should i cheat on my husband with the next door neighbor/?

alexis	no, how could you do that to your family? you should have known him longer before you got married. man, im sure glad im not him...

Coors	That will fix nothing. Either attempt to make things better with your husband or get a divorce.

Rachel	no you idiot your MARRIED!! if you want someone else divorce your husband then be with them. dont ruin a marriage for a fling. think about what that would do to your daughter..

Rochelle	NO. Maybe you and your husband just need to do something special together to get the spark back.

Andy N	Re-read your marriage vows! Narcissistic!

Allison, Swinger Lady	Yes.

j_puntiel	You just have to learn to spice up your husband instead of looking at other guys while turning down your nieghbor at the same time and just leaving it as friends

major	go for it, have him bring a friend and do the threesome, hold nothing back, enjoy all openings with both of them, you will feel so much better after the cheating

Acquiescent	Slack-jawed gutter-sl^t with her mud-flaps dragging on the ground behind her.

Idolking	I wish you people would stop getting married, and more so stop having children. And by "you people" I mean individuals who get married long before they are able to spell commitment, let alone define it.

Taniaaaa:)	No,tell your neighbor that you are married. and pray for husband and your relationship to get better because that love that you maybe had can't go away so simple like that.

warrior	Go for it and when he throws you out and keeps you from your daughter just remember you did it to yourself. How the hell do you fall out of love with someone after only a year of marriage?

paint_x_2	no u agreed to the vows if your not happy or in love get a divorce cheating will just hurt everyone not just him how do think u will explain it to your baby when she gets older. you very selfish and immature. i am praying for u.

Nicole	NO! If you aren't happy in your marriage then end it. Don't cheat, you married your husband for a reason, are you really willing to throw away your daughters family for a fling with the neighbor?

foxhunter1949	My answer would be NO. You are typical of most 'modern' thinking people, all lovey dovey and then if things get a bit tough, look for anything to lead to a way out. Grow up, talk with your husband and think of your daughter.

ShÎ±nnÎ´n	Ask your husband for a MFM threeway. You have to want to make your marriage work and get to work on yourself first. 9mn is the hardest time - get the book in the source and read it with him.

Ashlee	Cheating is never the answer. I would tell your husband about how you're feeling and either ask for a divorce because you don't love him anymore, or get counseling to improve your marriage. But don't cheat on your husband. Hope this helps!

answer my question!	its not cheating geez, is your neighbour ok with the fact u have a husband than its fine. if you don't like ur husband anymore then thats a different story, but if u still like him a little then have intimacy with both ofem. as long they both love you. i hope this isnt trolling..hmmph =)

bandaid_46	Some people, given the option of doing something right, or doing something wrong will always choose to do something wrong. You appear to be one of these. Whenever a woman is considering straying, some dude will be happy to oblige. If using, and being used, floats your boat, and all you care about is YOURSELF, knock yourself out.

Hia	first get divorced. say u've moved on If youcheat, you will ruin the world for urself.what will u tell ur daughter when she s older? That mommy was keeping a bad secret? First get divorced. Tell him u don't feel like u used to, and that its time to move on. Or talk to him about how u don't feel love and how u can improve it. If it doesn't get better, just get divorced. This is a sticky situation I am not trying to be all religious here, but just pray to god (or whoever) for your answer. Just meditate, sit down and just think. WHat is ur heart telling you that is the best for you and ur daughter I hope u make it through. Please let me know what u choose to do. with love ...

Karen	Are you really expecting people to tell you that this is a good idea? It's normal for ambivalence to set in about this time. The thing to do is try to make things interesting with your husband again. Becoming parents changed both of you quite a bit, that's natural. Take the time to get to know your husband again, you'll likely find it to be worth the effort.

ECCTech	So you're seeking Mr. Ed, The Talking Horse. Be careful he can expose his Big Head, by means of communication to others. Communication will recycle itself back to your husband. Your Neighbors are watching....We the people on the net know what your up to, information travels fast and can be reported to others whom know your nickname on the internet, maybe your husband may find out through others he knows on the internet, like friends. Sorry you're in a catch 22.

freedom	It over girlfriend. Get the divorce quickly. You already have thoughts about this. That's all it takes to wreck your own marriage. You are the willing partner for an affair to happen. The neighbor plays a part in this , but you are the guilty party ,no matter what's going on with your husband. If you do sleep with the neighbor. You probably will love it ,then you will freak out over loving it . Then get confused and off the neighbor over guilt. Why even begin this nightmare you are going to create. Congratulations for asking the question

rodge2001	no. you should not cheat on your husband with your next door neighbor. but will you? i have a better question for you: why did you get married? you're clearly not committed to your family if you're even pondering this fling with your neighbor. you are being selfish. here's a lightning bolt for you: you don't have to be in love with the person your married to. yeah. that's right. make it work for your child's sake if anything. talk to your husband. maybe he isn't pulling his weight in making you feel loved. file for a divorce if you want to screw around with other men. what kind of example is this for your child anyway? you can't ask that question using the word "should" because of course the answer is no because "should" implies you can if it's the right thing to do. "Could" you? Sure. "Will" you? Not sure. "Should" you? No. You got married because you thought you were in love with your husband. You should stay married for the sake of your child. You could get a divorce so you can do this all over again. I hope you do the right thing. Here's another question: why not ask your child for their take on the whole situation?

mybizstreet	Did you mention the word "cheat"? So you know it is not right, don't you? It is best that you work on your family relationship, as that would result in your child growing up in a healthy state of mind. It has been frequently complained by wives that they do not get much attention and love after they have children. There can be several reasons for this. Like your husband is feeling more responsible, unlike his carefree situation before when there were just 2 of you, and is probably a bit more stressful. I would advice you visit a counselor and make your family life better.