should i get married at 20 or 21?

peter71	i think NOT. Dont ever pushed about the age and you'll end up BREAKs. Children suffer, You suffer, Family suffer, Friends suffer.

Just another 2D character online	I would say wait a couple more years. You aren't even done with college and there is still so much growing that you are going to find yourself doing. You both are going to change so much more over the next couple of years. However, if this is a 50/50 choice, marry when you are 21 so that you can (at least) drink legally at your reception. Good luck!

Dannuele	I recently had the same problem. Both me and my boyfriend are younger than 21 and we decided that we will get married after college and after we find good career's. Because trust me, when you marry someone, the two of you become one person. And it's nothing worse than having to pay someone elses bills.

USMC Dad	Not enough information given. but from here, I can tell you my daughter did, but she and her husband are both Marines and work at the same base.

Scott M	At least wait till your legal to buy and drink alcohol!!!! Cause you're going to need it.

iyamacog	Definitely NOT! LIve a little instead, before making a lifetime commitment!

rache	waaaw! first i agree with the first answer abt how abt finding ur true love first. then it duznt matter wat age, ur thinkin too much of ur future and thats not good. u should take wat u have, u never know what could happen.. even before 20 or 21!.. SUCH a weird question.. :S k take care gud luck with the marriage.. how old r u now anyway?

*(Jazzle)*	Maybe you should wait or if he's the one for you then why not.

sweetk1ssz	when yah feel ready.. lol

Buffy2180	Only you know that. You could talk to others at www.theknot.com and go on their Not Yet Engaged message board or a local board. Better wedding discussion there.

autumn	Do whatever will make you happy

tyty	girl if your heart says your ready go for it love comes at all ages

physandchemteach	Actually, you should not get married until you are about 25. The extra years of maturity will help improve the chances of your marriage being a good one.

Say it like it is	NO NO NO NO... don't get married at 20 or 21 even if you found your true love... you got to get through school (yes college) and grow up a little. If you have found your true love, then they'll be around when you're 27 when it will be much better. Been there done that, don't do it.

Aussie Girl	Personally I think that you are way too young. What you think that you want at 20 is definately not what you want when you are 30 Live life - enjoy your 20s - there's plenty of time to get married and settle down.

dianesomeone	neither......wait

Dimitriy G	choose your self

hotredblnd788	Only if you know you've found the one you could spend the rest of your life with.

Jesse	21 I'm getting married at 25, thats when you know what your looking for you and you know whats going on in life. Plus, if its true love, it can wait! 21 because if it isnt true love, then why get married in the first place!

angelbaby	probably at 20. Or 21. I really don't think it matters.

jdlifsey2030	No.

ashleycutie1818	If you are in love then Yes. My mom got married when she was like 21 years old and my mom and dad are still married.

B. Q. Z.	What about 20.5?

Ledzeppelin324	after u finish college, or just don't like rush through it

Miss Q&A	whenever you feel your mature enough to. [:

foxy lady	only get married if it feels right for you!

bill l	22

_â™¥w!ntER pr!ncEssâ™¥_	at whatever age you are sure you are READY...physically, emotionally and ofcourse financiallly

workinggirl	No, that's too young. You need to be a little older, wiser, and mature before you get married.

Nicole C	do what ur heart tells u