split up your paychecks? The bills etc, My husband is not wanting to put everything
in to get the bills paid even tho I do...how do other people split the bills..it cant be 50/50 because our income is different every week..he also has More bill/baggage than me..I say everything goes ...


 Is a "Happy Ending Massage" Cheating??
If a guy goes to one of those Asian massage parlors and has an orgasm at the hand of the topless young lady, is that cheating?...


 My husband just doesn't get it.?
If I am feeling sad or down and need some compassion or someone just to look me in the eyes and make me feel like he cares, he thinks all I want him to do is fix it. He gets frustrated and doesnt ...


 wife is a cheater?
i found out a day ago that my wife was sending someone nude photos of herself. weve been married 4 23 years i no idea at all. i have never cheated on my wife or had any intenions. i been tearing my ...


 If you caught your spouse cheating what is the first thing that you would do?
and the last thing and ...




Copyright (c) 2009-2011 Wiki Law 3k Tuesday, May 29, 2012 - Trusted legal information for you.
Archive: Forum  |  Forum  |  Forum  |  Links
0.014