my husband is cheating on me with his younger sister!!!?

jamussails	get him help ? YUK ! say g'bye and go rock out for a little while ..... thats just sick ! ..... good luck wih things

Tesse Malou	dangerous behaviour,dangerous surroundings, if he can sleep with his sister and her with him, he'll surely do it with your children. This is called incest. If i were you i would just leave and not bother by trying to get him helped. They might have been doing that for ages and you were the perfect cover... Darling, morally and spiritually you're in trouble. Get out there as fast as you can.

larecpow	I don't mean to be insensitive but it sounds like an episode of Law and Order. (So remember) This IS Serious and has probably been going on for a long time. Incest is real, although it is usually forbidden to talk about. I would be cautious on who and when I discuss this with and be sure you are sure about what you suspect. Does he want to be helped and if so seek a professional. A Clergyman, a therapist, a psychologist or any of the above, but don't forget to seek help for yourself. It is probably alot of baggage with that so again handle that delicately. You have my prayers with you.

Need a Job!	Mine was messing with his sister too! He said it was over and it would never happen again, she was young & so was he, trouble is he was presurising her when it happened. We married & he told me it was completely finished but at the wedding she would only give him our wedding present and was whispering in his ear. I gave the marriage a year, asked him to let me have space to think things over - so HE DIVORCED ME!!! I have been so shocked that I've stayed alone for 6 years now...

tallerfella	Get him help by throwing his crap to the curb...................

Bonnie	Oh. My. God. I know you said you're serious but wow, please tell me that you're not. I am so sorry you had to see that and that you have to go through this but he needs to see a psychologist, psychiatrist, anybody that can get him some help because cheating is one thing but with a sibling? That's not okay. I'm very sorry and I hope all works out!

Yogi	only one plan as I see it, go for the three some, alcohol followed by divorce

Choqs	Divorce. These people are sick and dysfunctional with far more problems than you can solve.

Still wondering.....	oh my god ur kidding right? was it his real sister, or step sister etc, i can belive it, this is not only heart breaking to you, but against the law and morally wrong! The way i would think of it is if he can sleep with his own sister behind ur back then im pretty sure that he's capable of a lot more. Get out quick...

Superman	if i were your husband i'll kill my self, nothing left but shame

siobhan A	tell him that u r gonna leave him if he doesnt stop it and tell his parents hes a sickophant that needs to sort it out he obviously has a lovely wife and hes abusing that coz he thinks he can get away with it LEAVE HIM please

Socks	That's... wow.... Considering incest is illegal, it depends on how mean you want to be. Get a lawyer and file for divorce (consider this one carefully, it'll affect you pretty bad no matter how angry you are, and if you have kids - oh boy). Or call the police next time they're beating drumheads together and get them both arrested, but again issues with family and seperation etc, not to mention you just turned your husband into a criminal. My personal recomendation - get an apartment for yourself and a shrink for him and have him call you when he's got his head screwed on straight. Give him a deadline too, and file for divorce if he doesn't meet it. And personally, if a guy wants to tango with his sister that's his business. But cheating on you is where the real crime is, regardless of who he's cheating with.

carriegreen13	First, call the police, have his butt in jail for child molestation, then call you attorney and file for a divorce!!!! Why be married to a criminal??? Then get his sister in for counseling and you also, he will get plenty of counseling from his cell mates in jail, do not sit there and "do nothing", by doing nothing, you are not helping the situation!!!!

Penny	Hahahaha. Oh sh*t. That's insane. In another question you're pregnant. Your life is hectic, eh?

Jason L	Wow, I was just talking about the mother and son thing earlier today and this pops up. That is wild! I would say just leave, go to a lawyer and file for a divorce and never go back until you have a police escort, he may not want you to expose this dirty little secret. Be careful whatever you do and remember that it is your sanity you have to be responsible, he sounds as though he lost his a while ago and it could cause you to do the same if you remain involved with this incestuous, cheating lifestyle.

mike	I think you might want to get help for both of them... I'm pretty sure that is illegal in every state. Not to mention that it is just plain nasty. He needs to see a mental health professional immediately.

M. H	sister in law or step sister at least, I hope? if they are real brother and sister, that would be illegal. either way i feel sorry for you, it is just wrong no matter how you look at it.

slayer	disgusting..

commoncents	I would just run as fast as I could away from his sick mind. People can't be helped unless they want help. Sorry, but better know now then later. Sick Just sick

littlebird	I agree. Messed up beyond repair. You might need some counseling too. Poor girl!

Noz	Are you serious? Serious issues, you don't want to be involved with him anymore!

Deelicious	You need to confront him about it, and you need to get him into psychology... is he older or younger? How long has this been going on for?? This is a serious problem, and you should seek proffessional advice on this matter. Good Luck. Smiles xx

â™¥ that one girl â™¥	dont worry about getting him help. worry about getting yourself away from that nut job. thats disgusting. you want to stay with him after that??

Lieutenant Apocalypse	dude... thats just ****** up...

Sarah	Two to tango. She is equally messed up. Get a lawyer, there is no fixing that.