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still Wearing an ex marriage wedding ring?

My guy wears a ring on his right finger and sometimes he takes it off. He is divorced but still has a ring. He says he is use to it and needs it on. Like a blankee or dummee for babies i suppose.sometimes he and his ex-wife got invited to the same parties of their common friends and when he leaves the house he has no ring on his right finger, but afetr i look up on the pictures that has been taken on that party (on facebook of a common friend) there shows he has he's ring again...i can see from the pictures that he was not close and far from his ex-wifey and other friends told me that not even a single word they hava speak to each other.. I don't like it but i don't go on about it. we are together now for 8 months..What do you think it means? Is he still wanting to connect somehow to his ex or is it really feasable that he really is just used to it and likes it? He doesn't like his ex. he says. I don't think he does but i feel like there is more to them two then what he states. He is always making fun of her whereas i don't mention my ex much or i tell him that he is the father of my children and i respect him as such, only, but i don't tear him down all the time. well...not much anyway..haha. But i know i wouldn't wear a ring when i was married to my abusive ex..never mind after.what do you think? thanks







Devin
Honey I have the answer and it's similar to the first posters. Me and my ex were together for 1 year and she still wore a ring her ex gave her. They were together for 5 years so I did feel like she still had a connection with him. She also said she was used to wearing it and that it meant nothing. At first I didn't believe her, I was thinking, if it's such a material object then surely it should be easy to get rid of. In the end, I let her wear the ring... I trusted her and to be honest, she never broke that trust. She didn't cheat on me (as far as I know) and I taught myself to forget it and continue my relationship with her. There's no harm in telling him that it bothers you, if he loves you he may take it off but don't expect him to. As long as he knows that it makes you feel uncomfortable and like he still has a connection with his ex, then it's up to him as to what he does with it from there. He's with you now, let the ring slide I would say.


Flouride
simple. he's wearing the ring to pick up chicks. chicks are far more attracted to a dude when they think he's married. it's like he's a challenge or something for them to conquer and they'll hit on a dude right away if they think he's married but they won't go near single dudes.


Pink Reign
Interesting you ask this because I still wedding my ring from time to time. Actually I've been wearing it for the last month for that very reason its like a security blanket, it reminds me of a special time in my life and it like vinegar to bee's when it come to men.... I have absolutely no desire of being with my ex-hub, yet I wear the ring. It has sentimental value to me. Every time i look at it i dont even think of my ex lol. So i personally understand why your dude would wear the ring, even tho women tend to me into rings. The ring i own is very large, sparkly and just amazingly beautiful. Again I have on desire what so ever to be with my ex and i still wear the ring with no thought of him...


rbaked4
buy him another ring to find out.


flapdoodle21
Rating
I think you need to give him some space. One part of being together is leaving a little space. If he wants to wear a ring, let him wear a ring. If you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. As long as you trust him, just forget about it. He's given you no reason to think he is cheating on you or anything. It's just a ring.







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