should i ask her to marry me?

KitK	I don't believe the phrase 'once a cheater always a cheater' but i do believe that if you cheat on one person you will continue cheating on that particular person. People cheat because for some reason the person you are with is lacking something you are looking for, sometimes you may not even conciously know what it is. I think you should listen to your friends on this one. it may be tough but in the long run it will be worth it, you grow and you learn, and you try to move on

chris h	It is unlikely that marriage will change you or her.

bittersweetbangles2341	You could propose if you really wanted to, but make sure that you wait a nice long time till the wedding. That way, if you decide that you CAN'T live with Laura's mistakes, you can find that out before you're actually married. Be cautious, though. The human heart is a fragile thing.

Rach-1692	UMM no!! dont you think after the first 2 or 3 times she cheated on you and you forgave her..she realised you are just going to continue to put up with her sh*t... you need to take a stand and make her realise she will miss u when your gone...if you really think she is changed get back with her on a trial basis...but if she cheats again..get out of there and dont go back no matter what!

$Mz.Nina aka Baby G$	No you should not marry her because she has not been faithful to you. She has done this 6 times ,this is to many. One time is enough. Maybe she doesnt love you the way you love her and if she does, she has a bad way of showing it!

I got answers!	OMG!! Are you for real?? So you think if you propose she'll quit cheating??? Don't marry her she'll keep cheating and she sounds like a real B**ch anyway for treating you like that. Just cut your losses and be done with her, she's a tramp!

shellbell	Either has no regard for your feelings, or she can't control her hormones. Unless you want to be cheated on for the rest of your life, don't do it. A wedding doesn't fix problems.

Baby Mya is here!	dude... I'm a FIRM believing in forgive in forget... but come on!!! You are just being a push over and a door mat!!! Why are you doing this to yourself?? She keeps doin this to you because she knows she can get away with it! DO NOT ASK HER TO MARRY YOU!! in fact... leave... get away... and find yourself.. because no offence but you are LOST if you allow someone to walk all over you like that! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! trust me if you were engaged she would still cheat! that wont stop her one bit.. putting a ring on her finger is not a spy cam.. EVEN if you were married she wouldnt stop cheating

leahbea90	this is tough and i think only the people that really know the situation would know the right answer, but because of her actions you've talked about I'm going to say she's not the one for you and get out of it now. 7 years is a long time and if shes "so in love" then why is she being so unfaithful? maybe talk to her and be a little more stern when it comes to forgiving her

Lou	Dude wise up and move on. This woman is using u and u deserve better. She is a cheat..how many times can u forgive and forget before its to much to take? DONT ASK HER TO MARRY U..DONT DO IT!!!

john	WHAT!!!!!!RUN!!!!

super_mom	Please don't marry this girl. Once a cheater always a cheater, right? Marrying her in hopes that it will stop her cheating ways is like having a baby to save a relationship. You sound like a very nice guy, always forgiving her. Do yourself a favor & find a girl who deserves to be with you. It sounds like you really love Laura, but it takes more than love to make a marriage work. Trust is one of the underlying building blocks to a solid marriage.

Stephanie	I'm sorry bro. Dont go through with it. If she continues to do this (and she most likely will), you'll get more hurt if you guys are married then you will now. I'm sorry

The Vet Tech	once a cheater always a cheater sorry but sugar coating it wont make it easier you need to break it off stop wasting your life with someone who obviously means more to you than you do to them. find somebody who gives you what you want dont settle just b/c its been 7 years and you dont wanna start all over with someone new.

mavircal	you should know better by now dear!!! why get into marriage when all this is happening? can't you see that you are letting your heart talking for you? use your head......be wise...she will never change!!!!

Tallem2	NO you def. shouldn't. If you have been that faithful through all the hard times she has put you through you deserve so much better and you will find it as soon as you let her go!

Bluekygrrl	I agree with most people up there ^^^^^^^^ If she loves you she wouldnt "cheat" on you.. you shouldnt.. unless she changed, maybe. But its your choice so good luck~!

Kitt	no shes like a sl*t ... shes dirty... kick her to the curb or tell her u wont forgive her anymore and the next time this happens we are done! no offece of course ^.^

cbmttek	Odds are that if you have been with her for 7 years, and have not already married her, there is a reason.

NayNay	thats tough love but hey do what your heart tell you not what ur friends think!!! friends arent always there to help you

cbabysnugglebunny	No your being used shes still cheating Heres my saying you can forgive but you will never forget! And shes used her last strike shes taking you for granted you deserve better. i hope i helped -christina xoxox

livin the dream	are you stupid? Apparently if you don't don't her *** in the next day and move across the country and never speak to her again

STECOREPT	If you truly love then ask her to marry you already, before you lose the chance. Here's something you need to learn: "A lifetime is short, opportunities are rare, and second chances may never come."

TONY S	Holy smokes...you need to not marry that girl man. It is a wonder you can tolerate that behavior.

Jimmy J	Listen to your friends...run like Hell the other way bro!

Gorgeous!	i dont think you should marry her.. but thats from a kids perspective!!

BURT	are you kidding me?? wow if you think thats ok I don't know whats wrong with you...why on earth would you want to marry someone like that?

C.E.	I would pass. If she loved you and she wanted to be your wife, would she cheat?

rhcp3	Your friends dump that sl*t