should i text my ex our 1 year break up anniversary??

Tiny Bebweet	I know how it feels, gurl... I think you have left your PRIDE far from you.. That's good. However, it is would be better to humble yourself, once he initiated it.. You can keep it to yourself in the meantime..

proudmama	sounds like if youre considering texting him on this breakup anniversary, then youre probably not over him. if you want to talk to him do it, dont use this breakup as a reason for it. it would only make the situation more akward.

clcalifornia	no Move on or move to a country where there isn't a cast system

sjbrown25@att.net	No, just leave it alone, why keep rehashing that part of your past with him for? There's a reason why you're exes and there's no need to be contacting him/her. You ran into him and, it brought up some old feelings for you, okay-you survived it didn't you? Just keep moving on. Because by you contacting him, then what you're saying is that you never got over him and you're the one who wants to rekindle the flames. That's the message you're sending him, not to also forget, you'd sound like you're desperate to be back with him or you want his company. Leave it alone, find something else better to do with your time and quit focusing on him. You don't know how he's holding up and you don't need to know. You'll do okay. Good luck.

lillady2992	i would text him.. what the worst that can happen?

Lisa b	Break-up anniversary? I don't think people celebrate those with their exes. I say let it ride. One year is way too long to patch it up. Besides, who breaks up with a woman because his parents told him to? He needs to cut the apron strings and you need to move on.

Harleygrl	No, DON'T text him. Next time you see him act extremely happy now that you're not with him.

luna	no. dont text

Arya	i dont see a reason.... that is kinda clingy if you ask me!!

Pamela C	I wouldn't torture myself. It sounds like a lovely thought but the reality is , it isn't right now.. and you texting him will be setting yourself up for a disappointment if he does not reply or does not reply in the way you are hoping.. I am sorry you are feeling low and sometimes we need to seperate our heads and our hearts. Our hearts tend to get us into trouble when the head is yelling NO NO NO!!

mblastguy	Why would you want to bring up more feelings and cause more drama that you would only have to get over later on? Seriously if you have no intention of getting back with this man then let sleeping dogs lie. There is no reason to start things up again unless you are planning to ignore is parents and have a relationship anyway. it will make getting over him that much harder.

C_DOGG	That is awesome.

bluskys	no move on it will make you look desprate

Aw the man!	u kidding, they guy is not with you how could u have an anniversary with someone u are not with? it would be kinda like reporting duty while ur discharged from the army!

sexy debs	forget him hunni. plenty more fish in the sea. And it will stick the knife in the wound that has been healed emotionally. don't text or phone just forget.

Jorge	sleep on it. If it keeps bothering you, ask if he wants to hang out, talk about how he feels. If he moved on, let it go, if he feels the same way see what you can do from there. You arent dating his parents, your dating him, dont get them mixed up.

Sleepless In Diego	say happy OnE Year .... F%^& YOU!!!!!!

Jimmymac	A bit needy are we? Move on and let him do the same,why drag up memories that are probably sad for you both. Forget about maudlin sentiments.

Ria	let it go

sadie r	I can tell you are not over him if you still remember the date you guys broke up.

Teresa	No,just move on with your life.

Nena S	Exes are exes for good reasons. If you are considering contacting him , you are not over him yet.

Kelsey	That sounds like a pretty good way to let him know you're thinking of him. However, a better way to do it might be to send him a card (ex: one of those "Thinking of You" cards), and if you want to send him a text, say "Check your mail!" A word of caution: reestablishing communtication with him might get your relationship going again, and if that's not a good thing, then you probobly shouldn't contact him.

Baby	go for it at least he know you can be friends.

Rif Tahoe	I would only text him if you want to open communication with him. It doesn't really sound like you're over the relationship. Which I can understand, since you spent 3 years of your lives together, and ended things because of something as trivial as what other people thought. So ask yourself this - what response are you looking for from sending him that text? Agreement? Sadness? Anger? Or just to see if he'll respond at all vs. ingoring you completely? I think that is the more important question. What is your motive for wanting to send it... and the desired response that you are looking for? Send it if you want to talk to him and have him back as a part of your life. Not necessarily as a Mate, but as a friend or what ever. BUT-- If you are truly moving on, and he is too... then I would not send it. I'd move on....

sadgirlinms	I wouldn't. It sound sad and depressing. Why not give him a call or go somewhere where he will be? Act like you are just a friend wanting to say hi. Nothing major. You can feel him out from there. With texts and e-mails it is easy to misunderstand what the person is saying. Actually hearing his voice will be better because then you will understand more how he is feeling and it will make it less likely that you will do something stupid.

tacfcpf	Don't do it...if you guys run into each other yeah say "hi"... but let the past be in the past, its hard to do but there is a reason why you guys are not together and you wouldn't want to put yourself out there again, its better just to move on. Good Luck:)

kk	i would text him.. you never know what he might say.

Razaldazel	His parents are never going to change.I think you are best to let it go.Good luck.

?	You poor thing, you still like him so why not?