my husband got a minor pregnant ?

mtemail	. . .without a doubt - - -you need to get out . . . . .

Just for Jesus <3	He cheated on you, with a minor, and got her pregnant. Take the kids and leave him.

bloodymediocrity	Call a lawyer. Seriously.

RIDDLE ME THIS	DIVORCE AS QUIT AS POSSIBLE.

Liz	You need to divorce the dog you married so your kids can at least rest easy in the knowledge that they have ONE normal parent.

Invisible Pink ~ RN	Oh he's so screwed!! Take the kids and high tail it he's probably going to jail - Your kids don't need to see the police at your house -

opetke	Take the kids and run. You can't trust a man who can't keep from breeding with underage girls. RUN! Good Luck!

clueless	all he needs to see is butt and elbow!!! that is so sad and i am sorry but take your kids and go or kick him out! that is scary and he is goign to jail anyways

RAINBOW	ahh where did his thinking cap go! that's what he gets for fussing around with another girl when he's MARRIED! Don't make excuses for him. He should have thought about the outcome of what will happened. Finality Reality has hit the man..

Gorkbark Porkduke Gefunken Fubar	He is going to jail for a very long time. You will be rid of him soon. Tell your children their daddy is a pedophile and they should watch to see what happens to pedophiles.

cynica	Leave him. Your children don't need a father like that and I'm sure you can find a better man than that. There is no excuse for what he has done.

Southern Girl	get a divorce as soon as possible!!! seriously that is his problem not yours and if you leave him quick enough then you won't have to deal with so much of the emotional crap come answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsqyETD34b4cbyqRNcmkdA_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090908153951AA4qhxe

Derek	sounds like only time can tell. You better liquidate all all your accents to you and divorce him or if not you? to someone that you can trust.For you not to be hurt in the law suit you need to divorce him soon. Oh, and call jerry springer!!! so that we can see you kick his ***, he needs it bad!!

Jessica D	forgive him - BUT leave him... you have 2 children to take care of and you don't want to wake up 20 years later to hear horror stories from your own children... Take care... and my heart does go out to you cos i know how much it hurts... at least i can imagine how much it would.... take the correct precautions...

*Lovely~Layla*	As hard as it appears. For the sake of your sanity and the welfare of your kids you need to LEAVE HIM! Now...not only did he CHEAT ON YOU, but he cheated on his children (by betraying their trust), BROKE THE LAW, and got someone else PREGNANT>.. YOur one and only option should be LEAVVVVVVE ESCAPE RUN Go FAR AWAY HIDE OUT ...... get it

MsPeanutBrittle	Ouch. :( Sorry, but this isn't the right guy. ANYONE who does that kind of thing with a minor is SICK, let alone one who is married with kids. Maybe this isn't the first time he's done it either! Whether or not it's the first time, it likely won't be the last, and he's just not right in the head. Like everyone else, I think you should grab your children and RUN FOR THE HILLS!

Cameron	That's considered rape. He'll need to get a lawyer and he'll probably end up paying child support. The lawsuit could cost you even more, and they could threaten to put him in prison if he doesn't settle for a good amount on the lawsuit. Again, you'll need a good lawyer. I also recommend you getting a good divorce attorney and filing for divorce. He betrayed you, and very badly. You might be able to make your relationshipp work, but this is pretty bad.

Julie S	Gather all evidence possible ie: -Apology letter he you wrote that proves of his transgressions -An excellent lawyer -Also, I would be on the good side with the minor's parents, if they are reasonable. They can testify or provide written statements about your husband's wrongdoing. Get a good lawyer and take him to divorce court. I'll be praying for you and your children. And I will be hoping that he doesn't get a dime.

sharonsmineonly	the money aspect you need to divorce him and make sure anything concerning this is in the divorce decree before you sign it and the lawyers need to know up front that he has this coming. Morally its terrible and do not hide the truth about it from your children, explain it was wrong even though dad did it. We can still love dad but what he did was terrible. Hate an action not the person. You need to deal with his cheating in your own heart and head :( im terribly sorry it happened. Have you talked to her parents? You might need to do that so you know whats going on, obviously your husband isnt very honest lately.

K8	I would take the kids and leave and file for divorce. He is disgusting in what he has done to this young girl. And it is horrible what this has and will do to you and your children. I feel very badly for you and your kids. Teach them the consequences of what happens to someone who breaks the law, their marriage vows, morals, and people's hearts - they lose everything. Then show them strength and fortitude when you pick up and move forward. I am sorry, but you will get through this for yourself and your children. Be honest with them and be strong. If it were me - your husband would be on his own.

ChikenLittle	First off i am from the US so i am not sure about the laws in the UK regarding you being sued and all that. Are they suing him because she is under 18? Is there any stipulation in the laws that a 17 yr old is unable to consent? (here in texas the law is any minor under the age of 17 is unable to give their consent unless the other person is a minor as well or no more than 4 years older) I am assuming that he is more than 4 years older cuz y'all have been married for 7. I would say if this is an action you are willing to forgive then you need to get yourselves a good lawyer and stand by him and help him and this 17 yr old through this. (She has to be feeling alone and scared to be pregnant with no baby's father to lean on) If this is not an action you are willing to forgive then you need to start the motions of leaving him. Maybe have him move out if you own your own home and that is financially conceivable for you. Or take the kids and get an apartment for y'all- if that works out better. Remember that this man no matter what he's done is still your children's father and you need to at least in front of them treat him with respect and save the anger for him only in private. You said your 2 children are old enough to understand what is going on so it might just be better for them if you can do that. I hope everything work out for you guys! GOOD LUCK!

Rachel	Saying leave someone is easy to do when you aren't in the situation. However, with 7 years invested and children in the mix it makes the reality far more different. Can you see yourself working through this and remaining with him? Do you think your children are better if you stay with him or if you leave him? Are you ready to embark on being a single parent? What does he think about seeking counseling? You have to ask yourself some serious questions and not just look at the right now, but also the next step. Cheating is common now, but cheating with an underage is unacceptable and against the law for many reasons. While you are likely torn you have to determine what is best for your children right now. It's hard to put aside your own feelings, but as a parent you have to make the best choices for them.