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ive been separated for 4 months?

me and my wife have been separated for 4 months and this whole time she has said she is going to file for divorce,but hasn't.we have little to no contact and i've told her that if that's what she wants then i won't fight her,even though i would like to work it out.im willing to give her what she says she wants..i told her to come the rest of her stuff from my house about a month ago if she was dead set on divorce,but she hasn't.. i've taken steps to change the person i was(very loud,aggressive,and defensive).i was just hoping to maybe get some opinions on my situation..i dont harrass her or stalk her,dont get friends involved,or beg her to come back..i just tell her that we can work thru this if she wants..thanks i guess my question im trying to ask.. Does anybody know what i can or should try to get her talking to again and hopefully wanting to work on the marriage? and NO im not a bully...i just real defensive in an argument..i have a loud voice by nature..







DadsDivorce.com
Although you want to make your marriage work, you should also prepare for the worst case scenario regardless if you want to or not. Nothing is worse than being side-swiped by divorce papers and not being prepared for it. Start seeking out a professional well-seasoned divorce attorney now so that he/she can review the facts of your specific case and give you specific legal advice on how to protect your interests should things go south. This does not mean you are actually divorcing her, only examining the legalities of your current situation. It's amazing how many guys don't know the legalities of their situation and often times make moves in the heat of the moment that are very dead wrong for them legally. For example, revealing too much on the internet can be harmful to you should it come to divorce. No matter how seemingly innocent, everything you do on the Internet can not only be traced, it can be misconstrued and used against you. So please seek out legal advice immediately. The first link I have supplied below is to an article on DadsDivorce.com about a book that talks about the common mistakes men make in divorces, and the second link is to a forum where you can talk with other guys who have experienced the same situation as you and get their constructive thoughts and opinions as well.


NO
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(very loud,aggressive,and defensive). so you were a yelling bully that was never wrong and she got sick of it, left and for some reason hasn't filed for a divorce........hasn't moved all her stuff from your home.......... you should be talking to her, not us, if you want her back. if she doesn't talk to you, communicate in writing........


lina chu
well you will kno if it ends


Geri42
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"I've been separated for 4 months?" is not a question. It's a statement. What's your question? You've described the situation, but you haven't asked a question. What's your question?







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