my husband and I hardly ever sleep together...?

pimpman	Well, maybe he doesn't want to be caught getting some... in a room... IN HIS PARENTS HOUSE!!!!!!!

Common Sense	Ask him what is wrong...

?	Maybe he feel weird - living with the parents...

sinned	i am sure that living with other people doesn't make free love very free.

chlango1	you guys need to get you own place so you can be as free as you want to.

fucose_man	Maybe he doesn't want to make all that noise when his parents are around??? Go get your own home with him. Just make it happen. It's part of growing up.

msconfused	he feels uncomfortable...talk to him. Communication is key.

hot chocolate	Get a room!!! Where's your respect? I'm very proud of him for not disrespecting his parents home! You should be shame of yourself! Once you two get established, out on your own ,have a freak-neak, but not at your in-laws-home. I've been married 11years and not once disrespect my mother-ion-law home! Girlfriend,I suggest you get a room, and have your husband the way you want!But don't hassle the man behind something so petty!

Graham	maybe it's the baby and that you all don't have any privacy.... get a sitter and take him to a hotel.... =)

JRSK007	He has abandoned his husbandly role as your s e x partner.... that's what has happened. He figures your s e x u a l needs are of no consequence. You are in the SWAGE predicament.

hawaiianmalibu	Move out!!! He is a man after all....you don't want it to end up as cheating...

H	He's probably not comfortable making love with your baby in the room. Plan a romantic evening. See if a friend can watch the baby overnight send his parents to the movies and for the next two hours act like rabbits

lil_southern_pecan	The facts are all in front of you. Parents house 2 year old in the room

Susan	Maybe he's feeling uncomfortable with the fact that your 2 year old is in the room and if you go somewhere else in the house maybe you guys could be caught by his parents. I suggest maybe getting going out just the two of you to a really nice hotel for the night or if you have no money for a hotel, go out on a date and end it in the car. Good luck with everything and I'm sure it'll get better once you and him are out on your own.

Cyber Stalker	Well, it's hard to be intimate in your parents house with your daughter sleeping in the same room. He may feel weird about being at his parents house. Speak to him about it and ask him if that's the reason.

misty blue	he probably feels very uncomfortable with his parents and your child in the room. maybe one night your mother - in-law and father -in-law will watch your daughter, so you and your husband can get away to be alone for a night.

Lydia	Whatever it takes, get your family out of there.

Ang S	You need to make special time together. I'm 23 and live with my 25 year old fiance and my parents and I know it can be tough being comfortable enough to get intimate when you know other people are home. Have a lunch time quicky when you know the baby is at school or with a babysitter or if you have the money rent a hotel room and just spend time together alone. I don't think you get very much time when it is just you and him and that is what you need.

basketcase88	Maybe you guys should've waited to get married and have a child until you were financially able to handle both. Living with the parents is NOT the sign of an adult. Why don't you guys work on finding your own home for your family?

KLR	Maybe he wants a man. I know a lot of men like that, he just doesn't want to admit it.

jm_radi2006	Some people are not comfortable with being intimate when there parents are in the house regardless of age, or marriage. And Sharing a room with your child may have some effect as well.

Lucas S	get a private place and you will see how things change

kathylouisehall	Is this the jokes and riddle board??? I would figure that it's because YOUR CHILD is in the room!!! Also--the parents in the same house--I'd be nervous that they'd hear--and your hubby probably feels the same way. Why don't you guys get it together and move out? If you are old enough to be married and have a kid, you should be old enough to have your own place.

marie	it could be that you are living with his parents....OR it could be that you are sharing a room with a 2 year old child. i know for me either of those things would be a big turn off.