uhgg my boyfriend of 9 1/2 months is married and I still love him he says hes going to get a divorce...?

Kellyâ™¥'sJames	First off he aint your bf, that would make you his mistress.. he wants it both ways.. He doesnt intend to leave his wife.. He would have already done it.

Melissa H	Please tell me you knew about this the whole time. If not, you are very naive. Dump the guy and find someone single.

conny	Sweetheart.....He is NOT going to divorce his wife. Why be with a guy who plays with your heart? Don't be naive. Move on!!!

emmma:D	weird?? he probably should of been divorced before you even started dating 9 1/2 months ago

jo	a real girl with standards, morals and a brain would DUMP him. he's using you as his personal booty call because his wife isnt getting him any bootayy.

Brooke =]	Don't mess with a married man. Find someone single. Your ruining someone's marriage.

juaire34	do'nt go with him...if it is so easy for him to get a divorce with his WIFE and he is with you...then there is a great big chance he will do it to you too./

Popeye & Olive Oyl	get out. what makes you think he won't leave you if someone else comes along. My guess is his current wife thought she was also the one. Now he wants to leave her for you? what makes you so special?

Elizabeth K	tell him not to divorce the other girl because it will break her heart, and she might be pregnat and you will end up on jerry springer fighting for him. and there is not worth fight for a man

mom26	Face it you are the other woman and that's all you'll ever be.. sorry hun! he could have already had a divorce and been done with it,it does not take that long,to have one finalized.

enjoi it.. XD	hes a dumb ***. he isnt your bf, i can almost be 100% sure he hasnt told his wife. he is having an affair with you. hes probly just telling you these things cuz he wants to get in your pants. hehe XD

Rissa Roo	Nope Nope Nope! Hes just using you as an escape from his day to day life. Hes not going to leave his wife hon. And the fact that he is unfaithful to his wife means that he will be unfaithful to you too.

Amarante	yeah right, not going to get a divorce and same thing might happen to you did he say when he is going to get a divorce? he's cheating on his wife and might with you should break up with him could be stringing you along

loves christmas lights	You know hes lying, how will you feel when some girl comes along and steals your husband, as he did it to her, he will do it to you.

Jena M	dont be a home wrecker....dont be messing with a married man its just goin to cause problems in your life. If he is really serious then wait until he is actually divorced. seriously you dont want to mess with a married man thats a no no

joon	Get out of that situation! It's damaging to your self-esteem and could cause some serious drama. If he really intends to get a divorce, and he really want to be with you, make him wait until he does so to be with you.

me3237	If he can't respect his marriage, you should, don't you deserve someone better than that? He has no reason to leave his wife for you, and even if he did, what makes you think he won't do the same to you. You need to be with someone that deserves you.

justagirl	Until he is actually divorced, I wouldn't take it seriously. Married men have affairs while saying they are going to get divorced all the time, but never get divorced. Be very careful and don't get your hopes up. Start dating other men.

avictor	Ah wise up sweetie. Or perhaps you may get what you think you want and you yourself will be the neglected wife while he engages in an affair with someone else. Yeah he loves you so much that he has disgraced your good name by making you a family wrecking, sneaking around - you know what.

siugrad	You need to walk away from that situation ASAP! You are playing with fire & someone is going to get hurt (most likely you). He doesn't seem like a very honest person, I mean, he is playing with his wife & you. Leaving him might be tough & you will be sad for a while, but in the long run it will be worth it!

BabeHart	Tell him to call you when the divorce is final and he can produce the papers... ...then you just have to worry about him cheating ON you, as he did WITH you. What's to be confused about? You got with a cheater. Someone who has no trouble lying to his partner, betraying her trust and their relationship. Most women find that kind of man unappealing...

ASMAA	all lies he is so not leaving her i know that you have feelings for him,very Strong g feelings and you love him to death,and you can t sleep if you don t belivethat he is not leaving her test him tell him "you need to leave her now,if not i am leaving you now" turn off your fone,stop talking or seeing him and see the results i ll bet you my life ,he will not leave her

lola	to be honest i think you should just leave him... if he is married then there must be something between him and his wife... and if he has been dating you when he is married then i really don't think that its a good idea to carry on dating him... maybe you do love him but you could find someone better who will love u and only you

Subliminal	I'm not confused at all, this is simple, if he is willing to leave a woman for another then he would do it to you too honey, hate to hear it i know but it's true, the best way he could show you his loyalty is by proving it during any situation, and one way he can do so is by staying loyal to the person he is with just to prove to you he is a loyal person to all, understand?

Monsieur Rick	Ugh indeed! I hate to rain on your parade, but I don't think he is going get divorced for a long time. He says he wants to marry you and for you to bear him children. Did you know for the last 9-10 months that he was married? You refer to him as your boyfriend, but made no mention whether he loves you or not. Was that a conscious omission or are we to make assumptions about that?

Fergy	Did you just now find out that he was married? Wow, and you think that if you marry him he will be honest and not cheat on you too? I bet you are confused. That is the most confusing thing about dating a married man. I have no idea what to tell you except that I really doubt if he leaves his wife for you. His wife may dump him and then you can have him fully. Is that what you want? I say find a single nice man that doesn't play games. You can learn to love someone else you know.

0	You set up a meeting with him and his wife. Since he's going to divorce her and marry you, I'm sure he's discussed it with her, being his wife and all. Then you can plan the dates: when they'll file for divorce, when they'll have it officially decreed, when you'll get married. Are you seeing that this scenario isn't too likely?? I have a (stupid) friend who is in love with a guy (who is TOTALLY - sarcasm- in love with her) who is married. He hangs out at her place sometimes, even over night (business trips, sure), and when he doesn't show, it is because he is cheating on HER while he's cheating WITH her on his wife. L-O-S-E-R, and she chooses to believe him.

The Little Army Wife	I'm an infidelity couples counselor, and they ALL say "they're going to divorce" but "can't right now" because of money/kids/insert other lame excuse here. They all say they love you, want to marry you, want to have kids with you, etc. It's just a ploy to keep stringing you along in the affair. He's not your boyfriend. He's HER husband. That's the reality of it. Leave him. What are you trying to attain here? If he DOES leave his wife for you, what have you won? A liar, a cheater, and a guy who left his wife high and dry. And guess what? If he did it that easily he'll just as easily turn around and do it to you. Move on. There are plenty of single men out there. You don't need this guy. He's just using you.