ladies...does it bother u when your man falls asleep b4 u do??

hellogoodbye	You must be very young. You must see this as some lack of love on his part. It's not. He's just tired.

LDJ	It does not matter who falls asleep first.

Kizz,	Im not married, but does it really matter who goes to sleep first.

AsianPersuasion :)	No. My husband does it all the time. I have no issue with it.

AlliGAtors	Ha ha I had to laugh.... I'm always the one that falls asleep first. ALWAYS! My hubby jokes around about me being the old one....

Simply Complicated?	I don't care if he goes to sleep before I do... I mean just as long as hes not going to bed at like 6 every night.. Let the man get his sleep..

Teresa	Nope, doesn't bother me at all. I want him to sleep well and as much as he needs because I love him.

wishin!	No it doesn't bother me. My husband works hard to provide for my family! He needs his rest and it would be rediculous if I got mad over it!

kenneth h	You two can not fall asleep exactly at the same moment. Some times you fall asleep first and sometimes he would. get over it !

mom_of_1	It only bothers me because he snores and then it's harder for me to get to sleep. Most of the time I am in bed before him because of his snoring.

~QT~	Yes... But then i rethink the situation and if that's my only problem about him, i consider myself really lucky. No biggie...

~NIKKI~	No, I just cuddle up next to him and listen to his breathing and heartbeat and i am soon fast asleep with him....he falls asleep before me every night

Jennifer A.	It doesn't bother me that he usually falls asleep before I do. He gets up early, spends 3 hours a day commuting, and works hard all day. I am a night owl anyhow....

linz_b	nope, its the other way around for me. but what does he expect? i have to wake up at 5am every day, of course i'm going to be tired!!!

Lisa b	Yes, it bothers me because he snores like a lumberjack and then I can't fall asleep and spend most of the night listening to him.

Stace	When we were first married that happened all the time, but now it rarely happens. And yeah, it used to bother me, but only cause my hubby snores sometimes.

à®Ginà®	My husband always falls asleep before I do. The only thing that bothers be about him falling asleep before me is that he snores unbelievably loud! So it takes me longer to fall asleep. I notice I fall asleep pretty quick if he's not in bed with me. LOL.

acidBURN	Hmm...seems like such a petty thing to get bent out of shape over. I don't see why it matters who falls asleep first. Is it more that you feel ignored or neglected? If so, then there has to be more to this than just him falling asleep before you.

lily	YES.. it bothers me silly.. My husband will spend all his energy trying to convince me we should watch a movie before bed. I'll usually turn it down because I know he'll fall asleep 5 minutes into it.. Every now and then I'll give in.. and sure enough, he passes out before the previews are over.. that nerd!

PhantomBantam	just for kicks...(from a man lurking) ...what incentives or options are available other than sleep in those cases to which you are bothered. If its 2 am and you are in bed with work 4-6 hours later and you are staring at the ceiling. Do you pull out Monopoly or your naked body?

Amber- Colton's Mommy!	My husband is a hard working man. He's up before the sun every morning while I get to stay in bed until I feel like getting up. He falls asleep every night before I do and it doesn't bother me at all. I know he's just a hard working man who needs his rest.

Brutally Honest	It used to bug me that I wanted to go to sleep before my husband was ready for bed. I would try to stay up later, but then I was REALLY cranky the next day. So I just learned to go bed without him. I don't think it would bother me if my husband went to bed before me. I figure there are a LOT of other things that he does to piss me off...why add something so completely stupid and inconsequential to the list?

kalevin	No not at all! I do it all the time to him too!! Let him be!! He could be out all night drinking and flirting with other women. This way he's home and safe and sound with you!! If his sleep is interfering with something, discuss it with him. Or try to do what you want to do with him earlier. The man needs his sleep!!

I've Got My Answer	Not when he falls asleep before me but when I come home from work and he's napping everyday, that bothers me. We get up at the same time in the morning and usually go to sleep at the same time, so why does he get to take a nap when he comes home and I have to begin cooking, cleaning and tending to the kids......................

Pebbles	Well have you considered that maybe he's just more tired? I know where you're coming from because my husband usually goes to bed and falls asleep before I do, but I also have to consider that he gets up at 4:30 AM every day, while I get up at 6:30...so I can't really get annoyed, by 11 PM my hubby is beat. Just try and figure out why he does this, is it because he's really tired or just plain lazy? There's probably a reasonable explanation.

Fine Young Lady!!	Nope, in fact I quite love it and take the opportunity to cuddle him, massage his legs and back, I kiss him all over and told him that I love him, sometimes his not quite sleep and he answers back to me, but than when he snores I love it even more because I know his finally getting some good rest, he deserves that after a long work day. ?-) And if I don't want him to go to sleep than I do my best to keep him awake!!! Or just ask him to make love to me and he do it...

â™¥KCâ™¥ Baby#2 Due 10/28/10	It only bothers me if we're watching a movie together, and it's early in the evening and I look over at him and he's passed out. But if we're in bed and ready to go to sleep, and he falls asleep before I do (which is every night) that doesnt bother me at all. Men are just lucky like that, they can fall asleep in two minutes flat. It takes women, on average, 15 minutes or more. Lately though, I've been falling asleep on the couch at 7pm because I'm pregnant. He can't really get too upset about that though! lol

Sara B	You need to find something to occupy your time. Read a book in bed while he's sleeping, or take a bath, or play a computer game. My husband used to have a hard time with me falling asleep 10 seconds after my head hit the pillow, so I coached him on things to do. He really just wants to be near me, because he doesn't sleep until 1 or 2 am, so he brings the laptop to bed, or brings a book to bed, or plays his guitar in bed(I can sleep through anything).