is right that my wife can talk to her parents as many time as she wants and but i can't call mine evryday?

woman666	no its not right and to be honest she needs to stop calling her parents so much.

arburndragon	this is childish!!!! Does your wife have more friends than you too? Does U really need to call everyday? Maybe she hears what you discuss on the phone. Privacy is the bestest friend. You married her family as well as she married your family.

babygirlmll	dont let her stop you from talkin to you family...no matter what family will always be there not implyin anything but she may up and leave then your stuck no wife or family

bridgeover30	You are a grown man with a family of your own, what do you think? How do you feel? Take care of yourself and your needs definitely matter.

belizeigram	Mr.J, That is not right! This question just makes me think even harder about wanting to get married or not. If she can do it so can you. I hate one sided relationship! I am also very family orientated, We are each others best friends.

addybme	put your foot down and tell her whats good for the goose, is good for the gander, obviously your wife is a self centered spoiled brat. Stand up to her now or it will only get worse the longer your married.

Allen C	I believe if she calls hers,then you can call yours

askmeguru21	Calling your parents is costing you money is it long distance? Put your foot down on this one no interfering when it comes to your parents. Tell her to read everbody comments on this site with her spoiled ***!

Captain Flatulence	Grow a pair buddy.

rmr1979_01	wrong! you have every right to talk to your parent's 100 times a day if you want and your wife is being very unfair

greeneyedprincess	does she have a reason? either way you are an adult she should not tell you what you can and cant do.

Tokoloshimani	Look up the word Â´henpeckedÂ´

softball_chick25276	that is very wronge what she isdoing i would ask her why is her family beter than yours and why you can call your parents up to 8 ties a day like she does. Well it all depends though is your parents nice to her? does she feel comfortable around them? Are they rude to her? Them are the things you need to ask her ans see why she doesnt want to ocial lize with your part of the family.

ric6k9	grow up

helen	you call your mum when ever you want, dont let there be a 1 sided limet. im a mum with a son and a daughter, my daughter phones more than my son, she dose tell him what to do,maybe i should put my foot down.it annoys me u tell her where to go.

Rotney	Dude, grow a pair...you're a big boy, stand your ground.

Carole	No that's not right. You should call your parents when ever you want too!! And she should call hers when she wants too! Sounds like she is trying to be controlling and you need to put your foot down before you end up having to ask to go to the bathroom!

trtr7ytyiuyui	there is no reason for your wife to keep u away from your family that can kill a marriage faster than an affair believe me i know if she can do it so can u you need to talk to her about this it can really destroy a relationship

Deep	This is highly unjust..ask her to call her parents once a week..then see what happens..

Kitty Kat	Sounds to me like you have her spoiled!! Better put her in check now!!

JOSEPH C	Why can't you? Do you need permission to use your own phone? Unless your folks live far away, and you blow a bundle chatting, I see no reason you shouldn't talk as often as you please. Your spouse sounds like she enjoys being your boss, and you seem to have accepted this. That's OK, IF you like having a boss instead of a partner.

ladyofthehollow	that sounds like the classic double standard. i would suggest that you get a good long distance server such as qwest that has a low base rate and unlimited long distance calling.

jetaunbraese	No, it's not right. Even if there is friction between your wife and your parents, she has no right telling you who you can call and how often. That is crazy. You are way to grown to be told what to do!

Daniel T	"i'm told"????????? what are you, a child? go to your wife's closet, take your pants back and put em on IMMEDIATELY! you have needed to do this for a long time.

MomX5	You both need to cut the apron strings! How many times do you call each other?

Bugsy	No, it's wrong. It's called bullying & unfair treatment. Don't listen to her, call your parents anytime you want.

Katetrinity	Why can't you call your parents every day? Does your wife tell you that you can't? Why would you want to call your parents every day? You and wife must be very young. How long have you been married? Sounds like you are headed for trouble in your marriage. If this is a problem, what are you going to do when a real problem comes along?

melinda_rn2006	I don't know why it is different, but when I see a male who has to call his Mom everyday, it does seem like he is a "momma's boy." I guess it depends on what it is he is calling for. To chat? great! To get her "approval" on all he does? sickening! If your mother knows more about what is going on in the household than your wife......BAD SIGN!! It shouldn't be that way! It can be very offensive to your spouse.

Pari	Well that shows she wears the pants in the house!! Come on be a man they are your parents!! If she can call her parents everyday why cant you? Don't you think your parents do want to hear your voice get to know if everything is fine with you? Rather than asking this question here why don't you simply ask her!!! You will get your answer way faster and the answer your looking for!!!

Mrs. G	In my world, it's 50/50. Whats good for one, is good for the other.