should a married man work at a club??

â™¥The Mrs.â™¥	So is your marriage about your trust with your husband or what everyone else tells you?

Jamie	no, mine did that and ended up cheating on me.

James	I wouldnt like it,, but you know weather you can trust him or not. There is no way I would have that. Way to much temptation for a married man to have to deal with.

Isabella S	whose everyone? by any chance is "everyone" single? look....this works both way for male and female friends. don't let someone with no man tell you what to do with your man. it is NEVER good advice.

' Empty Nester '	He could find someone else at the supermarket just as easily if he is so inclined. However, it won't happen period as long as the two of you love each other and continue to make each other happy...

recommend	He can find someone else at the grocery store, so don't worry too much about the club. The only difference is that at the club the dizzy mindless will have no qualms about chasing him.

ldhotlipps	its because people go there to meet other people and allot of the people don't really care if your married or not .you shouldn't have to distrust him no matter where he works but it does up the chances if you are in a rocky relationship

MiaDiva28	you cant allow him to work anywhere, you arent his mother, he is not a pet nor you are his owner. i wouldnt like it if he worked at a club but hey i cant make him stop working there. working at a club has nothing to do with finding someone else, if he wants to it doesnt have to be at a club, it could be anywhere when you arent with him. i think you are letting your associates plant negative thoughts in your head. trust him, dont be so insecure.

ndnqt1966	I don't think working at a club is the best place to work for a married man, but unless your don't trust your husband I wouldn't worry about it. Your husband doesn't have to work at a club to find someone to cheat with.

Aliz	It might let him do that, but he might find someone else no matter where he works.

beachbum	if he loves you then he won't want someone else. although he might end up boinking for a night with someone else. But then he could do that anywhere.

T the D	If you trust your husband, that's all that matters. Not all men are looking for the next best thing to come along. I'm sure your husband knows that he struck gold when he found you and you have nothing to worry about. Don't listen to what these people are saying. You know your marriage better than they do.

mmurray001	First of all that is your husband and if you trust him than that's fine what others have to say really shouldn't matter, If you love your husband and he loves you that's all that matters you cant go around holding his hand. Best of luck

Clown Knows	Work is work. Money is money. Allowing him..... wow, sounds like ownership rather than a partnership.

cashville_con	if u trust him, then trust him. if u dont than why r u with him.

mamabear	Not a good idea. Too much temptation.

Potato head	well it would be a good test of the trust you do have in him

Trevor	i wouldent let him, but thats just my opinion

far shissed	if hes going to stray he'll stray nomatter where he works

~Josie~	Mine wouldn't - others will disagree & say it's insecurity, but I call it respect.....

mandeeree	You don't allow him to find someone else if he wanted to he would'nt have to work at a club to do it and you would'nt be at fault if he did. i say let him work there and see how it goes, it could be a good test for your marriage

brenismaximus	no....its a night club theres drinks, hot girls, a back rooms (sometimes), loud music, and a dance floor somethinks bound to happen

Chad J	Here's one test. Would he be comfortable with you dropping in any time, unannounced? Does he come home as soon as his shift is over? If the answers are yes and you trust him otherwise, let a brother earn a paycheck.

scott	yes hell be cheating in no time

jaded	a golf club? dont worry, there are nothing but boring golfers there.

budda	its a job get over it

Miss Livi Lovely	He'll be alright if he can handle it.

Rachel	I don't like the idea of it but your husband could meet someone anywhere!!

*â™¥Beauty is painâ™¥*	no