my boyfriend is taking me to motel for my 19th birthday could he be asking me to marry him?

RONNIEKAT	Since you were 11. Geez! That is a long time. Marry? Are you ready for that?

sassybree1979	I doubt it. He's taking you to a motel to make use of the bed.

plsedntbthtway	Have you 2 talked about marriage?

Your_Star	um..I hope not. Proposing at a motel isn't the best way to go about it. Maybe at dinner he will??

T&E	Ok, this is the deal...he might be!! He could have a suite at a very expensive motel with a candle light dinner waiting with someone playing music in the background all the while out on a balcony overlooking the city with the stars dancing around you. Could be that he doesn't like to do things in public. Maybe he has rose petals all over the bed with champagne chilling nearby. Bath water with lavender scent wafting through the room...candles everywhere. It could happen.. I would ask him which hotel you are going to and then do some detective work...call and see which room for that night is reserved...tell them that you are trying to surprise him..they will be more apt to give you info that way. If it is somewhere you have been before with him ..maybe the first place you did the "tango"...maybe he is....Just don't get yourself all wired up for nothing....Don't expect anything but maybe s.e.x. and then if things start going another way, just hang in there....I would wear something nice...not too dressy but something that speaks volume without him thinking your expecting something. Cause maybe he did invite the family, maybe they are in a banquet room or the motels restaurant and he just gave you the bare facts....you know? Good luck....go easy on the make-up...wear a nice dress (not long, not short) classy.....Good Luck

Kitty	LOL You're funny.

Mrs. Libra	I think he wants some booty

cookie	Why ruin the surprise? I think you should just wait and see what your boyfriend has in store for you. If he does propose, I wish you the best. If not, I hope you will still be very happy. Good luck.

Dialup, Avatar, Jones!â„¢	Make sure you bring the kids along.

Jennifer	I dont think that proposing at a motel would be all that great...but then again I may be wrong I am not him .how long have you two been dating? i think that 19 is still a little young to be getting married...but good luck with it and HAPPY BIRTHDAY tell me how it goes sweetie

Hermit	Yes, but only sort of. . . Minus the priest, the witnesses and the congregation.

??	I don't think so. In your heart, you have to know what he was in mind or at least is hoping for. Make him marry you first!

sexy_love_vi	Girl, you' re so naive. What makes u think that ? Heres some advice: stay single until u figure out the real world or at least get rid of that loser ( who carries u to a motel for ur birthday( wow that sounds like fun)

msthinkpositive	If he asks before the activities, then yes it's possible. If not, after 8 years, don't look for it. Sorry, to say his intentions are obvious, if he's getting everything without the ring, why go there.

misydoll	I think he just wants you alone.

Tati K	i agree, just want U %)

GrnApl	I am thinking that you met him when you were about 11. So, I will tell you truly that the only reason he is taking you to a motel is to sleep with you though he will deny it til he is blue in the face. Go to the motel after the marriage for the honeymoon and not before.

Rayn	he might he might not.. my husband asked me to marry him when we were naked in our bed after a romp... so yea BTW I GOT MARRIED AT 18 AND WE ARE JUST FINE

Kay	I would say 'not'. Why would he take you to a motel to propose marriage? It may be he wants to take you there to pretend you are already married.

JoyDivision	Yes he could and my bet is he will be wearing your ring by midnight...lube up girl

no-nickname	No he is not. What kind of place is a motel to ask someone to marry you. How cheesy. He is trying to bang the living daylights out of you, for Pete's sake.

silly billy	Motels are where you go to hookup...not to propose...kinda trashy! But congrats anyways if he actually does. You can always hookup afterwards!

BiancaVee	Sounds like he just wants to get laid....I wouldnt get my hopes up about getting engaged. But I could be wrong, let us know.

gucciRUSH	er. he wants to get closer to you. prob he has set up somethings to spice the room up. and to use the bed.now that you're qualified 18+ he think this is the romantic present. who knows he may propose later in the evening. god knows what!

dwnaz1	Marry you?......oh yeah, that's it.....He's asking to marry you...

?	LOL..I think marraige will be the LAST thing on his mind in a motel room. Seriously, get a clue.