my boyfriend broke up with me in september, should i send him a xmas gift?

?	He knows you care, he spent time with you remember? No, don't give him a gift, let him be. No need for gifts, just call and wish him a Merry Christmas. Take care.

schuschtermat	NO

?	Don't you do that. You're moving on, right? He's not going to send you a Christmas gift, is he?

cope_acetic	No---you need to let go. If you want to let him know he's in your thoughts, send a Christmas Card. A gift is too much.

free_angel	No, do not spend one cent on him. Take the money and spend it on yourself.

littleflower_57	The answer is a plain and simple no.

mrfrijo	If In your heart that Is the only reson Is that you care and Its not a way to get back together with him then Its ok. Sometimes a friend Is better then a relationship that Is not meant to be.The holiday season Is not a time to be alone though and I hope that you are blessed with a wonderfull relationship that last a lifetime,hang In there

rockingc361	No.

kimberleyprecious	I think that It is not a good idea because if he still likes you and you don't like him he might take it the wrong way but if he does not like you he could think you are holding on. It all depends on whether you are friends still or not because the fact that he would not respond to you makes me think you should do the same and leave him alone as well.

conundrum_dragon	if you still want to be friends then yes but keep the gift in the friendship area if you want to sever all ties and never have anything to do with him then no.

themeathanger	No, but you could send him a postcard.

Freegirl	Of course not!

drama dramz	it depends if you two aa still close friends then yes u can get him something if u are not then no. there is also ways of letting him know that you still care

isctg	You definitely should NOT give him a gift.

Pramod	It is never too late. You may strart a fresh. You must send him a Xmas gift so that he can realize that how much you care for him . It is definetely going to change his attitude towards you. Best of Luck.

bibus75	no

Lee M	Hello---dont buy anything for him------you will look so codependent-------be compassionate to yourself--seems like you need to care about yourself as much as you care for others. He broke up with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need more pain???

blue	I dont think so...he is moving on and you should be doing the same. Maybe an ecard or card will be better...just for the good old times.

teadropsue	no don't be a sap

I know what I know	No what your doing is looking very very weak. Move on girl. He will do nothing but laugh at the gift behind your back or even start to use you as a "booty call" Your better than that move on find a real man!

Lexa	Technically, He's no longer your "boyfriend" if you broke up 3 months ago. If you guys still talk, I'd send him something small, If it's too big, he'll get ideas.

wickedkiwi	i say no....

Road	Yes, I would like an ipod.

veggie_gurl	well you should and if he broke upwith you and you know you arent getting back together then still send him one but on a card put will we still be good friends? then put a heart next to your name and yes you should care aout him and make a good freind reltionship w/him so send him one im sending my ex one so send him one

wanda h	NO

Tiapu	No. If you send him anything, send him a Christmas Card. A gift may make you look desperate.

olliemort	no way!

bettys	NO DO NOT SEND HIM A GIFT. DON'T MAKE A FOOL OF YOURSELF

Meghan B	if you guys want to be friends then i think you should send him an xmas gift

franktowers	Your a freaking psycho - that's why he dumped you in the first place.