my husband is in jail for abuse against me and i have cheated and found happiness should i stay or go?

mommytoleilani	y would you want to go back to him after he is in jail for laying his hands on you. I think the answer is obvious you should move on with yourself and make your life better. Just be careful with moving on so fast, you don't always need somebody there.

fivestarmama	Where is the question here? If the man abused you,obviously you need to be gone!!

â™£RikiTikiTaviâ™¥	In this case, I'm telling you to move on and follow your heart if it says to take on a new love. Too bad you had to cheat, but too bad he was abusive. You only live once - enjoy it your way!

nightmare_gorilla	if you don't know the answer yourself you'll never find happyness, you'll end up in another abusive relationship with 2 black eyes and 3 kids with 1 dead beat husband. enjoy

nimo22	I think you should definately not stay with someone who abused you. Abusers almost never stop. It's good you found someone else, but I would recommend not jumping right into another relationship. Take things slow for now, and after you have the mess with your husband taken care of, ie a divorce and all of the things that go along with that, then you might be ready to focus on a new relationship. Good Luck. And please, never be with a man who will hit you, you deserve better.

bigmomma	FOLLOW YOUR HEART, BUT BE CAREFUL, DONT GET CAUGHT UP WITH ANOTHER WIFEBEATER. AND WATCH THE KIDS IF YOU HAVE ANY.

mrbigdick2oo5	hit em where it hurts boo...

TheGr8st	Your asking this question? Girl you deserve complete happiness and it's not with an abusive man, God Bless, move on and enjoy life! You owe it to yourself!

minutemanls27ld459	cheating is very wrong, but abusing a woman is worse. im gonna go with the crowd on this and say get a divorce and move on to greener pastures

metalicgirl69	If he is in jail for abuse, it obviously has happened more than once! Go with your new man, get a divorce and look into restraining orders too, he may be a little pissed once he gets out.

Maria E	you should go becuse if u foung happiness why go back to a man that abuse you

oohhbother	You should go straight into therapy to find out why you are even asking this. Get out. Ask your new partner to go into couples therapy with you. You still have issues. Good luck.

cosaxteacher	Oh God help us! Well, obviously divorce your abusive husband. Good luck with the new guy. You will probably end up cheating on him too.

meghanjennyw	DIVORCE Him......any man who hits you, doesn't deserve you. It is better to be happy anyway.....you won't regret it!!!!!

Miss Kriss	GO GO GO BEFORE ITS TOO LATE< RUN NEVER RETURN! CONTINUE ON WITH YOUR NEWFOEND HAPPINESS

perryb64505	dahhhhh!!!! do you really need us for this?

sillydingybitch	you should go always put yourself first if you werent happy you shouldnt stay even if you werent seeing someone eles you should still get out of an abusive or unhappy marrage.

PoisonIvy	Stay where you are the happiest. Abuse does not equal happy.

SANDJOY54	As long as the guy treats you good, go for it. Get divorced and tell that ex-husband "good riddens."

Simply_Renee	Go. Are you kidding?

killsummor	follow yr heart n make it happy, life just aint worth living otherwise.

Fool in the Rain	As if abusing you wasn't reason enough to leave him! Get rid of him and move on with your new found happiness.

bubbles26	you need to leave and get a divorce. stay away from the nut.

dannysoto84@sbcglobal.net	WHY????? would you want to stay with some who has abuse you??? Leave that zero for that hero

FORD on FIRE	Sure go...! Be happy!

youknowwho	Get a divorce

May-May`s mommy	The bible states the only real reason 4 divorce is adultery. I would divorce him asap! Anyone who would lay their hands on a woman, is a punk!

sad1986	follow your heart, i would recommend get away now before he gets out.... if u have children that may be more difficult

dittty2003	GO ON AND GET A DIVORCE