trying to leave my husband but finding it hard!?
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trying to leave my husband but finding it hard!?
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Ive been in a relationship with my husband for over 13 years, 3 or them married. ive always loved my husband and still do, though he can be a very nasty person to me. I have been verbally abused at, punched in the head, called a c**t, have had things smashed up in the house. Ive called the police on many occasions and even had DCP involved at one stage.
i hae been trying to leave so many times but have always gone back to him. He says he will change his ways but now have relised its just aa cycle. 3 days of good days and then back to himself again after. Even worse wen he drinks and gets drunks, i get it worse. and worse of all wen i ring his mum to help me, they tell me to ring the police and when i do they hate me for it. Everyone things his a good person but they dont know how badly he treats me. Im a stay at home mum since our daighter was born two years ago and have been looking for work for a year now. he works and desnt help with anything, i pay the mortgage, and all the bills with the parenting payment i get. when he gets paid he always has excuses on wat he spend his money on and that i dont help with anything. i know i shoudlnt stay for the sake of my daughter becos i dont want her to be in that kind of environment. but i think i feel sorry for him that he doenst c his daughter and thats y i go back. plus the house is under his name and mine and everything in the house belongs to me. im afraid for my safety and my daughters (but i know he wouldnt intentionally hurt our daughter) But i know its time to move on.....His started getting worse now, swearing at me in public infront of people and the feeling is so humiliating. The drinking gotten worse and marijuana too.
Im staying with my mum at the moment but havea feeling im going back, i dont want to! I NEED HELP! PLEASE HELP ME!!
my mums good to me about things, though my relationship with my sisters have gone down hill, i want to make things better for me and my daughter only!
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Neil Ford
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Please stay strong and stay away from this man.
there are a number of support services you could talk with to assist you in staying strong to you wish to be free of this man. WIRE Women's Information is 1300 134 130 www.wire.org.au or Women's Legal Service 03 9642 0877 www.womenslegal.org.au and Domestic Violence Resource Centre 03 9486 9866 www.dvrcv.org.au. aer the places to call look at websites in Victoria. There are services throughout the country areas and interstate.
Despite him saying he will change he has been a bit useless at it so far hasn't he ? If he is genuine in wanting to change he could call (again in) Victoria Men's Referral Service, MRS is 1800 065 973 03 9428 2899 www.mrs.org.au where a male counsellor would try to get him to accept responsibility for his behaviour and be in a state to want to change, he would then attend a Men's Behaviour Change Group. Hopefully he would become a better man, but in all probability it would be for his next partner as you will be well and truly gone to a better life.
Good Luck in sticking to your goal of safety for you and your children. |
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jude
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if you want a better life you need to divorce him, if his mother truly cared she would tell him right from wrong. |
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Jackie Martin
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please dont go back, he knows you will go back, thats why the cycle keeps continuing,
its not fair to you, your daughter , anyone,
just leave him! tell him to get help, unless he gets treatment, or professional help asap, dont even waste your time on him,
its not worth it !
dont be a punching bag, please, no one deserves that,
at least you have your mom for support, just stay there with her, and start living your own life, without him ,
please,
and good luck |
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