what do you think about your wife talking to a man on the phone for 3,000 min. in one month?

rutabaga	If you want to save your marriage, marriage counseling is obviously necessary now. If not, I think you know what to do.

blondie	tell her that its either, you or the other man, that its time to choose,my man would kill me if i was to do that, if you want to stay with her i suggest you tell her to get a job, and pay for the phone calls that you do not condone. And the Internet, them things aren't cheap,

H	She's involved in an emotional on line affair. Your marriage is in deep trouble. You need to cut off her phone and passcode the computer until you can get to the bottom of all of this

sereta zandrae	You must have been in your own little world or she wouldn't have been seeking comfort from someone especailly online.

patti p	go ahead and file for divorce, because it will come. she is most likely cheating if not now.... she will good luck

JebbieCakes	ya she got something on the side... online chatting is cheating to me.... how would she feel if you were doing that to her... i would just stop paying the bill if she wants it turned back on she will pay for it!

Dixie	Your wife and you really REALLY need to talk...Get rid of the phone...

J Dubble	If you're the one working, sounds like you have all the power. Cut off the phone. If she complains, threatens, and throws a fit, tell her to get a job and get her own phone. If she is bold enough to take you up on your offer, she'll be too busy working for that phone to have time to talk to anyone. End of story.

BlkBeauty24	Obviously u need to wrap her up, clean and smooth. Real talk, u need to divorce her and do it with no hesitations!

babycakes	THE HEFA IS CHEATING

thebigB	Well it sounds like she is having an emotional affair. Cheating isnt just sleeping with another man....she sounds like she really enjoys talking to him and I would put my foot down. You shouldnt be treated like that. If you allow it then of course she is gonna do it. I would very seriously tell her to stop and that if she doesnt then she needs to move out. She will stop if she loves you if she doesnt then there is no reason to keep on...she obiviously is in love with someone else.

fitzovich	You are married, an adult and you need to ask this question? Time to smell the coffee... ~

roxiecat4200	I would be angry if it were my husband...not because of the bills, just because of the fact that he was talking to another woman for that long.

Larry C	Time for a divorce. The sooner, the better for you!

â™¥â™¥The Queen Has Spokenâ™¥â™¥	Marriage Counseling... Your wife has a problem and you need to find out what you can do to help her.

(notso)Gloriouspipecleaner	Your wife seems unwifely, perhaps she has forgotten that she married you?

hollyanna25	This sounds a little fishy unless he is her psychotherapist or a family member.

curtisjb1983	she needs to go. I am usually anti devorce but it's obvious that she's too far gone.

Kelly773	either cut her phone off or have it marked "on vacation". Then get her to PAY ATTENTION and tell her you are outta there! She's playing you for a fool, Darlin'

Salami and Orange Juice	Yeah. You're in trouble. Time to lock down the bank account, cancel the credit card and start talking to a lawyer.

twosey â™¥	this is absolutely unacceptable. confiding in someone else is bad enough, but to do it with someone she's never met, and that you are uncomfortable is disrespectful to you and your marriage. she needs to stop this behavior.

Candy K	She's either cheating on you or getting primed to cheat on you. Take action and fast.

Joseph R	I would think that she is more interested in that guy than she is in me or if she has the opportunity she will in a heart beat cheat on me with him.

?	Yikes, thats bad. I'm sure you don't trust her anymore, rightfully so! No trust, no relationship. That is wrong on sooo many levels.

metal head	Dude, she is cheating on you. Whether she's met him in person or not, what she's doing is a total betrayal. Tell her to knock it off or pack up her stuff.

LuckyStar	i say cut off the phone connection in the house so she can't talk to him and then ask her what's going on...

j3nny3lf	Dude, that's fifty hours. You have serious marriage problems. You need to see a marriage counselor.

Jerry R	and your asking our opinion??? dude...wake up already..get his number, call him from another phone and leave a message saying your her dr. and she has an STD. and to report to the DR.. ASAP

Me	Unless its her dad. Dude you need to confront her.

mayihelpyou	Turn off the phone.